Babysitter Group/Club
From reading the forum replies it appears that many couples & single ladies would come out to play more often if they had good reliable (free) babysitting. Friends, family or the local teenager that usually babysit may wonder why you want to go out mid week or every other weekend, what-time will you be home, who are you meeting & whats the occasion? Never mind the questions about what you may be wearing, why were you out all night and who goes out in the afternoon?
So are there any couples and single ladies that would be interested in forming a babysitters group for like minded individuals in their own area. Obviously it would be based on the Irish meithil system ... Free gratis returning the favour ...
So if you want to go out... Who you gonna call? ... Swing Sitters...lol ... You know it makes sense.
( and yes I am a single male asking the question, no I wont be offering to babysit ... But I told a friend I would post a thread to see if there was even a smigin of interest)
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to clarify Vanity I expect that people would vet those whom they get to mind their children, my query related to the fact that site members can appreciate the difficulties of finding a sitter at short notice, understand that the return time may be variable and would be discreet.
As such they may be prepared to assist other site members with babysitting arrangements.
As such they may be prepared to assist other site members with babysitting arrangements.
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FIRST OF ALL ALAN PEOPLE LIKE TO KEEP THEIR SWINGING LIFE PRIVATE WELL AND GOOD IF THE INDIVIDUAL HAS BECOME A CLOSE FAMILY FRIEND.I MYSELF WOULDNT LEAVE MY KID WITH JUST ANYONE
Van I agree with you on this matter, it is not everyone I would leave my children with, it must be someone that’s trust worthy, and who my children are comfortable with. Now I cast no aspersions on anyone on this site when I say as nice as some ppl are, there would be no way I would leave my kids with anyone they have no clue about nor have ever met before.
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Van I agree with you on this matter, it is not everyone I would leave my children with, it must be someone that’s trust worthy, and who my children are comfortable with. Now I cast no aspersions on anyone on this site when I say as nice as some ppl are, there would be no way I would leave my kids with anyone they have no clue about nor have ever met before.
We totally agree. Why would we leave our children with anyone who they did not know or where not related to.
.....fair play to ye alan
Mrs LAlan your thread is a good idea in some ways....We have meet some lovely people from here and we have made a couple of good friends,one in particular who is a near neighbour and who I now consider a friend for life!!! So therefore we both know each other well and our children know each other so of course we would babysit if and when the need arises without any awkward explanations of where you are going who ya meeting etc etc,
How ever that is not the case with other people we have met and im sure its the same for them!!!I do not and would not just leave my kids with people I dont have an on going frienship/relationship with and Alan I know you are not suggesting otherwise.....I do think people here like us have made good friends that go beyond "swinging" so yes you can call upon them to help ya without having to resort to making up ficticious functions and various non exsistant parties that my babysitter(my mother)thinks we go too
So yes ya can call upon your circle of trusted friends from here to help ya in babysitting duties but otherwise dont think it will be a runner!!!!!
Mrs Doc;);)
So yes ya can call upon your circle of trusted friends from here to help ya in babysitting duties but otherwise dont think it will be a runner!!!!!
Mrs Doc;);) I am fortunate in that I no longer need babysitting services ... I was merely floating the idea for others to pick up ... obviously the finer details would need to be worked out ... & in this day and age I can understand the retisence of people to leave their children ... that said I know of or have meet some of the posters above and I would certainly consider them as or more reliable that the teenage neighbour that may babysit, & less questioning that a relative.
However it is interesting to see some support for the concept & it is perhaps something that site members may organise privately among themselves.
However it is interesting to see some support for the concept & it is perhaps something that site members may organise privately among themselves.
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Alan, it's a great idea.. thanks for thinking it. Maybe a non runner but great idea nevertheless. Hugs...
Sunny
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Warming the Bed
Alan
Its a nice idea. I know myself and the MR don't get out half as much as we would like to for meets etc. As most people have said most people are pretty careful about who they leave in charge of the kids. However some people have made some great friends here and would trust their kids with them.
Then again there are plenty of people who want to keep the lifestyle separate from their other social interactions. This is quite understandable as sometimes it can be hard to explain where your new friends came from if there is no obvious connection. I live in a small town and my family are all around me and being erm concerned family(read nosey) they tend to ask a lot of questions. And well kids can spot a dodgey story a mile away and they hear everything so you need to be careful. To be honest I often feel like a member of a secret society or clandestine group.
In the end they are our kids and they take priority. Theres a lot of sacrifices we make as parents but thats just the way it is as our parents did it for us and our children will do the same for their children if we have raised them right.
Master of Sex
good idea alan but i have to agree with sherri i would not leave my children with just anyone bonny
