Sex God
I've been to a few partys of late and have noticed that a greater number of men to women Ratio seems to produce the best results. Anyone have any thoughts on this?
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Best M/F Ratio?
Sex God
Quote by user=All-Attitude
i do agree here because being a femme that has organised parties in the past - unfortunately males tend not to show up and so have to invite more men than women just to try to get the ratio right.
but for me - 2/3 guys to a girl is about right
Thats a very Good Point you make All-Attitude, I have had the conversation with a few couples that like to meet with single males( Rare creatures that they are) and they have said its very disheartening the amount of single guys that are all talk and no trousers, making arrangements and then making very questionable excuses or rudely just not showing up with no explanation.
I once recall being rang the night of a meet and greet and asked did I know where the hosts could get a few single males to go as there wasnt enough of them!!!! the whole 'Lame Last minute excuses' Phenomenon was to blame.
But I am digressing off the main topic, Yes I think the ratio is ideal as most ladies in party scenarios like the attentions of two or more guys at once and the women as we know can go on non stop whereas us lads need to re-charge the batteries a few times during a party.
Casanova
Quote by user=marieandu4121
I'm glad someone noticed this - maybe there will be some easing of the 'no single guys' rules in future - and give the guys something to smile about! :giggle:
I as a single guy fully support Marie here and all others in this thread.
I do realise there are a lot of messers, but let me say, I find it personally disheartening when most of the parties state "No Single Guys".
And then the final straw, when you reply to a Party, to be asked to please send a photo to see if we like the look of you.:doh:
I know I may not be "model" status, but I do enjoy going to meet and greats and look forward to more......:thumbup:
Quote by user=dar4u
I do realise there are a lot of messers, but let me say, I find it personally disheartening when most of the parties state "No Single Guys".
Dar I always allow single guys to parties I have hosted, with that said a few that were invited to the last party let me down (luckily I had backup) and these would be the very ones who would beg for an invite.
Those that choose not to invite single guys, it is merely a choice of theirs, maybe if you coupled up with someone to go along with!
Quote by user=dar4u
And then the final straw, when you reply to a Party, to be asked to please send a photo to see if we like the look of you.:doh:
Again I always ask for a photo if I have not met nor saw that person before, who in all honesty will invite blindly someone to a swing party!
Quote by user=dar4u
I know I may not be "model" status, but I do enjoy going to meet and greats and look forward to more......:thumbup:
Well here's to the next Cork meet if the weather holds up it will be a great night
Titan
I would agree with the posters on here who say that the ideal ratio is 2-3 men for every woman.....Be it that those single males who say they will come, actually dont....or indeed just because we women know what we want, what we can handle and more importantly what we enjoy!!!!
Mjj x x
Warming the Bed
There a always a few guys standing round like spare pricks . :evil2:
I think the no single guys thing can be a bit harsh sometimes. It depends on the party but having a wide selection of guys to choose from is something I ever complained about.
Sex God
Yummy, as for the standing about like spare pricks bit, well not for too long I hope. I find that us guys...well unless we are between 19 and 25 need a small bit of respite time between bouts, the women can Kinda just while the night away regardless, I was at a party lately and one lady wore 4 of us out in an hour or so (and fair dues to her I may add.. lol we weren't wall flowers) so in that respect i think the slightly more males to females ratio works well. I know that some couples may not want meets like this but thats ok, horses for course, I find most guys that get to parties regularly have enough manners and cop on to relax and go with the flow and not all 'gang up' on a woman at once, which I imagine must be very daunting for some.
