It occurs to me that I never introduced myself before I started chatting and posting.
I'm currently a single male who finds himself in a new part of the world and looking to meet some people both for friendship and/or swinging in Wexford.
I'm interested in chatting to people from everywhere but particularly nearby counties to get to grips with the scene down here.
I guess I'm here for the same reasons as everyone else; I have a very high sex drive and I hope to find similar people on the site.
I'd like to hear about some of the experiences of members on the site (good & bad) to know what to expect and what to be careful of as most of my experience with swinging is among established friends.
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Utopian
Over 90 days ago
Bi-curious Male, 42
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Sorry a follow up to that:
I thought that was a question about general swinging. Dogging tends to depend who you meet on the day kind of thing. Just remember the cardinal rule: No is very definitely no.
Some dogging couples will enjoy having a single male in some capacity; watching, taking part as a threesome or having the male partner watch.
If they say you can do A but not B - don't push your luck and try for B.
Hi brekky, you'll certainly find it a lot easier if you have a partner but that said some clubs will allow a limited number of single men. In my limited experience most will be vetted before the meet through a series of photos and general its in a venue like a holiday home or hotel they might sometimes be asked to help cover a greater part of the bill.
My suggestion is maybe try to meet a single woman who has listed that they are looking for single men and if you get on you might end up going as a couple. It worked for me for quite awhile and there's a much lower risk of jealousy becoming an issue when you first meet on the grounds that you are both swingers.
I've had similar experiences with jealousy - even in relationships that started from swinging/casual arranged meets.
My advice is: if she's jealous. Just try to start with sex in the same room as another couple or perhaps if you are secure about it then watch her with another couple (provided they are okay with you being there but not involved - it's not usually an issue). If she enjoys it and you really are still okay with it she may start to consider it but the truth is that it really isn't everyone's cup of tea and if you aren't into it being pushed or harassed into it can be REALLY bad for a relationship.
Oh and welcome by the way
I'd love to be involved with something like this.
I'm currently looking for someone with similar interests to become regular swinging partners with. Unfortunately the girl who was meeting with me for parties has gone back home and I'm finding it hard to meet someone suitable.
My real interest is in group sessions and jealousy seems to become a big part for a lot of girls who are regular partners. I don't know if you are interested in accepting single men but even if you aren't I'd love to be considered in the event that I do find someone.
