Happy birthday kerrymale, I hope the bumps you get are all the sexy kind!
Brat ya! It's not that I don't like receiving mail. But I find the chat room a better means of communication, I can't think of one meet that I have had that has come about as the result of a mail, but old age is setting in the memory's not what it used to be.........I'm on site to meet or chat, so the email facility is one I don't have much call for. I only posted that so that it might be understood why some of us don't answer mail, more than happy to chat to you in the chat room as it's more effective.
Van, I've been offline for a while. Belated birthday kisses to ya xxx
Personally I don't reply to mail. Yes this seems rude but it's my own choice like it or lump it. Starting off here I always did but after a year or so I stopped. It got too much like a correspondence site and I was spending too much time playing email tennis that led nowhere. I make my connections in the chat room, anyone I have met has been through the chat rooms. These meets came about after long banter there.
I can't find a magic formula to help anyone make that connection. But I do find the 'click' term maddening. Those in that 'click' didn't join the site already knowing each other. They met here got on and formed friendships. They maintain contact with each other because they find they are real, trustworthy and are not short-term members. Since 2008 I have seen a lot come and go, for whatever reasons. There are people on the chat rooms that I will have the craic with and I couldn't even tell you what they look like, it's not necessary on a chat room. The chat room is the social hub of this site, to say you would rather spend your time in a bed room than a chat room perhaps isn't the right attitude. If you are in that much of a hurry to get into it a nightclub might be a better forum for you.
In general, I've said it before, when you come into a room don't just say 'hi' then complain you are being ignored....... who are you addressing that 'hi' to. Is it a whisper gone astray, are you replying to a whisper, is it a general hi to the room. Watch the chatters, see who seems the most approachable and would seem to be conducting most of their chat on the main room. Say hi to them by name and try to go from there. If the room is moving fast, don't take an ignored comment as a snub, it simply might have gotten overlooked in the lines of main screen and whispered text. As for not getting invites, sure how would you as an unknown entity, it stands to reason that those who are known and shown themselves as desirable guests will get priority.
At the end of the day each one of us was a newbie at some stage, we persevered and didn't let the supposed 'click' intimidate us. We all have our stories of what could have put us off...... I for one was too shy to chat on the main room for a long time. Then there was the rumour that I was a man........ but that's a different story!
I'd pay to see the jaw drop when they see her
Darlin I think Emily should make a few more appearances on cam, no doubt ye will be inundated then. Best of luck xxx
That's the course I did which incorporated word processing, data entry etc. In honesty there was practically no genealogy content but that may have been more to do with the fact we had no interest. If it's the practical stuff you want to gain from the course you can do this through library courses as far as I know free of charge also evening courses such as ECDL will also provide a lot of this content, which I believe you are entitled to attend free of charge...........
It's the end of the year hun, a notoriously bad time to look for funding on anything. New year new start, but I genuinely believe negative energy only attracts more negativity. Maybe make an appointment with your local V.E.C. and also local enterprise board. If you put a spin on it to look like it's a private endeavour you never know what they will come up with.
Explain to me what a Heritage course is?
I'm lost ......... is it really hotty?
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If it was the forum pages I had seen him looking at I think I would post a message here. Something along the lines of 'Desperately seeking hot guy from ..............' Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm perhaps you have just done that, have I blown your cover?
I'm not giving out......... oooops. I mean grab it if it makes you happy.
Don't ever limit yourself to normal 'parameters'. What's for ya won't pass ya and if it's here you find it so what!It is most certainly not a dating site, no-one comes on advertising for a significant other usually. I'm afraid anyone who comes with that desire is going to get hurt. Had you said you had been chatting for 3 days and felt you had something, then I'd say hold off on judgement, but you have had a successful meet. Perhaps spend a bit more time together before announcing it from the roof-tops that you are in luuuurv! Nothing worse than getting egg on your face.
But if you find you are happy with that person are you gonna cut them off because you met them here........... more fool you if you do. I'm sure you can come up with a good story between ye as to how ye met, think of a good one and pretend to meet for the first time in the next few days. People don't need to excuse themselves to others here, or worry that they aren't adhering to the 'true swingers code of ethics'. You are here for you, only you need question your behaviour.
I was at Colin Fry last night, the bugger must have astrally projected me there unbeknownst to me..............
The bloody dog has eaten the L out of my welcome mat........ all visitors are greeted by the statement.........'WE COME'.
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Let me be the first to post a humungus kiss and a massive fondle to lucy on her birthday tomorrow (Thursday). We loves ya girl xxxxx
OH NO, do not tease me with such fun to be had in the next county. Happy birthday darlin' xxx
"Will someone please think of the children?"
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i applaude you :clap:
