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midnightchat
Over 90 days ago
Female, 48
0 km · Mayo
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That's it Virgo, and I hope that newbie understands that if your conversation is moving fast on main chat and you are whispering a few people at the same time the room text literally flies up the page sometimes. It's so easy to miss a greeting or say to yourself I'll answer in one second and then remember 10 minutes later that you didn't. Someone going to the trouble of saying hello is never unwelcome and I'd find it hard to believe this would be deliberately ignored. Also a simple post of hi I probably wouldn't answer as I would be unsure if it was directed at the room or someone in particular.
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Hi all, joined up to site a couple years back but never got into anything. I decided recently to come back on and check it out. Seems a lot more activity these days. I have never gone to parties or anything so still no experience of this.
I am quite interested to get into parties etc. though as I am bored with the usual social scene in my life at the moment. I am quite shy however but think I could get into some activities. Anyone wanna talk to me give me a message, even just some friendly advicethanks!
HI morby and welcome back. Hope you get what you want and it is a wonderful experience for you.
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maybe has already happened alot of females who dont like 'wank cam' will stop clicking on cams altogether thus ignoring genuine guys.
Who are these maybe females who don't turn on cams at all now? Or is this hypothetical. I think that us females would sometimes be credited with being a little more sensitive than we actually are...........
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I just think if a guy can't get a girl himself then why does he think he can have somebody's Else's I can tell you is the main thing with single males as I have spoken to other guys who like me are part of a couple.
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Are you serious???? So you can play with the single fem but your other half can't with the single male. Or you will attend a party with a single fem but not a single male. Interesting thought process........It's not for me to question people's choices or their rules of play but as a single female here I take offence to that. If I can't get a man why should I expect to play with someone else's.
I heard through the sometimes vicious grape-vine that married friends of mine were swingers. I was intrigued but couldn’t approach them to discuss it without causing great upset. I genuinely wanted to because the idea appealed to me. I couldn’t shake the curiosity and in the end I used a search engine and looked up swinging in Ireland. One of the options was Swing4Ireland and I looked at this reference.
Of course to have a proper look around you need to have a profile so I registered. I was so naive I genuinely expected to look up profiles from my county and find pictures of my friends; needless to say I was disappointed. But I continued looking around the site, the first few times I ventured into the chat room I was just being nosey, getting a feel for it. With a big paranoid head on me I legged it any time anyone said hello to me. I eventually started chatting, I eventually made friends, and I eventually started to meet............. my biggest regret? how long I spent procrastinating and the wasted time and opportunities as a result. For anyone just browsing; just do it, jump in with both feet. You know what you want, you know what you are comfortable with, and no one else is going to find it for you......... just do it. As far as I am concerned finding my fun in here is far more satisfactory than a random hook-up from a night-club. Why swing (or use a swing site), for the greater discretion and choice it provides me.
Of course to have a proper look around you need to have a profile so I registered. I was so naive I genuinely expected to look up profiles from my county and find pictures of my friends; needless to say I was disappointed. But I continued looking around the site, the first few times I ventured into the chat room I was just being nosey, getting a feel for it. With a big paranoid head on me I legged it any time anyone said hello to me. I eventually started chatting, I eventually made friends, and I eventually started to meet............. my biggest regret? how long I spent procrastinating and the wasted time and opportunities as a result. For anyone just browsing; just do it, jump in with both feet. You know what you want, you know what you are comfortable with, and no one else is going to find it for you......... just do it. As far as I am concerned finding my fun in here is far more satisfactory than a random hook-up from a night-club. Why swing (or use a swing site), for the greater discretion and choice it provides me.
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