newcouple

28 Oct 2009

hi would love to chat to any mature couples new to the scene ,me ok with swapping sharing wife says she would be jealous is this norm

29 Oct 2009

:welcome:

29 Oct 2009

I've had similar experiences with jealousy - even in relationships that started from swinging/casual arranged meets. My advice is: if she's jealous. Just try to start with sex in the same room as another couple or perhaps if you are secure about it then watch her with another couple (provided they are okay with you being there but not involved - it's not usually an issue). If she enjoys it and you really are still okay with it she may start to consider it but the truth is that it really isn't everyone's cup of tea and if you aren't into it being pushed or harassed into it can be REALLY bad for a relationship. Oh and welcome by the way

11 Nov 2009

:welcome:i think ye both should discuss what ye want from swing first .