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Over 90 days ago
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Quote by bivirgin25
totally agree Dee-n-jay with all ur suggestions
im not trying to put the site down..def is one of best out there and has potential.
I work on web sites myself and know that websites need to be maintined and freshened up every now and again...and thats what i feel about this one is that its a bit outdated and stale...especially since people pay for extras
would be great if there was a suggestions page
as a newbie issue i have is that the newbie room has a feel of being a wee click.
its the same 10/11 people on ther everyday and its hard to interact..not that everyone is not nice..just they know each other so well.
would love to see these sites where u can give someone a rating..kind of like ebay feedback..therefore everyone would know if someone is a time waster or not
Feedback and suggestions are always welcomed as a positive, there is absolutely nothing stopping you from emailing a mod or admin directly to make this suggestion, there's no dfference between typing it on a suggestion page, creating a post on a forum or emailing it.
There is a rating system, it's the comments section where other members verify and comment on you. I'd prefer to read a commentators personally chosen words than count stars, so in essence it would be the introduction of a lesser feature in place of a more personal one. (IMO). Negative feedback cannot be allowed i.e. a zero rating as the rating is borne from an off-site experience, we can't police it and can't allow people to make unsubstantiated negative remarks. Just because Joe Soap ticks a box to say Contrary Mary is a time-waster does not mean it's necessarily true.
I can accept the chat room can seem a bit hard to break into, there is no one quick fix though it seems. Open a newbies room exclusively and they sit there not chatting to each other. Without being able to interact with other established swingers then why do they bother committing to the site, arranging meets etc. If you open a newbies only room, sure the majority are going to leave it to come see how the other members interact on the other rooms.
I'm afraid it's hard to keep everyone happy, I'd suggest that you just bear with it for now and see what the site changes bring.
Quote by Dee-n-Jay
Just wondering how many other cpls find this site a waste of time? Yes there are some very nice sexy peiple here but they are in the minority!!!!!
I think your post got most attention when it became known you opened the discussion by saying the minority of our members were 'very nice sexy peiple'. So by that logic the majority are............ ??? Trust me views are no indication of agreement. It's an antagonistic approach and I'd imagine it served to alienate more than it brought on-side. You made no reference to the set up of the site, no discussion of your disatisfaction with features or chat rooms, as such it read to me you were complaining about the standard of members you are encountering as opposed to the standard of web-site you are accessing. Your post composition created this impression.
It really is dis-heartening to see relatively new members take this approach and essentially shoot themselves in the foot. While you may have felt you received support from members mailing you who were too afraid to post in agreement, I'd wonder if the post itself was worded in such a poor way that they were reluctant to associate their name with it.
Anyhow, you've cleared it up now, it's the site itself you are complaining about not the members (apart from their personal choice of chat topic).......... you've been advised that there are upcoming site changes, patience is a virtue, case closed.
Quote by Wilder
I'd like to suggest you reconsider not inviting single guys to your party. As a non newbie myself (far from it) I'd not be eligible but I think in order to get a mix of people you need respectful single guys along.
A mix of couples and fems alone doesn't always work, it depends on who's being invited of course and getting the right ratio is far from easy. That's just my experienced opinion from what I've seen at many parties, I'd suggest you reconsider your decision on that matter. Feel free to PM me if you'd like me to expand on any of that.
I hope the party goes very well for ye though, have a blast! May your journey here be a fun filled one!!
Wilder
While it's none of my business what the selection criteria is I'm just using this post as an avenue to put forward a take on this for other potential organisers - not aiming it at the OPs. As a single female I don't really go to things that are couple/fem only events don't like that kind of mix so no great draw there for me and having attended events can say that the single guys aren't the only badly behaved demographic. I actually can't think of any party I've been to that hasn't had single guys. Oh and for the record, I don't join site groups that exclude single guys either. If it wasn't for the fact I had good experiences with the single guys I met when I joined this site, attending parties would not have become a natural evolution for me.
Quote by returning-home
Hi we would like to host a party for newbies. we have never hosted a party before. we love the excitment and even after a few encounters we still get pretty nervous so prefer newbies over seasond swingers.
hope to hear from some people and nail down a date.
Fantastic to see something like this being held, best of luck and hope it's a massive success!
Quote by cheekyguy101
Hi we would like to host a party for newbies. we have never hosted a party before. we love the excitment and even after a few encounters we still get pretty nervous so prefer newbies over seasond swingers.
hope to hear from some people and nail down a date.
I love to get invite to your amazing party.
It's for newbies..............
Rhino's right, the resource allocated to old posts is minimal. If I deleted this post it would simply be replaced by the one directly after it which is only bringing even older posts to the fore. There are 250 pages of forum posts in this section alone..... If I was to take the time to delete 100 pages (which I have no intention of doing - it involves far more time than I think is generally understood) we would be looking at posts from 2011.
I suppose we could start deleting from the end but in honesty I'm not quite seeing the point here..... If a person is reading old forum posts it's because they are going to the older posts themselves and choosing to read them, deleting them is not going to provide new material to read? Sorry I'm genuinely not dismissing what has been said I just don't quite understand the reasoning behind it. Is it just that it is felt it's a matter of good house-keeping? Is it possible that it's annoying that new content is not being added more so than the content is old?
If old posts are getting annoying then post new content to the forum and move the posts along that way.
I suppose we could start deleting from the end but in honesty I'm not quite seeing the point here..... If a person is reading old forum posts it's because they are going to the older posts themselves and choosing to read them, deleting them is not going to provide new material to read? Sorry I'm genuinely not dismissing what has been said I just don't quite understand the reasoning behind it. Is it just that it is felt it's a matter of good house-keeping? Is it possible that it's annoying that new content is not being added more so than the content is old?
If old posts are getting annoying then post new content to the forum and move the posts along that way.
No the join date does not confirm that they are free members, but at that stage if you wish to initiate contact and seek confirmation from them if they are in fact fully subscribed its a less offensive action than branding profiles with letters. I for one would object to this if it were applied to my profile as my payment arrangement with this site is between me and Admin and no one else.
I absolutely would not dispute your right to air your opinion, but my opinion is that it read in a negative tone especially to any new members who are now signed up and considering committing to the site fully. As members you are absolutely entitled to query the changes, but as Tempt said, céad míle fáilte novices. X
I absolutely would not dispute your right to air your opinion, but my opinion is that it read in a negative tone especially to any new members who are now signed up and considering committing to the site fully. As members you are absolutely entitled to query the changes, but as Tempt said, céad míle fáilte novices. X
I'd suggest you read the profiles, if you note the joined date that will most likely answer your question without the necessity of referring to people as 'freeloaders'. I'm stunned by the negativity. New people, new chatters, new swingers........ where's the harm? The new members here do not have the same access as everyone else, Freebie members cannot:
*View cams
*Initiate a whisper
*Move to any other room, including private rooms
*View pics set to adult in profiles or enlarge pics
*Send mail
If you don't wish to be in a room with non-paying members, as paying members you have the facility to change rooms. I think the initiative of providing access on a limited basis to encourage new members to join and stay is of us have enjoyed free proiles ourselves at one stage or another.
*View cams
*Initiate a whisper
*Move to any other room, including private rooms
*View pics set to adult in profiles or enlarge pics
*Send mail
If you don't wish to be in a room with non-paying members, as paying members you have the facility to change rooms. I think the initiative of providing access on a limited basis to encourage new members to join and stay is of us have enjoyed free proiles ourselves at one stage or another.
My personal opinion, I choose not to comment on Cruiser's choices a) because it's none of my business and b) he's not the only one on here playing away from home.... to comment on him might prove to be a comment about people I know on this site. Good luck Cruiser - it's unlikely anyone is going to respond with an offer on this forum now but I hope your inbox has a few nice responses.
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