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fjvm9
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 61
0 km · Dublin
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Hi Offalycouple...
Once your are involved in swinging....that is your badge ..i.e. the badge of swinging...otherwise you have another badge...e.g. go to parties ....don't do casual meets...la la la .... So In Bold... you are either a swinger or you are not..... but dont be depressed its only about 20% of people on swi are actually true swingers...most even the popular ones that you see are flirters......and usually end up in a relationship on here...
but thanks for answering..... rgds
fjvm
Hi Marie,
Cant fully agree with you on your post. Yes for sure all sex, whether via swinging.. with your gf/bf..wife,partner should be by consent. But I dont believe that is solely in the realm of swinging. In clubs,pubs..marts all over people meet..lie,spoof..whatever in the pursuit of sex/fun and yep for sure its mainly married men...and they do get caught, let people down etc...none of use can or should ever be the arbitors of that or take a high moral ground cause we are under the guise of 'swingers' .
Because then we can all use the 'Badge' of Swinger as a badge of convenience and catch all.
Honesty and mutual consent for intimacy or fun ..sex ..etc should always be based on respect and honesty ..whether inside or outside the swinging environment.
to quote the great Spike Milligan
People (Men) who live in glass houses, Should dress in the basement
Thanks for reading my comment.
rgds
F
Hey..
Sunday is for footie.. getting out with the kids..putting up the nets.. shouting at the referee.. jumping up and down when a goal is scored....and if a morning kickoff..then off to lunch..and read the papers...
and then..... new for this season.. watch Spurs win the league over a few heino's and a bottle of apples...
does it for me of a Sunday...
F
Simple...
If I get spam...or explicit in my inbox..on here ..in work.. on public mail..i just delete it.
However if it is from someone I have built up a rappore with and it doesnt work out...i am crude and just blacklist them.. so they become spam..
its a fact of life sometimes we are going to have to read offensive mails.
However if they become threathening to you,family or friends ....save the mails..,print..and report to the authorities...as you would any other threat..there should be zero tolerance to communications that you feel are offensive and threatening to yourself...
Just my two cents...
Kind Regards
Frank
Padds did you have to go to the doctor to get that one sorted..are you scarred for life...Jaysus... just ignore it lol...
I really dont understand... or maybe the workload is taking over your day...having to reject all those ...unsolicited advances...
I just employed a secetary to look after mine....maybe we can syndicate for a fee.....
kind regards
frank
When .. the oracles of the site (you know who you are...) group people into the same category...
I do NOT ..shunt mails to ladies all the time... I dont whisper...I dont not show.... I am fully Bi and proud....My Jokes arent goggled and sometimes are really not that funny..but they are my jokes...well that's enough for today....
But hey ...the question was asked...
Just try and be happy...
F
Hi Darknessfalls....
You make a very good point..and very brave of you to say...
Live4 ..has and is always courteous..and pleasant and responsive to all on here( sure in times when peeps have been ratty to her not so nice)..
Thats a lot more than can be said for the some of the pompous ..smart alec ..(think they are comediennes) ladies on here.....
sorry Live4 ..spurs did do the business last sunday.....
fjvm9
Hi Peeps,
I must say for me ....its totally a mood thing...i.e. the giver and receiver in sync....and enjoying.... if its sloppy..good...if its quick and intense it's good too...
can't agree with the earlier post..that some are better than other's..or mimicks a porno...
...just enjoy ...
cheers
F
xx
