Sadomasochism, better know as S&M, is pleasure in the infliction of pain or humiliation upon another person. A step too far maybe? or is it a trust thing? Can you understand it?
Obviously your pain barrier shoots through the roof when highly stimulated and wouldn't be un-normal not to feel someone nails down your back or nibbling other areas. So is S&M just a more intense side of the pain barrier thingy? Is enjoying pain and sex together pushing it too far and maybe opening doors in your head that's better off left well closed?..............What would i know sure im just a silly man.
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Sadomasochism.
Quote by user=numberseven
Sadomasochism, better know as S&M, is pleasure in the infliction of pain or humiliation upon another person. A step too far maybe? or is it a trust thing? Can you understand it?
Obviously your pain barrier shoots through the roof when highly stimulated and wouldn't be un-normal not to feel someone nails down your back or nibbling other areas. So is S&M just a more intense side of the pain barrier thingy? Is enjoying pain and sex together pushing it too far and maybe opening doors in your head that's better off left well closed?..............What would i know sure im just a silly man.
It is a trust thing certainly, there are many forms of s & m some quite tame others quite dangerous so you do need to trust the person who is the dom in the situation and a safe word is a must or if your gagged a body movement. For many the pain aspect is a very sexual turn on but it can go too far sometimes so if anyone is going to try s & m the best advice i can give is discuss it first.
I have had some good, but many more bad experiences with s & m. So caution and safety are a must. And if a person cant take a light spanking s & m is not for you.
Ye its deffo a trust and communication thing alright. A slight bit of pain during sex can be great (nails, nibbles, scratching, squeezing, pulling) but when you get into the harder stuff, it can only be done in a controlled environment i suppose with a trained eye and hand. Personally i belief that S&M is a fantasy for a lot but only some act on it. I think in many cases with the untrained eye or hand its better off been left as a fantasy and not acted upon.
Warming the Bed
Hmm, it's simple really. The more aware you are of 'the moment' the better you appreciate it. The mind is the the most important organ... Nothing focusses the mind on physical stimuli better than pain. Hence a deeper understanding of one's bodily reactions and so on &c you get what I'm saying I trust
This one time in booth camp lol......
Yes i had a very bad experience with S%M and i'm willing to share with my new best of bestest friends on swing.
I met a girl one wet dark miserable evening (sorry nor relevant), went back to her place (at this stage i knew very little about S%M)I just thought it was short and backwards for Marks % Spencer's (stop laughing).
Anyways entered her house (not sexually), she poured me a drink with a little fizzy tablet in it (she said they were magical beans) sure i couldn't be rude and refuse it.
I was then introduced to Ruffos he said he would mind my money and credit cards, Ruffos was a 7 foot, skin head mentalist looking person (her Gay nanny she told me but she hadn't got any kids, i was starting to wonder to myself "Rufoos that's a weird name"). Went upstairs and long behold (long-behold is her dog) was lying there licking he's nuts with as miniature S&M costume on (something wasn't adding up). Into the bedroom we went (decorated spaciously and therapeutically) She tied my hands, feet and stuffed a juicy galla apple (sorry not relevant) in my gob and tied a leather strap around my head.
I was quick enough to ask her for a safe word though (i aint no thicko) yes she said, your safe word is SuperCalifragilisTicexpialiDocious, then say it backwards. Ok but is that SuperCalifragilisTicexpialiDocious with an I or an E..............Actually that didn't happen... sorry...My babbling alarm is broke.
Master of Sex
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Seven i`m lost for words:gagged:
that's a first !
Quote by user=numberseven
This one time in booth camp lol......
Yes i had a very bad experience with S%M and i'm willing to share with my new best of bestest friends on swing.
I met a girl one wet dark miserable evening (sorry nor relevant), went back to her place (at this stage i knew very little about S%M)I just thought it was short and backwards for Marks % Spencer's (stop laughing).
Anyways entered her house (not sexually), she poured me a drink with a little fizzy tablet in it (she said they were magical beans) sure i couldn't be rude and refuse it.
I was then introduced to Ruffos he said he would mind my money and credit cards, Ruffos was a 7 foot, skin head mentalist looking person (her Gay nanny she told me but she hadn't got any kids, i was starting to wonder to myself "Rufoos that's a weird name"). Went upstairs and long behold (long-behold is her dog) was lying there licking he's nuts with as miniature S&M costume on (something wasn't adding up). Into the bedroom we went (decorated spaciously and therapeutically) She tied my hands, feet and stuffed a juicy galla apple (sorry not relevant) in my gob and tied a leather strap around my head.
I was quick enough to ask her for a safe word though (i aint no thicko) yes she said, your safe word is SuperCalifragilisTicexpialiDocious, then say it backwards. Ok but is that SuperCalifragilisTicexpialiDocious with an I or an E..............Actually that didn't happen... sorry...My babbling alarm is broke.
:clap::rotflmao::clap: " Personally i belief that S&M is a fantasy for a lot but only some act on it. I think in many cases with the untrained eye or hand its better off been left as a fantasy and not acted upon."
Yeah Agree totally Numberseven - light slapping hair pulling sometimes very sexy but dont think I would like the feeling of losing control to someone else though. Now where would you like me to slap you Numberseven?? :smoke:
Yeah Agree totally Numberseven - light slapping hair pulling sometimes very sexy but dont think I would like the feeling of losing control to someone else though. Now where would you like me to slap you Numberseven?? :smoke:
Master of Sex
lol lol seven did u take a fizzy tablet wen u wrote tat lol lol :cheers::smoke::P
:O:uhoh: Master of Sex
yes id like to no wher u got those tablets to n can we share them lol
Foook off lol....That's the last time ill ever run out of them fantastic cool and sophisticated lengths of scrumptious nicotine, you'd nearly think they were addictive. Love smoking. I look pretty dame cool as well when i've got a fag in my mouth. Nothing like it...........Nite Nite.
Love this short quote.
By the time you swear you're his,
Shivering and sighing,
And he vows his passion is infinite, undying -
Lady, make note of this: One of you is lying.
To get involved with power exchange a person must be really sure its something they want to explore. It definitely is a process of the mind and involves major trust. Ideally first timers should find someone with experience as an inexperienced person may not be able to read body language and by pass boundaries set in place. Its not just about control of the sub but about the Dom/Domme controlling themselves also. It’s a slow process and not for the faint hearted, but with the right person it can be an awesome experience and an addictive one :evil2:
