Better late than never; happy birthday to our lovely Joan even though it's a few days late we hope you had a lovely time xxx
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You should complete the image verification process on the above link in order that you can change our profile to that of a couple, very few people will take you seriously as a couple while you are on a single male profile
You should complete the image verification process on the above link in order that you can change our profile to that of a couple, very few people will take you seriously as a couple while you are on a single male profile
Quote by justforfun10
Ive noticed recently that people I know from s4i are popping up on my "people you may know" section of Facebook. This bothers me as I dont like aspects of my private life being known by my swing side of life...
Your browser/cookies etc are linking all sites not the sites themselves, it's not Swing4 or any other site nominating to highlight these profiles-in-common. You need to get in the habit of clearing your cookies etc, if on a laptop use private browsing. I am not a techie but as far as I am concerned it is our own equipment linking us like this and so the onus is on us to be careful. It's not just phone numbers, I recognise numerous swingers on my suggested friends list that I have never shared numbers with and wouldnt even be that closely linked with.
Quote by dublinexpat7" date="22 Apr 2015 17:49:59
Hi, there seem to be a lot of fake profiles posting ads. I think it would filter out a lot of the time wasters if there was a feature that said only verified (image or in person) profiles are allowed to post.
Apologies if this request has been asked and answered previously.
Cheers!
What if you're brand new and want to post an ad to meet and get verified, some genuine real users absolutely refuse to upload photos on a swing site. As a newbie I never photo verified as the criteria weren't ones I was willing to comply with but it was MONTHS before I got around to my first actual meet (and my first few meets I didn't do the comments thing). Plus it's a bit of a cheek to say to paying members that we're restricting their access to a service they subscribe to.
;) Put on your big boy pants and develop your own filtration system, it's very difficult to apply enough verification measures to suit everyone without potentially discouraging new members, members here have to take a degree of responsibility for authenticating who they are chatting to. If admin are aware a profile is fake it'll be dealt with, but I tend to veer away from restrictions that punish people until they prove they are innocent.
Your observation is acknowledged, I will bring it to Admin to see if there is any way we can try to address the fake ads, are you reporting these fake profiles, I haven't seen many abuse reports coming in about fake profile ads? Any report would be investigated quickly and maybe result in the ad being taken down before any other members are duped.
An online source states 'More than 400 people accidentally drown in the UK every year (one every 20 hours)' it's a shame that a tragic death is only newsworthy if some perceived negative association can be attached to the poor victim or those around him. The real headline is that a man died tragically due to an incident in water which may or may not be attributed to the consumption of alcohol. His sexual activity has no bearing on his death and his death certificate will likely list the cause of death as drowning/heart attack etc. The only way swinging can be even partially attributed to his death is if the sight of the naked woman in the pool brought on the heart attack! It really is a shame that the media is so desperate for print they lose all decorum and perspective. 400 deaths a year (if the stats are correct) and this is the only one I have any memory of seeing reported this year.
God forbid any of us crash and die on the way home from a party .... the headline will read 'Casual sex leads to casualty - from swinger orgy to R.I.P.'
God forbid any of us crash and die on the way home from a party .... the headline will read 'Casual sex leads to casualty - from swinger orgy to R.I.P.'
;) Firstly..... why have I never heard of this before? If it's real then 'OOOOOWWWWWWWWWW'.
Secondly...... definitely not for the squeamish, it cannot be unseen, I may unclench again some time in March! Don't blame me.
Thirdly........ Common household glass objects aren't intended as toys, maybe it's better to do a bit of online shopping for your extremes than have to explain some nasty lacerations to the nurses, doctors and observing medical student group in A&E. Look for the kitemark folks :shock:
Secondly...... definitely not for the squeamish, it cannot be unseen, I may unclench again some time in March! Don't blame me.
Thirdly........ Common household glass objects aren't intended as toys, maybe it's better to do a bit of online shopping for your extremes than have to explain some nasty lacerations to the nurses, doctors and observing medical student group in A&E. Look for the kitemark folks :shock:
I read the second comment in a different tone to you it seems, I read it as someone who enjoyed the mathematical slant and wanted to join in. While it was indeed your thread I don't think any harm was meant by it but then again I am in a fantastic mood today.
I too can get frustrated with the hijacking of what I find to be good threads, an interesting topic can get lost in the banter of other people and some private jokes conducted on a public forum. But that's the nature of the beast I'm afraid, if you were to try to find a positive in the situation you might notice that any post to the thread keeps it to the top of the forum and therefore more likely to be noticed.
I too can get frustrated with the hijacking of what I find to be good threads, an interesting topic can get lost in the banter of other people and some private jokes conducted on a public forum. But that's the nature of the beast I'm afraid, if you were to try to find a positive in the situation you might notice that any post to the thread keeps it to the top of the forum and therefore more likely to be noticed.
RE – Other Cancelled Gig
In the interest of not disappointing the “S4I Members”, that may have made advance arrangements to attend, another - now cancelled party, due to take place at the end of this month.
I-KANDI Swingers Club Limerick, would like to offer to honor, (subject to availability) ALL bookings for the other Party, at I-KANDI, whether paid or not, at NO COST TO PEOPLE ( S4I MEMBERS ) affected by this cancellation, financially or otherwise.
(There will be NO CHARGE to S4I MEMBERS, to switch over to the party at I-KANDI on the SAME DATE, and we will do our level best to accommodate as many as possible
This invitation applies to current “Swing for Ireland Members” ONLY. We only work with reputable swinging resources such as S4I. We feel S4I is a very good, well managed and moderated website, with a large following of high quality members.
Paragraph edited by Admin. This is the big boys' school - our decorum and discretion hold us above all others. ;) Hope all that attend have a great night.
Should any (S4I) MEMBER wish to go to I-KANDI on the 31st (for free) that had booked, the other gig CLICK
I-KANDI.... "Party like a rock star"
In the interest of not disappointing the “S4I Members”, that may have made advance arrangements to attend, another - now cancelled party, due to take place at the end of this month.
I-KANDI Swingers Club Limerick, would like to offer to honor, (subject to availability) ALL bookings for the other Party, at I-KANDI, whether paid or not, at NO COST TO PEOPLE ( S4I MEMBERS ) affected by this cancellation, financially or otherwise.
(There will be NO CHARGE to S4I MEMBERS, to switch over to the party at I-KANDI on the SAME DATE, and we will do our level best to accommodate as many as possible
This invitation applies to current “Swing for Ireland Members” ONLY. We only work with reputable swinging resources such as S4I. We feel S4I is a very good, well managed and moderated website, with a large following of high quality members.
Paragraph edited by Admin. This is the big boys' school - our decorum and discretion hold us above all others. ;) Hope all that attend have a great night.
Should any (S4I) MEMBER wish to go to I-KANDI on the 31st (for free) that had booked, the other gig CLICK
I-KANDI.... "Party like a rock star"
I'm only spotting this thread now. Take this as notice I am now monitoring this and ALL future interaction, take the bitching, sniping, ridiculous unattractive behaviour back to where it started, not on this site. From this point forward I am issuing notice the first person to snipe or be seen to make a dig at any other person shall be treated as the antagonist and it will NOT be tolerated. This is a swing site not the set of Mean Girls.
