Hi and welcome to the site! You may find you'd have greater success if you amend your profile to a couple account, people like to see the active participation of any woman who is to be part of any meet/scenario. Solo male accounts can't advertise as a couple on their profile or share pics etc of a female so you are limiting yourself from the outset.
Good luck :welcome:
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midnightchat
Over 90 days ago
Female, 47
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Too far for me at that time of year I'm afraid but if I was in a position to go I'd have liked a clearer picture of what you had in mind..... ie that it is an actual swing (play) party, what kind of venue - have you somewhere in mind or are you waiting to get numbers, what kind of numbers would you like to host for and a rough idea of a date?
I'm moving this post from the anything goes forum to the letsmeetup forum as you are talking about a potential event and those interested in meeting will be more likely to give this forum attention.
I'm moving this post from the anything goes forum to the letsmeetup forum as you are talking about a potential event and those interested in meeting will be more likely to give this forum attention.
I'd prefer not to see this forum move forward into a tit for tat spat , it's a pointless debate.
All of us validate meet 'n' greets as an event by our very presence, by requesting invites, by turning up and then generating huge commercial income for the venue, thus encouraging the hospitality industry to view us as a lucrative client base.
I don't think we -who attend meet 'n' greets - need to defend them. We were there and we know what huge successes they can prove to be. As swingers we vote with our feet (while we are on them), they aren't everyone's cup of tea and that's fair enough. The fact is there are reserve lists with people hoping with fingers crossed that someone drops out and they get onto the guest list.... we don't need to defend them; the facts speak for themselves.
While we might all want to show solidarity to our friends and organisers who pull it all together under coronary-inducing condtions sometimes, we don't need to, they can already stand proud on their success.
All of us validate meet 'n' greets as an event by our very presence, by requesting invites, by turning up and then generating huge commercial income for the venue, thus encouraging the hospitality industry to view us as a lucrative client base.
I don't think we -who attend meet 'n' greets - need to defend them. We were there and we know what huge successes they can prove to be. As swingers we vote with our feet (while we are on them), they aren't everyone's cup of tea and that's fair enough. The fact is there are reserve lists with people hoping with fingers crossed that someone drops out and they get onto the guest list.... we don't need to defend them; the facts speak for themselves.
While we might all want to show solidarity to our friends and organisers who pull it all together under coronary-inducing condtions sometimes, we don't need to, they can already stand proud on their success.
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Hmmmm we had a couple who got too drunk to play then they disappeared.... in the middle of the night......while we were alsleep, they just snuck out lol lol
Another lady fell asleep in the middle of play,:lol:
Maybe were just shite swingers :lol: :lol: :lol: :sad:
Stop arranging meets in the Narcolepsy chat room!
Carpet burns on the small of my back, which I burnt all over again just as they were starting to heal.
In the throes of passion suddenly realise I am still chewing gum, fling it aside without thought. Next morning wake to find I have somehow got it stuck in the back of my hair, and it's a BIG clump!
Went to reception to get parking validated having met a friend in Dublin for a lunch after a meet in that hotel the night before. I gave the rooom number when she said 'and the name........?' I stammered for a second as I only knew his first name, so embarrassing. She then called his name out to me and I said yes thats the room...... only thing is, I didn't even know his real FIRST NAME.
In the throes of passion suddenly realise I am still chewing gum, fling it aside without thought. Next morning wake to find I have somehow got it stuck in the back of my hair, and it's a BIG clump!
Went to reception to get parking validated having met a friend in Dublin for a lunch after a meet in that hotel the night before. I gave the rooom number when she said 'and the name........?' I stammered for a second as I only knew his first name, so embarrassing. She then called his name out to me and I said yes thats the room...... only thing is, I didn't even know his real FIRST NAME.
Booking the hotel in your name for a meet. Next morning did not feel like staying for the breakfast so left my half of the hotel cost with the guy............. about 3 hours later hotel phones me on my landline asking when I proposed paying the bill. Needless to say one irrate phone call later he agreed to phone the hotel and make payment but only because he 'really wanted to meet again'!!!!!!!
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Couple of points
1. Maybe it was a paid member who felt he/she/they were not getting anywhere and so decided to ruin it for everyone else ..
2. If only verified members can see the post on events coming up how would u suggest new people get involved ? A lot of members wont meet unverified people, they are always getting told (in the chatroom )to go to a meet and greet as its the best way to get verified ..
3. And speaking for myself here .. l am not willing to get verified and have it known who l met just to keep you or anyone else happy. The people l have met know and could verify me but l don`t feel its anyone else`s business. l like to keep it private ..
Mrs H
New site change suggestion...... I'd like a LIKE button!
Theyre already in existence kinda........ An online search shows them.... it's a market that is being facilitated.... widen your search key words if you arent getting anything. The local one I am aware of does day time rentals, handy since a lot of hotels won't let you check in before early afternoon, however, with a little searching you can find ones that give a room from 9am to 5pm. Not renting by the hour as such but still convenient........
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there are some (dublin) hotels that have a "day" rate... ie. not an overnight booking. do a search for dayuse-hotels
if you are looking for a "love hotel" as you get in Tokyo, Paris and other places, sadly that's not available yet.
M.
Not being in Dublin it's not been a consideration of mine and haven't paid much attention to the names I may have heard in the past, but I'm sure an online search will help you find room at the 'INN', it may not be a sprawling Plaza, a blonde girl called Paris might not be on reception but I'm sure whatever fun you have won't leave you Blu. .........
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The last time I checked, this is a Swinging Site all about providing a platform for bringing like minded couples together. I believe that singles play a very important role but.............
This is why I don't meet couples alone! Singles don't play a role, singles are here to equally interact and not to be introduced to a scenario like toys. Don't want to seem argumentative with you Carlos so I won't comment on this again; but as a single I do feel like someone just tried to put us in our place and I strongly object. Best meets I have are where everyone present, be it two or four or more people feel that their enjoyment and participation is equally as important as any other party there. When you bring a man to your relationship, you both have just as much responsibility to ensure his enjoyment as he has to you.
Goodnight Vienna, from a lesser being xxx
