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alex_kink
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 43
0 km · Dublin
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Warming the Bed
Thats if they even read your email in the first place. Have to disagree here...while im all up for manners and proper etiquette in the right place people dont owe you jack shit....and that includes politeness.
Another way you can see it is by mailing somebody you are entering their personal space so YOU better be polite.
Warming the Bed
Yes I remember and I dont see any inconsistancy between what I told you then and what im saying here. The policing of the site should be done in the proper way... if theres a serious problems mods etc can deal with it. If you want to moderate then get a badge and do it.
As an additional point who here feels the modding should only be done by people with badges?
Warming the Bed
Ok..here goes.
Having thought about this a bit more I cant really see a justification for having a dig at single guys. .. its just way too big a generalisation.
This is not an excuse for sleazy behaviour at all I just think its more a call to reason.
For one theres proper facilities here for policing this site (a lot more than most) and nobody wants to see this be imposed more and more.. I think you would agree. If a particular situation arises then the mods and admin can deal with it... they clearly have the power to ban people. Recently lots of people been having a go at single guys but I think it would be a mistake to breed this culture. The fact of the matter is lots of cpls and fems would want to see a cpls/fems only site but thats not what this place is. If thats your particular point of view youre in the wrong website, but even at that, a site like that I don’t think could exist for very long.
Swinging not only involves following your own interests but having a glimpse at all sorts of different sexual behaviours.. the most simple and obvious one being lots of guys actually would fuck ANYTHING that is moist and warm. This is quite a shock to some people actually. Im sorry for this woman but it could be the case that one line of a strong come-on could have been enough to send her over the edge. You simply don’t know and I think it would be wrong to surmise.
Women I know personally do have a go about the over bearing thing sometimes and thats perfectly legitimate but you don’t see them leaving the site. They tend to have a degree of understanding about it and can manage it. I find (just my experience) the women who are more genuine tend to be the ones who can handle whats going on around them. Nobody is here to scare anybody off but they not here to hold anybodys hand either (I know some people do). People who use these type of sites have to come to the plate with something and the first thing is being able to manage people... YOURSELF....I think anyway.
People are always looking for external reasons...why are there not enough women, why am I getting harassed, why do all these people argue. I think youll find you can change a lot about yourself with what youve got and when that happens these things will turn around quite quickly for you and youll be able to extract what YOU want from the site. Thats just the way I view online behaviour. A lot about it is looking after yourself emotionally and if youve cant find your own space that youre comfortable with then maybe its case that this particular place isn’t for you. Theres that old and very wise saying you attract what you give out and I think its particularly true on the net.
So unless theres a real exodus of women from this site I think we shouldn’t do it down... its only gonna breed a contemptuous and split community. People should be more prepared to grow a thick skin rather than pander to sensitivities. Just my point of view...call me unPC all you like.
Again id like to say im not advocating sleazy behaviour... I just think singling out one case is a bit like not seeing the wood from the trees.
Warming the Bed
Quote by user=bikerduo
Regardless of how many or few guys are on here it is the women on here who rule.
Well, while I do totally agree that its not good to have sleazy guys knocking around I think this statement highlights another type of guy who lurks around the chatrooms and who some women find equally unattractive - the "arse licker". Not saying all... just some
And while im not saying you are an arse licker I think this statement does crystallise quite neatly an infectious attitude of all the over compliments and the nicely, nicely approach. Not my thing but all power to you guys. Warming the Bed
Quote by user=hornydubcpl4
I d either be a lemon because of its hard outer skin but tangy and sharp taste... but very very juicy or a Nectarine - A hairless form of peach which is very juicy also but hairless and smooth lol
mmmmm you must be refreshing when going down. That be nice!
