Okay question I guess for the guys, and for the women ultimately as it concerns how we dress..lol..
When you meet someone for the first time, be it a single meet or a party, do you get turned on by women who wear really revealing clothes, or does the idea of not being able to see what is underneath turn you on?
Ladies do you like to hold something back, or do you go all out to reveal all?
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More is less .. or less is more?
Ye i heard that survey Marie.
Its a tricky one. I always preferred less is more in the bedroom but in company or out socializing and meeting somebody for the first time i think more is better, it keeps the head on its toes. I suppose why would less be more when meeting for the first time? Wouldn't that take away from the scent of a woman.
Sex God
I think them survey guys have it right, well in My book anyway. I think that if a woman was showing loads of flesh in public I wouldnt be comfortable, I like to have to guess what other pleasures lie beneath.
I think for a first meeting more is less ... you want to meet the person, see if their might be a spark ... us guys are easily distracted so if there is a lot of flesh, or very short or tight skirts... well the penis starts to control the brain...any sensible talk or thought goes out the window ... a shag is a shag ... regreats are for afterwards ... and definately no respect in the morning ... never mind a phone call ... so I would have to say ...make it like christmas ... nice wrapping paper hiding the surprise.
I love un-wrapping my presents...love the excitement of the surprise.
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I think for a first meeting more is less ... you want to meet the person, see if their might be a spark ... us guys are easily distracted so if there is a lot of flesh, or very short or tight skirts... well the penis starts to control the brain...any sensible talk or thought goes out the window ... a shag is a shag ... regreats are for afterwards ... and definately no respect in the morning ... never mind a phone call ... so I would have to say ...make it like christmas ... nice wrapping paper hiding the surprise.
I love un-wrapping my presents...love the excitement of the surprise.
Ah damn Alan so my short black dress that is low cut to reveal my bulging cleavage for the night out on the 11th is a nono :-?
Ah damn Alan so my short black dress that is low cut to reveal my bulging cleavage for the night out on the 11th is a nono confused
no Amberx that will be perfect...sure for us it will hardly be a first meet ... we have had so many virtual meets ....:evil2: ... & yes I will be distracted & look at your cleavage...:giggle: ... but then I will look in your eyes while we chat ....:eeek:
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us guys are easily distracted so if there is a lot of flesh, or very short or tight skirts... well the penis starts to control the brain...any sensible talk or thought goes out the window ... a shag is a shag ... regreats are for afterwards ... and definately no respect in the morning ... never mind a phone call ...
All that because you may have thought a woman dresed a tad too revealing for your liking???...I never thought I would read such chauvinistic clap trap on a swing site, that Sir is disrespectful to any woman who enjoys dressing to show off what she may feel are her best attributes. Judgement should not come from regarding ones clothing but what is in ones head, and whats in your head is very judgemental!!
mmm last time I looked we were living in 21st Century?? I love dressing to show my body and sure why not? I wear the boring jeans and stuff to work but like dressing up (or down) when out on the town. In fact on one occassion my meet commented on how he enjoyed watching me walk accross the room to him - had sexy black mini on - and that made me feel good. Dont think I would have felt the same in polo neck and trousers . Heres to digging out the sexy clothes for the 11th girls :cheers:
I beg to differ, when one uses the word definitely in a sentence and in the manner you did, it is an assertion of ones own thoughts and views, and not as you state merely expounding a stereotypical view of some hypothetical group of male’s you are claiming to spout such nonsense for. Don’t accredit me as a fool in believing that your attempt at back peddling is actually believable, or that your original post was in jest.
Sex God
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I beg to differ, when one uses the word definitely in a sentence and in the manner you did, it is an assertion of ones own thoughts and views, and not as you state merely expounding a stereotypical view of some hypothetical group of male’s you are claiming to spout such nonsense for. Don’t accredit me as a fool in believing that your attempt at back peddling is actually believable, or that your original post was in jest.
That told him!!!
Warming the Bed
Along4dride writing, Yummys partner in crime here 
I had a read of this and to be honest weather your going to a meet or going out wear what you makes you feel good. Everybody has different opinions on how much or how little clothing is appropriate. This is of course coming from the man with probably the worst style sense in the country if not the planet.
We always want to look our best when going out. If you have great legs for example you are going to want to show them off. I have legs like a snooker table so are permanently hidden by trousers on nights out :) Its funny how we never seem to see conversations about men showing to much flesh.
Everyone likes to feel attractive.
/donning asbestos underwear for gross generalization/ Women are usually far more critical of what other women wear. This is probably because women generally have far more choice of what to wear out than men. Also Men are fascinated by breasts so any cleavage tends to distract them :)
As the saying goes if ya got it flaunt and if ya don't flaunt it anyway.
Life is short laugh often !
I had a read of this and to be honest weather your going to a meet or going out wear what you makes you feel good. Everybody has different opinions on how much or how little clothing is appropriate. This is of course coming from the man with probably the worst style sense in the country if not the planet.
We always want to look our best when going out. If you have great legs for example you are going to want to show them off. I have legs like a snooker table so are permanently hidden by trousers on nights out :) Its funny how we never seem to see conversations about men showing to much flesh.
Everyone likes to feel attractive.
/donning asbestos underwear for gross generalization/ Women are usually far more critical of what other women wear. This is probably because women generally have far more choice of what to wear out than men. Also Men are fascinated by breasts so any cleavage tends to distract them :)
As the saying goes if ya got it flaunt and if ya don't flaunt it anyway.
Life is short laugh often ! Great post:laughabove:
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Along4dride writing, Yummys partner in crime here
I had a read of this and to be honest weather your going to a meet or going out wear what you makes you feel good. Everybody has different opinions on how much or how little clothing is appropriate. This is of course coming from the man with probably the worst style sense in the country if not the planet.
We always want to look our best when going out. If you have great legs for example you are going to want to show them off. I have legs like a snooker table so are permanently hidden by trousers on nights out :) Its funny how we never seem to see conversations about men showing to much flesh.
Everyone likes to feel attractive.
/donning asbestos underwear for gross generalization/ Women are usually far more critical of what other women wear. This is probably because women generally have far more choice of what to wear out than men. Also Men are fascinated by breasts so any cleavage tends to distract them :)
As the saying goes if ya got it flaunt and if ya don't flaunt it anyway.
Life is short laugh often !
At the end of the day it is about what makes yourself feel good...
Now I am 46 so I tend to dress classic style as it reflects my age and personality and I feel comfortable..
My fetish however is lingerie, and I adore how sexy it makes me feel and look...
For years I was with a partner who constantly put me down, crappy comments, 'God you look fat in that..ect ect ect..',
When I was single again, I realised one day for a woman in my 40's I have damn good legs, so I love showing them off, now the boobs could be bigger, so I won't often be found wearing really low cut dresses ect, but it simply doesn't matter..
As for men who don't call next day because of what women wear on a first meet...well last week I met a guy for the first time, when he arrived I was wearing lingerie, nothing
And I can tell you he has phoned many times!
Now I am 46 so I tend to dress classic style as it reflects my age and personality and I feel comfortable..
My fetish however is lingerie, and I adore how sexy it makes me feel and look...
For years I was with a partner who constantly put me down, crappy comments, 'God you look fat in that..ect ect ect..',
When I was single again, I realised one day for a woman in my 40's I have damn good legs, so I love showing them off, now the boobs could be bigger, so I won't often be found wearing really low cut dresses ect, but it simply doesn't matter..
As for men who don't call next day because of what women wear on a first meet...well last week I met a guy for the first time, when he arrived I was wearing lingerie, nothing
And I can tell you he has phoned many times!
Sex God
:clap: virgo girl
I`m so happy to see the ladys standing up for our kind. At the end of the day we will wear what we like to wear, it`s not like a bloke is going to take us home to meet Mammy now is it, so instead of men putting us down for how we dress, they need to remember they want us naked and on the flat of our backs and come on now men..do you lot really think you dress like super models???? Judge how you lot dress before you judge us women.
Warming the Bed
Virgo Girl
Well I'm glad to see that your happier now. I'm sure you look Fabulous when you go out.
Raven
I can see men telling you what to do ,lol 
To be honest us guys do have it easy, simply throw on a pair of jeans etc and we are sorted. Females do make the effort for varying reasons as posted above, but that said they wear what they feel both sexy and comfortable in, their choice, and it should never be assumed that the style of their attire is an indication as to what type of a lady that person is! Hope this sounds right? Its the lady inside thats important not what she is wearing.
Happylouth x x
Well said Happylouth, one does not judge a book by its cover, but rather by what’s inside. The horse manure that alan ball posted. “â€Allegedlyâ€â€, expounded thoughts from some assumed hypothetical group of men, whom he claims stereotype women in such a fashion, is something that belongs to a less enlightened era, and not in the 21st century, and most certainly not on a swing site. I’m delighted to see both women and some of the men on here refute such hogwash.
