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eponymous
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 56
0 km · Wexford
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There are certain words...i will of course not say what they are...and a "privileged" few have sussed them out so please don't tell..anyway if i hear them i want to crawl up inside myself. They are not commonly offensive words in fact to most people they are just harmless but to me kryptonite.:O
TheStig11,
The point i believe aurorablue is making is that yes, you may discuss the general issue and that is in fact why the thread was left open. However, discussing specific users either by mods or regular users after their case has been moved on to admin and also when that user is no longer here is unacceptable.
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Amber,
The reasons that a member is banned may be confidential, but Im sorry, the reason this particular member was banned rings out loud and clear!
The reason this member has been banned is not clear and it will not be made clear. As Amber has said that is confidential.
As admin has stated this thread has now been reopened and all opinions are welcome. But as he also stated,
So whilst something may appear to be black and white on first reading you are not getting the whole story and only knowing half of the truth makes it pretty tricky to make an informed opinion.
Others have implied it, but i'm coming right out and saying it. I can't for the life of me figure out why only a handful of users insist on continuously stirring things on these forums. I don't see it as productive in any way. As the matter is now water under the bridge, I would hope this thread is allowed to die it's natural death.
Biggles, if i may, I'd say the intention of your original post was to rant. So why do we not just leave it at that?
What is this "golden circle"... some form of water sports?
And yes I know this will be lost on the people who really need to read this but........
As a general statement of fact....the rules on this site were for the most part put in place due to popular demand. The whispering rule is one in particular. Unwanted whispering annoys people. It disrupts chat, thereby disrupting the chat experience for all.
Yes, the rules can be abused by both sides. But it's the spirit of the rule which is important. The idea is to prevent annoyances. Mods do not enjoy kicking people. If we had our way we would never kick anyone.
Whispering is a good feature when used properly and with manners. Turning them off should be a last resort.
Broken record over now....
I agree Slightly. That was mean spirited. Suitable for a divorce attorney or bitter ex deliberately trying to make someone look bad. Sounds like that person Mona is referring to has their own serious hang-ups. That said...married folk have sex...possibly wild monkey sex with their kids in the house all the time. Single parents no different. It's a matter of being discreet. They also have friends over for drinks etc...nothing abnormal for kids to see. It's common sense really.
PS Midnight, it's true... we really could use about a hundred or so of you in the government. :sticky:
I think the big difference between a bit kinky and just plain wrong is the difference between pain and injury.
What that guy was proposing was inflicting injury on this woman. I don't feel that anyone would consent to be injured. As mentioned above, there are too many red flags that say this is not consensual.
As for the OP, it's difficult to make the proper call in a highly weird situation like this so don't be hard on yourself. Hopefully, this thread can even open up some eyes and give us all a bit of knowledge toward preventing or stopping this kind of abusive behavior. There is no difference between domestic violence and any other sort. It's all violence.
I think only in the event of injury or damage would Possibly want to do it. Not just because I'm was not happy with what nature gave me. A great majority (I know not all) of natural issues can be fixed naturally. That's just me personally.
I think the most major problem with plastic surgery is the ethos of the surgeons. Not all are from the same cloth. The likes of Pete Burns should have never been allowed to go that far. But when you have a few pounds in your pocket you will always find some doctor willing to just about anything.
Or like Mickey Rourke...he wanted to repair some facial damage he received from boxing and ended up looking like Pete Burns' sister. I guess the bottom line for me is only if truly necessary.
