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1yummymummy4u
22 hours ago
Straight Female, 54
Straight Male, 50
Ireland

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We love ya dragon. Don't lets the bastards get ya down. The world is full of idiots and miserable gits they show up on this site from time to time. We've always admired your generosity of spirit and courage to be yourself. (ok and you have a cute bum says mr). "If it harms none, do what you will."
Have to agree with Eponymous. A lot of couples want to play with other couples as its only swinging and do not want any unwanted emotional entanglements. Its just easier that way, everyone knows who they are going home with after the parties not that they have anything against people who have casual relationships its just a lot less messy.
Mr yummy here. Good friends are difficult to find, especially of the opposite sex. I have several female friends who are very shag-able indeed smile I haven't of course shagged any of them and thats why we are still friends. They've been my buddies through the good , the bad and the ugly. Having a fems friends is great cos they don't do bullshit, they tell ya what you need to hear not what you want to hear.
People who nearly kill you with their overladen trolleys in the supermarket while rushing to get to the till that just opened in front of you as you. Like the four items in the basket are going to take forever to check out.
lean into the pram of a new born baby and say to the mother "thats a lovely little monkey you have there, did you catch him yourself"
Move all the traffic cones at the road works so the diversions do a cars end up doing a u turn. Or make the cones in to a big snake so cars can to gently weave down the road.
Mr yummy here. I can understand people not wanting to meet people too close to where they live. Ireland is still a pretty small place Theres a lot of crazies out there smile Also there is the matter of keeping your private life private which would be difficult if your neighbors knew you were swinging. Also as a couple people have said its not something you might want your kids/family/coworkers to find out about, especially if the kids are young and not adults yet. Theres also the fact that in many professions being "outed" as a swinger would cripple your career especially if you are in the public eye or in a position of trust where expectations of proprietry are more traditional. Turning up for an interview and seeing someone from the site interviewing you might be a bit of a shock. Especially if you had swung with them :embarrased2: There been some good advice about only sharing face pics with a limited set of people. Lifes short have fun as long as it not hurting anyone!!
nice I hink they did a better version of sympathy for the devill but killed knocking on heaven door. Johnny cash did a great version of owen personal jesus as well american 4 was a great cd.
Mr Yummy here. It depends on the cover. For example Nirvana do a fantastic cover of the Bowie song "Man who sold the world" Guns and Roses do a class version of Sympathy for the Devil by the stones. The sugar bebes version of under the bridge by the chilli peppers is a crime against music. You Shook Me All Night Long - Celine Dion and Anastasia ruining the ACDC classic There have been some awful cover for charity but for a good cause. Everybody hurts by REM was destroyed but at least it was for a good reason (Haiti disaster fund)
MR yummy here. Firstly I'm part of a couple that only meets couples. basically it boils down to everyone going home with who they came with after a good laugh. That doesn't mean that I have anything against singles especially as I used to be one smile. I do think that there seems to be some vendetta against single guys from some people here which is wrong. If my self and the boss were to organize a party we would be inviting couples,and singles. There are plenty of really great single guys here who would be a worthwhile addition to any party. Theres also plenty of fabulous single girls. This is a swinging site and its hard to impose your rules on group of people who are outside the social norm. Having said that if you cant see/handle your own partner with some else of the opposite sex then swinging is probably not for you. You need to be strong enough in the relationship with your partner that you can accept the fact they are with another person and really enjoying it. I think a lot of guys lie to themselves that its okay for some reason if their partner is swinging with a woman but not a man. Maybe its insecurity on the behalf of these guys, I don't know.
Thats a tough situation when you know someone is cheating. It gets more complicated if theres kids involved . What happens and you tell them and they don't believe you. You could end up loosing a friend. On the other hand if you don't tell them and they found out afterwards you knew you could end up in the same position. Also you need to be really really sure they are cheating. It may not sound PC but I've known people to have a brief fling and get back to their marriage. The partner in the end he was better off not knowing as they are still happy together. maybe I'm a coward but I'm not sure if I want to be the person who lets the genie out of the bottle. This is a swing site you are going to come across people for whatever reason want/engage in extra marital sex with or without their partner or their consent. What happens if you recognize some one from this site . It can get very messy.
Alan Your honest, that will always get you into trouble. But I admire your honesty. I'm a live and let live type of person but I can see that you get a bit of undeserved stick sometimes. There are always going to be hypocrites your not one of them but this is a swing site and what you say is right. Dont let the buggers get you down!
As the owner of several pairs of bedroom boots I'd have to say yes. Although they do sometimes get in the way. They make me feel sexy and well the guys do love them. But they are occasional wear if you know what I are not called FMBs for nothing!
top three driving peaves 1) telepathic indicator, i don't have a telepathic indicator receiver so use the indicator lights, helps also to use the correct one for the direction you are going. 2) Weavers, those drivers who are jumping from lane to lane for the sake of 20 metres and have the telepathic indicator installed. 3) Drivers who don't get overtaking safely, does not mean barely missing the oncoming traffic. This is why I get the mister to drive, I get too annoyed. sat nav just means men have an excuse for being lost like when they don't ask for directions they can now blame the sat nav smile.
Alan Its a nice idea. I know myself and the MR don't get out half as much as we would like to for meets etc. As most people have said most people are pretty careful about who they leave in charge of the kids. However some people have made some great friends here and would trust their kids with them. Then again there are plenty of people who want to keep the lifestyle separate from their other social interactions. This is quite understandable as sometimes it can be hard to explain where your new friends came from if there is no obvious connection. I live in a small town and my family are all around me and being erm concerned family(read nosey) they tend to ask a lot of questions. And well kids can spot a dodgey story a mile away and they hear everything so you need to be careful. To be honest I often feel like a member of a secret society or clandestine group. In the end they are our kids and they take priority. Theres a lot of sacrifices we make as parents but thats just the way it is as our parents did it for us and our children will do the same for their children if we have raised them right.
Alan Thats a very big cracker. Still its not the most unusual proposition I've got here smile Yummy
Didn't this start off as a thread about mature swingers smile Whatever mature means these days. I always think of cheddar cheese when i hear it. lifes short , have fun, be happy!
along4dride here , I think the male identity crisis was made up by men as an excuse not to do the dishes smile (disclaimer we have a dishwasher in case yummy reads this :) ) Seriously Things ave changed a lot in the last 10 years. Its going to take a longer time for that for people to get used to it. Especially men. However some things remain the same. Men and women are different but thats not a bad thing. I think that women now expect more in some ways from men like communication and emotional support and less of other things like financial support and security. Every relationship is different and what works for some doesn't work for others but we are getting to a point where its easier for those who don't conform to the norm to live their lives and this can only be a good thing. There are still some things that are the male domain such as carrying shopping bags, removing spiders/insects from the bath and world class sulking.
I once had an ex who got me a packet of ribbed condoms. They were ribbed for my pleasure apparently. Suffice to say they were left unused !
There a always a few guys standing round like spare pricks . :evil2: I think the no single guys thing can be a bit harsh sometimes. It depends on the party but having a wide selection of guys to choose from is something I ever complained about.
Virgo Girl Well I'm glad to see that your happier now. I'm sure you look Fabulous when you go out. Raven I can see men telling you what to do ,lol duel
Along4dride writing, Yummys partner in crime here smile I had a read of this and to be honest weather your going to a meet or going out wear what you makes you feel good. Everybody has different opinions on how much or how little clothing is appropriate. This is of course coming from the man with probably the worst style sense in the country if not the planet. We always want to look our best when going out. If you have great legs for example you are going to want to show them off. I have legs like a snooker table so are permanently hidden by trousers on nights out :) Its funny how we never seem to see conversations about men showing to much flesh. Everyone likes to feel attractive. /donning asbestos underwear for gross generalization/ Women are usually far more critical of what other women wear. This is probably because women generally have far more choice of what to wear out than men. Also Men are fascinated by breasts so any cleavage tends to distract them :) As the saying goes if ya got it flaunt and if ya don't flaunt it anyway. Life is short laugh often !