I m just here to have a little say about the fakes on the site which makes it unfair for the genuine females , males and cpls on the site. Many ppl have been giving the run around at some stage or another whether on this site or another site.... it does happen every where on every site... but I would like to say to ppl on here who are genuine if you do know someone or suspect someone of being a fake or having a fake picture up please say it the moderators discreetly and let them check it out ... they are here to help us and mods at least are genuine ppl so they will be willing to help to make the site a better place ....
I would like to say to all the ppl who pretend to be women or men or cpls or a model or whatever or put up fake pictures... why yous do it I 'll never know but let me say this if you are genuine and want to swing you dont have to put up a pic on the site just show the ppl you have chatted to and trust .... and please remember if you have a pic up and ppl dont like what they see it is their problem not yours attraction is different to every one and comes in all shapes sizes colours and nationalites etc.....
And a word to the ppl who come on the site who are fake and just winding up ppl i would to say to them that it is very sad to wind ppl up who want to have some fun...(what goes around comes around) if you dont understand the swinging scene you shouldnt be here and you should let ppl who are genuine get on with it as so many genuine ppl are put of because of you sad ppl who lead them on and make them think they have met nice ppl and then they waste time and enery whethers is thru mails texts travel etc....
so anyway i hope ppl have gotten my point and i feel all the genuine swingers shud stick together and try make this a better site and naming and shaming might i add does not have to be done in an abusive way it can be done discreeetly ... moderators and admin are there to tell them about issues ....
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I m just here to have a little say about the fakes on the site which makes it unfair for the genuine females , males and cpls on the site. Many ppl have been giving the run around at some stage or another whether on this site or another site.... it does happen every where on every site... but I would like to say to ppl on here who are genuine if you do know someone or suspect someone of being a fake or having a fake picture up please say it the moderators discreetly and let them check it out ... they are here to help us and mods at least are genuine ppl so they will be willing to help to make the site a better place ....
I would like to say to all the ppl who pretend to be women or men or cpls or a model or whatever or put up fake pictures... why yous do it I 'll never know but let me say this if you are genuine and want to swing you dont have to put up a pic on the site just show the ppl you have chatted to and trust .... and please remember if you have a pic up and ppl dont like what they see it is their problem not yours attraction is different to every one and comes in all shapes sizes colours and nationalites etc.....
And a word to the ppl who come on the site who are fake and just winding up ppl i would to say to them that it is very sad to wind ppl up who want to have some fun...(what goes around comes around) if you dont understand the swinging scene you shouldnt be here and you should let ppl who are genuine get on with it as so many genuine ppl are put of because of you sad ppl who lead them on and make them think they have met nice ppl and then they waste time and enery whethers is thru mails texts travel etc....
so anyway i hope ppl have gotten my point and i feel all the genuine swingers shud stick together and try make this a better site and naming and shaming might i add does not have to be done in an abusive way it can be done discreeetly ... moderators and admin are there to tell them about issues ....
Nice post but all of these issues were mentioned to admin over a year ago and nothing was probably much worse now and i honestly feel that the reason for all of the proactivity now is due to the fact that the site is due to be a paid site and admin has visions of coconut trees and clear blue skies.
I have no problem with admin.I have no problem with the mods, those mods who i have spoken with on chat are fine people and quite entitled to operate under the rules invested in them by i dont feel the need for mods but thats just me.I cant (yet) justify paying for the site but then again who knows.
Another few probs i see are people who are plain and downright ignorant or at least come accross that couples in particular dont speak to singles which is downright rude.A lot of fms dont speak to singles which again is downright rude.I can understand why they dont talk to single whispered,hassled or getting multiple suggestions from is all fine and dandy but im not one of those guys.
The last straw for me on chat was when i said hi and was told "i only talk to ppl with gosh".Fuck ppl want to know me,my profile is here,im all real and exactly what i say and i see no neccessity to be judged by someone who could do with a little judging themselves.
I dont really look for couples and not guys.I look for single fms and i must say when the conversation consists of,
Hi.....................???????
Sorry i like women who can hold a conversation at the very face it,there are lots of fine looking blow up dolls not that i know much about them.
It would wreck any sane persons head and i dont consider myself all that sane which makes it even worse.
God i feel so refreshed now,
Westside.
Yes i understand all the issues mentioned were mentioned before but here rome wasn't made in day lol but the video chat has been set up to make it a better site which is the first step in improving it.
I don't know if its going to be a paid site or not to be honest but if it is going to be then cool ye prob will cut out all the messers but you also get messers and fakes on paid sites not as many mind you but they still appear (must have better to do with there money lol )
Mods are in place in my opinion at them moment because it is a free site and so many ppl do be in chat you can have up to 150 ppl at one time in chat and mods are there to just make sure the rules aren't broken and that ppl aren't being abused.... yes some rules might need to be reviewed at a later stage but at the moment because its a free site a good few mods are needed because its rare all of them are on at the same time and admin set down the rules also due to other members giving there opinions and views ie no directing on cams.... some ppl like to be directed and some ppl don't ... and i would say admin had a pain in his a** listening to ppl complain to them about ppl telling them what to do on cam ...
Look ppl are going to be ignorant no matter where you go.... eg: nightclb, pub.....if ppl choose not to speak or chat to a person that is up to them (most state on their profiles what they are looking for) and to be honest if they don't want to speak to you do you really want to speak to them????
That comment about the gsoh .... if i was given a comment like that i would think to myself your loss lol My self and my hubby dont judge ppl and we chat to most ppl in the chat room who want to chat to us even if just for a natter no harm in it ya know. But you must remember it is a public site and ppl who choose to use it have there right not to chat to ppl if they dont want to even if you think its rude.
And finally to you last comment about holding a comversation you need to have something in common or click with a person or ppl to have a good conversation with them .... we have chit chat with some ppl and good conversations with others ... it all depends on the person or ppls personalties...
Different sorts of ppl are on swing from all diff walks of life so personalities are going to clash its only naturally ....
but hey thanks for the comment on my forum... we are a genuine hopefully nice cpl lol who do chat to anyone up for a chat...
Also if it becomes a pay site then grand it will prob eliminate some of the fakes etc however as i said they are always going to pop up every where... as i said before its up to ppl to point them out in a discreet non abusive way and let all the real genuine swingers whether male female or cpls stick together and try help each other... But for now its not a pay site ....
bye for now
j & j
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I'm glad someone has brought this up. I'm a single male amongst hundreds of others. I'm genuine but single males have a tough time in sites like this, lots of suspission and rightly so in alot of cases. Mainly this is due to the fakes out there that come to sites like this not because they are intrested but because they are like adolosent teenagers that think it is great fun, espically as this is currently a free site. It's hard to break into this sceen as a single male and it is not helped by fakers (Male or Female). Pity some are hard to spot but some are easy. I used to be a member of a site in the US when I lived there and you had to put a pic up before you were allowed to be a member, the rule was that you had to hold a sign or have it painted onto you (lipstick or other) saying "I am glad to be a member of ...site". This helped eliminate ppl copying others pics or using internet pics. It took 24 hours to become a member as the Admins would check the photo for the sign, no sign no membership. I tested this at the time out of curiousity because I hate time wasters. People come to these sites to meet others, have some fun, make friends etc. Sorry for the rant but it really irritates me because as I said it's hard for a single male to be taken seriously or get invites to gatherings...there are some genuine ones here but it's the fackers...(yes I did say fakers) that ruin it for everyone. A pay site will have it's messers too, there will be less of them but they will be there too. Anyway enough ranting, time for some fun and chat.
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Yes i understand all the issues mentioned were mentioned before but here rome wasn't made in day lol but the video chat has been set up to make it a better site which is the first step in improving it.
I don't know if its going to be a paid site or not to be honest but if it is going to be then cool ye prob will cut out all the messers but you also get messers and fakes on paid sites not as many mind you but they still appear (must have better to do with there money lol )
Mods are in place in my opinion at them moment because it is a free site and so many ppl do be in chat you can have up to 150 ppl at one time in chat and mods are there to just make sure the rules aren't broken and that ppl aren't being abused.... yes some rules might need to be reviewed at a later stage but at the moment because its a free site a good few mods are needed because its rare all of them are on at the same time and admin set down the rules also due to other members giving there opinions and views ie no directing on cams.... some ppl like to be directed and some ppl don't ... and i would say admin had a pain in his a** listening to ppl complain to them about ppl telling them what to do on cam ...
Look ppl are going to be ignorant no matter where you go.... eg: nightclb, pub.....if ppl choose not to speak or chat to a person that is up to them (most state on their profiles what they are looking for) and to be honest if they don't want to speak to you do you really want to speak to them????
That comment about the gsoh .... if i was given a comment like that i would think to myself your loss lol My self and my hubby dont judge ppl and we chat to most ppl in the chat room who want to chat to us even if just for a natter no harm in it ya know. But you must remember it is a public site and ppl who choose to use it have there right not to chat to ppl if they dont want to even if you think its rude.
And finally to you last comment about holding a comversation you need to have something in common or click with a person or ppl to have a good conversation with them .... we have chit chat with some ppl and good conversations with others ... it all depends on the person or ppls personalties...
Different sorts of ppl are on swing from all diff walks of life so personalities are going to clash its only naturally ....
but hey thanks for the comment on my forum... we are a genuine hopefully nice cpl lol who do chat to anyone up for a chat...
Also if it becomes a pay site then grand it will prob eliminate some of the fakes etc however as i said they are always going to pop up every where... as i said before its up to ppl to point them out in a discreet non abusive way and let all the real genuine swingers whether male female or cpls stick together and try help each other... But for now its not a pay site ....
bye for now
j & j
I understand and another good post but,
The only reason the site is being improved is because its becoming a paid site.I was told it was becoming a paid site when i asked a mod.I do agree that the fakes would probably go once the site is a pay site.
I agree also with your statement about ignorance everywhere but at least i can see it in everyday life and also its not because im a single male.(yes a woman ignoring a guy just because he is a single male is ignorant).Do i ignore you because your a couple?Nope.
Again personalities do clash but again when i see genuine guys saying hi and get nothing back, then there really is not personality there to begin with.
As far as the gsoh comment goes, yes it did actually turn out to be her loss in the end.
I also agree with what you say about ppl clicking but hey common, again how do we start a conversation?Yes by introducing overselves and saying much to do with clicking when the conversation goes like this,
Hi,
..........................
It all boils down to the same thing with a guy is single and genuine on this chat ,then he is still labelled a pest and painted with same brush as they pervs and fakes.
The difference between me and the rest is that i dont let myself get treated like thing your hear guys say "well hung guy here",i at the end of the day, i can say i have a pair without visual i stand up for myself.
Like me or not thats the way i you hear and see is what you i meet girls in my own private life so im not 100% reliant on here although it would be nice to meet new ppl all the same.
You are a nice couple and i do wish you two the very best here.
Be good,
Westside.
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Yes i understand all the issues mentioned were mentioned before but here rome wasn't made in day lol but the video chat has been set up to make it a better site which is the first step in improving it.
I don't know if its going to be a paid site or not to be honest but if it is going to be then cool ye prob will cut out all the messers but you also get messers and fakes on paid sites not as many mind you but they still appear (must have better to do with there money lol )
Mods are in place in my opinion at them moment because it is a free site and so many ppl do be in chat you can have up to 150 ppl at one time in chat and mods are there to just make sure the rules aren't broken and that ppl aren't being abused.... yes some rules might need to be reviewed at a later stage but at the moment because its a free site a good few mods are needed because its rare all of them are on at the same time and admin set down the rules also due to other members giving there opinions and views ie no directing on cams.... some ppl like to be directed and some ppl don't ... and i would say admin had a pain in his a** listening to ppl complain to them about ppl telling them what to do on cam ...
Look ppl are going to be ignorant no matter where you go.... eg: nightclb, pub.....if ppl choose not to speak or chat to a person that is up to them (most state on their profiles what they are looking for) and to be honest if they don't want to speak to you do you really want to speak to them????
That comment about the gsoh .... if i was given a comment like that i would think to myself your loss lol My self and my hubby dont judge ppl and we chat to most ppl in the chat room who want to chat to us even if just for a natter no harm in it ya know. But you must remember it is a public site and ppl who choose to use it have there right not to chat to ppl if they dont want to even if you think its rude.
And finally to you last comment about holding a comversation you need to have something in common or click with a person or ppl to have a good conversation with them .... we have chit chat with some ppl and good conversations with others ... it all depends on the person or ppls personalties...
Different sorts of ppl are on swing from all diff walks of life so personalities are going to clash its only naturally ....
but hey thanks for the comment on my forum... we are a genuine hopefully nice cpl lol who do chat to anyone up for a chat...
Also if it becomes a pay site then grand it will prob eliminate some of the fakes etc however as i said they are always going to pop up every where... as i said before its up to ppl to point them out in a discreet non abusive way and let all the real genuine swingers whether male female or cpls stick together and try help each other... But for now its not a pay site ....
bye for now
j & j
I understand and another good post but,
The only reason the site is being improved is because its becoming a paid site.I was told it was becoming a paid site when i asked a mod.I do agree that the fakes would probably go once the site is a pay site.
I agree also with your statement about ignorance everywhere but at least i can see it in everyday life and also its not because im a single male.(yes a woman ignoring a guy just because he is a single male is ignorant).Do i ignore you because your a couple?Nope.
Again personalities do clash but again when i see genuine guys saying hi and get nothing back, then there really is not personality there to begin with.
As far as the gsoh comment goes, yes it did actually turn out to be her loss in the end.
I also agree with what you say about ppl clicking but hey common, again how do we start a conversation?Yes by introducing overselves and saying much to do with clicking when the conversation goes like this,
Hi,
..........................
It all boils down to the same thing with a guy is single and genuine on this chat ,then he is still labelled a pest and painted with same brush as they pervs and fakes.
The difference between me and the rest is that i dont let myself get treated like thing your hear guys say "well hung guy here",i at the end of the day, i can say i have a pair without visual i stand up for myself.
Like me or not thats the way i you hear and see is what you i meet girls in my own private life so im not 100% reliant on here although it would be nice to meet new ppl all the same.
You are a nice couple and i do wish you two the very best here.
Be good,
Westside.
Sorry but you keep going on about you being a single guy on here and how its ignorant for them not to speak to single men ... i am sorry but if single women or couples come here looking for cpls or fems etc that isn't ignorant thats there preference there is a big difference.... i'm not ignorant if i choose not to speak to someone ..... that is called my choice....
Did you ever think that maybe when that guy comes on and says hi to a person and that person checks his or her profile maybe he or she isnt interested in chatting to them after looking at there profile (profiles are there is get basic idea of what ppl are like age what they are into and what they are looking for ) and some ppl might choose who they meet by age and what is on the profile etc and that is there right .... not saying it is the right way to be but some cpls for instant arent looking for guys so they feel why waste there time and the guys time chatting.... and there are ppl like us who will chat to anyone to see what they are like... every to their own...
I would like to say I don't label any single guys pests so you cant paint all us women or cpls with same brush .... thinking that we dont want to chat to single males or think yous are pests ... if you ask in chat i as a woman chat to alot of men on here ...
Other men don't let themselve be treated badly either.. but other men get the point that them being single males is not what some ppl are looking for on this site.... so they don't go on about it they look thru ppls profiles and chat and see what comes up....
Every one that comes on this site has certain things they are looking for and yes granted alot of ppl arent looking for single males whether that is right or wrong is not for me to say as every one has there preference when swinging....
And ye i respect ur views i just feel you are tarring every one on the site with the same brush ie that we all dotn want to chat to single males which is untrue...
I do hope you find what ur looking for on here but do try keep an open mind to the fact that every one wants diff things....
xeroid thanks for the post ... i understand how frustrating it is for single men on here ... as so many fems and cpls arent looking for that but believe me there are genuine ppl out there looking for single guys but its so hard to chat to men sometimes on here as there are so many..... but stick in there and perservere you might even surprise urself xxx
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Sorry but you keep going on about you being a single guy on here and how its ignorant for them not to speak to single men ... i am sorry but if single women or couples come here looking for cpls or fems etc that isn't ignorant thats there preference there is a big difference.... i'm not ignorant if i choose not to speak to someone ..... that is called my choice....
Did you ever think that maybe when that guy comes on and says hi to a person and that person checks his or her profile maybe he or she isnt interested in chatting to them after looking at there profile (profiles are there is get basic idea of what ppl are like age what they are into and what they are looking for ) and some ppl might choose who they meet by age and what is on the profile etc and that is there right .... not saying it is the right way to be but some cpls for instant arent looking for guys so they feel why waste there time and the guys time chatting.... and there are ppl like us who will chat to anyone to see what they are like... every to their own...
I would like to say I don't label any single guys pests so you cant paint all us women or cpls with same brush .... thinking that we dont want to chat to single males or think yous are pests ... if you ask in chat i as a woman chat to alot of men on here ...
Other men don't let themselve be treated badly either.. but other men get the point that them being single males is not what some ppl are looking for on this site.... so they don't go on about it they look thru ppls profiles and chat and see what comes up....
Every one that comes on this site has certain things they are looking for and yes granted alot of ppl arent looking for single males whether that is right or wrong is not for me to say as every one has there preference when swinging....
And ye i respect ur views i just feel you are tarring every one on the site with the same brush ie that we all dotn want to chat to single males which is untrue...
I do hope you find what ur looking for on here but do try keep an open mind to the fact that every one wants diff things....
Get off the stage will you? Am i tarring everyone with the same brush?Please, keep this in perspective.
When i speak of those i speak about i obviously dont speak of everyone.
What you say about me not getting the point is my whole point to begin with.I met a couple on this site here and had a few drinks with them and obviously spoke with i what they were looking for ?Nope.I knew it and they knew it.
Everyone is different and if someone says hi to me ,i say hi back whether its a bi guy, bi fm, a couple , a bi couple ,a cat ,a dog you get my drift??This is like saying if somebody speaks to me in a pub and im not into them, say another guy, i say "oh sorry but your a guy and im not gay, so im not talking to you".
When someone says hi and you dont say hi back ,that is two ways about is a choice, a choice of acting like an ignoramous or that or they just cant articulate themselves correctly.
I would venture to say that with me writing these posts here i would probably damage any chance of meeting someone thats the case so be it.I stand over what i say because if i didnt i wouldnt say it.
Again,get off the stage and stop trying to make a martyr out of me.I have spoken to some very decent ppl in not painting everyone with the same brush.
Have a happy swing,
Westside.
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Sorry but you keep going on about you being a single guy on here and how its ignorant for them not to speak to single men ... i am sorry but if single women or couples come here looking for cpls or fems etc that isn't ignorant thats there preference there is a big difference.... i'm not ignorant if i choose not to speak to someone ..... that is called my choice....
Did you ever think that maybe when that guy comes on and says hi to a person and that person checks his or her profile maybe he or she isnt interested in chatting to them after looking at there profile (profiles are there is get basic idea of what ppl are like age what they are into and what they are looking for ) and some ppl might choose who they meet by age and what is on the profile etc and that is there right .... not saying it is the right way to be but some cpls for instant arent looking for guys so they feel why waste there time and the guys time chatting.... and there are ppl like us who will chat to anyone to see what they are like... every to their own...
I would like to say I don't label any single guys pests so you cant paint all us women or cpls with same brush .... thinking that we dont want to chat to single males or think yous are pests ... if you ask in chat i as a woman chat to alot of men on here ...
Other men don't let themselve be treated badly either.. but other men get the point that them being single males is not what some ppl are looking for on this site.... so they don't go on about it they look thru ppls profiles and chat and see what comes up....
Every one that comes on this site has certain things they are looking for and yes granted alot of ppl arent looking for single males whether that is right or wrong is not for me to say as every one has there preference when swinging....
And ye i respect ur views i just feel you are tarring every one on the site with the same brush ie that we all dotn want to chat to single males which is untrue...
I do hope you find what ur looking for on here but do try keep an open mind to the fact that every one wants diff things....
Get off the stage will you? Am i tarring everyone with the same brush?Please, keep this in perspective.
When i speak of those i speak about i obviously dont speak of everyone.
What you say about me not getting the point is my whole point to begin with.I met a couple on this site here and had a few drinks with them and obviously spoke with i what they were looking for ?Nope.I knew it and they knew it.
Everyone is different and if someone says hi to me ,i say hi back whether its a bi guy, bi fm, a couple , a bi couple ,a cat ,a dog you get my drift??This is like saying if somebody speaks to me in a pub and im not into them, say another guy, i say "oh sorry but your a guy and im not gay, so im not talking to you".
When someone says hi and you dont say hi back ,that is two ways about is a choice, a choice of acting like an ignoramous or that or they just cant articulate themselves correctly.
I would venture to say that with me writing these posts here i would probably damage any chance of meeting someone thats the case so be it.I stand over what i say because if i didnt i wouldnt say it.
Again,get off the stage and stop trying to make a martyr out of me.I have spoken to some very decent ppl in not painting everyone with the same brush.
Have a happy swing,
Westside.
this was my stage to begin with lol you didnt have to come in and read it or reply..... Also in my opinion which i am entitled to you are tarring ppl with same brush from what i read....
like you say ppl must not be able articulate themselves correctly is just not right in my opinion again i will agree to disagree with ya as i firmly believe ppl can be whatever and do whatever they want once not abusing ppl...
I will have to agree to disagree agree with ya regarding what makes ppl ignorant as if i dont want to chat to some i shudnt have to and it doesnt make me ignorant....
But as i did say before myself and my husband are not like that we would chat to anyone at first to see what they are like...
again it was my stage to begin with and i didnt ask u to read or reply to this and ok if you feel from your post to me you didnt paint every one with same brush i ll take ur point on that...
bye
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this was my stage to begin with lol you didnt have to come in and read it or reply..... Also in my opinion which i am entitled to you are tarring ppl with same brush from what i read....
like you say ppl must not be able articulate themselves correctly is just not right in my opinion again i will agree to disagree with ya as i firmly believe ppl can be whatever and do whatever they want once not abusing ppl...
I will have to agree to disagree agree with ya regarding what makes ppl ignorant as if i dont want to chat to some i shudnt have to and it doesnt make me ignorant....
But as i did say before myself and my husband are not like that we would chat to anyone at first to see what they are like...
again it was my stage to begin with and i didnt ask u to read or reply to this and ok if you feel from your post to me you didnt paint every one with same brush i ll take ur point on that...
bye
Horny, in order for me to be tarring everyone with the same brush i would need to put the prefix "all" before couples and fms in my post as in "all couples and fms".
Second point ,this is a forum and if you post something then ppl have the right to respond and also to even disagree with you, believe it or not.
Third ,you joined this see this is the like going out on the piss for the very first time and waking up the next day saying that you have a drinking problem.
Just like our ancestors on this world, their were plenty of others joined here long before you or lots of others here now even heard of the were decent ppl just like were contacted by lots of ppl in the past with regards to, interestingly enough, the same topics that are discussed it all i was missing for a long time, but heard it all only difference now is that its becoming a pay site,hence all of the proactivity.
You suggesting that im tarring everyone with the same brush suggests to me that maybe ,youd be better off reading a good book rather than reading my all, there is enough ignorance here without me contributing indirectly to it via my
I stand over what i say and im done yapping on this.I wont change your mind and you wont certainly change is wrong or right but im basing my viewpoint over what i have seen since late 2006 to present.
Oh by the way,ive updated my profile to keep up with modern chatroom it will be to the satisfaction of all.
Sticking to my beliefs,
Westside.
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this was my stage to begin with lol you didnt have to come in and read it or reply..... Also in my opinion which i am entitled to you are tarring ppl with same brush from what i read....
like you say ppl must not be able articulate themselves correctly is just not right in my opinion again i will agree to disagree with ya as i firmly believe ppl can be whatever and do whatever they want once not abusing ppl...
I will have to agree to disagree agree with ya regarding what makes ppl ignorant as if i dont want to chat to some i shudnt have to and it doesnt make me ignorant....
But as i did say before myself and my husband are not like that we would chat to anyone at first to see what they are like...
again it was my stage to begin with and i didnt ask u to read or reply to this and ok if you feel from your post to me you didnt paint every one with same brush i ll take ur point on that...
bye
Horny, in order for me to be tarring everyone with the same brush i would need to put the prefix "all" before couples and fms in my post as in "all couples and fms".
Second point ,this is a forum and if you post something then ppl have the right to respond and also to even disagree with you, believe it or not.
Third ,you joined this see this is the like going out on the piss for the very first time and waking up the next day saying that you have a drinking problem.
Just like our ancestors on this world, their were plenty of others joined here long before you or lots of others here now even heard of the were decent ppl just like were contacted by lots of ppl in the past with regards to, interestingly enough, the same topics that are discussed it all i was missing for a long time, but heard it all only difference now is that its becoming a pay site,hence all of the proactivity.
You suggesting that im tarring everyone with the same brush suggests to me that maybe ,youd be better off reading a good book rather than reading my all, there is enough ignorance here without me contributing indirectly to it via my
I stand over what i say and im done yapping on this.I wont change your mind and you wont certainly change is wrong or right but im basing my viewpoint over what i have seen since late 2006 to present.
Oh by the way,ive updated my profile to keep up with modern chatroom it will be to the satisfaction of all.
Sticking to my beliefs,
Westside.
Westside, it's mrhorny here, i'll leave the debate to you and da missus, but just 1 point, we've been members on this site since near the beginning when it started. Just had our profile deleted by admin when we were temporarily banned. 1 thing i'd like to add, i too don't see it as ignorance when some1 don't reply. As soon as i enter there room i get at least 5-10 whispers saying hi etc. Seens i'm quite a quick typist i can easily keep up, but for most other newcomers to computers, it's not easy to check all these ppls profiles, fine their ID in the list so you can reply back etc etc. Yes some ppl do blatantly just ignore messages, but if you don't take the time out to read their profile and realise that your not what they want, why should they take time out to reply to you? Good day to you.
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Westside, it's mrhorny here, i'll leave the debate to you and da missus, but just 1 point, we've been members on this site since near the beginning when it started. Just had our profile deleted by admin when we were temporarily banned. 1 thing i'd like to add, i too don't see it as ignorance when some1 don't reply. As soon as i enter there room i get at least 5-10 whispers saying hi etc. Seens i'm quite a quick typist i can easily keep up, but for most other newcomers to computers, it's not easy to check all these ppls profiles, fine their ID in the list so you can reply back etc etc. Yes some ppl do blatantly just ignore messages, but if you don't take the time out to read their profile and realise that your not what they want, why should they take time out to reply to you? Good day to you.
Now thats an entirely different ppl are whispering and you dont want that ,fair enough.
My original point was when a guy justs says hi to someone in the room, no whispers or could go on and is different and i guess we all judge others based on what our own interpretations are and / or what our experiences suggest to us.
If someone says hi to me ,i always say hi back and i try to say hi to others first too.I dont check the only time i check them is if i see an fm and think that she is for me.I will still talk to someone whether they are for me or not.
All i can say is that i have spoken to couples, bi fms etc ppl that i wasnt for yet, it didnt kill or harm either party but hey if your getting unwanted whispers ,then yes ,i can see your point and understand why you wouldnt respond to understsnd that im not one of then.
Take it easy,
Westside.
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Westside, it's mrhorny here, i'll leave the debate to you and da missus, but just 1 point, we've been members on this site since near the beginning when it started. Just had our profile deleted by admin when we were temporarily banned. 1 thing i'd like to add, i too don't see it as ignorance when some1 don't reply. As soon as i enter there room i get at least 5-10 whispers saying hi etc. Seens i'm quite a quick typist i can easily keep up, but for most other newcomers to computers, it's not easy to check all these ppls profiles, fine their ID in the list so you can reply back etc etc. Yes some ppl do blatantly just ignore messages, but if you don't take the time out to read their profile and realise that your not what they want, why should they take time out to reply to you? Good day to you.
Now thats an entirely different ppl are whispering and you dont want that ,fair enough.
My original point was when a guy justs says hi to someone in the room, no whispers or could go on and is different and i guess we all judge others based on what our own interpretations are and / or what our experiences suggest to us.
If someone says hi to me ,i always say hi back and i try to say hi to others first too.I dont check the only time i check them is if i see an fm and think that she is for me.I will still talk to someone whether they are for me or not.
All i can say is that i have spoken to couples, bi fms etc ppl that i wasnt for yet, it didnt kill or harm either party but hey if your getting unwanted whispers ,then yes ,i can see your point and understand why you wouldnt respond to understsnd that im not one of then.
Take it easy,
Westside.
Can i just say i m not lookin to change ur mind i respect we all have diff out looks on things.. I was just sayin i see ignorance dif to u. Anyway i set up the forum just to say to all genuine ppl on the site to help each other out etc you added ur own bits in wich is fine i have my beliefs like u do + tats wat makes the world go round, so i wasnt tryin to change ur mind but showin another side of the story. I mite not fully agree with wat u say on everyting but i can see ur view + respect u 4 tat ...
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xeroid thanks for the post ... i understand how frustrating it is for single men on here ... as so many fems and cpls arent looking for that but believe me there are genuine ppl out there looking for single guys but its so hard to chat to men sometimes on here as there are so many..... but stick in there and perservere you might even surprise urself xxx
Hi there everyone,
We are new to this site and have to say I find a lot of messers on here. Both male and female, most cpls are genuine. When it comes to the crunch they break arrangements and don't bother. I know that everyone is entitled to change their mind and once one is comfortable with that its fine but why string couples along if your not going to do anything. It is after all a swingers site and its hard enough to break down the barrier of nervousness and be looking forward to meeting a bi or a guy or cpl and then they don't bother. This site is not what we expected and find it a bit disheartening. I have to say though we have chatted with a lot of lovely couples on here who have given us good advice and helped us. Maybe paying for the site would sort out the men from the boys or the woman from the girls so to speak .
Warming the Bed
Sara also a fake. When u add her as a contact you get asked to send mobile number to register.
Forum Virgin
we've found the simplest and easiest way to sort the fake from the real is. . . .Camming you just cant fake it
We wont talk to anyone without a cam if the excuse is they haven't got one its broke etc we just tell them to go and buy one there 20 euro cheap as chips no cam no whisper no chat no show !
the simplest way for all to know is ask all to show themselves on cam first they haven't got to go the whole way etc but at least show there genuine
Sex God
I am real,but have been asked a few times where have my pics gone.I take them down when im going off line. The reason i do this is, i discovered, that if u do a search on google for slightlysexy my profile comes this means anyone on the net can see them, not just ppl who are logged into the site or members . So thats why ,when i go off line i take them down.
Im real an asshole is reality as well as here.
I would like to point out that with regards to pics and because someone is real does not mean that they are genuine in the true meaning of the word and visa versa,just because someone is genuine does not mean that they are real.
Also, re pics and me if im wrong but i usually recognise people by their faces,not by their penis ,boobs or the tampon tunnell.
Lovingly,
Westside.
Sex God
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Im real an asshole is reality as well as here.
I would like to point out that with regards to pics and because someone is real does not mean that they are genuine in the true meaning of the word and visa versa,just because someone is genuine does not mean that they are real.
Also, re pics and me if im wrong but i usually recognise people by their faces,not by their penis ,boobs or the tampon tunnell.
Lovingly,
Westside.
well what i meant was i am a real female, not a guy pretending to be one :P
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Im real an asshole is reality as well as here.
I would like to point out that with regards to pics and because someone is real does not mean that they are genuine in the true meaning of the word and visa versa,just because someone is genuine does not mean that they are real.
Also, re pics and me if im wrong but i usually recognise people by their faces,not by their penis ,boobs or the tampon tunnell.
Lovingly,
Westside.
well what i meant was i am a real female, not a guy pretending to be one :P
I was responding to the thread in its entirity,not neccessarily your post.
feeling frisky,
Westside.
Sex God
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Im real an asshole is reality as well as here.
I would like to point out that with regards to pics and because someone is real does not mean that they are genuine in the true meaning of the word and visa versa,just because someone is genuine does not mean that they are real.
Also, re pics and me if im wrong but i usually recognise people by their faces,not by their penis ,boobs or the tampon tunnell.
Lovingly,
Westside.
well what i meant was i am a real female, not a guy pretending to be one :P
I was responding to the thread in its entirity,not neccessarily your post.
lol ur so,,,,,,, prickly aint ya
feeling frisky,
Westside.
Sex God
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Im real an asshole is reality as well as here.
I would like to point out that with regards to pics and because someone is real does not mean that they are genuine in the true meaning of the word and visa versa,just because someone is genuine does not mean that they are real.
Also, re pics and me if im wrong but i usually recognise people by their faces,not by their penis ,boobs or the tampon tunnell.
Lovingly,
Westside.
well what i meant was i am a real female, not a guy pretending to be one :P
I was responding to the thread in its entirity,not neccessarily your post.
lol ur so,,,,,,, prickly aint ya
feeling frisky,
Westside.
i had better clarify ," lol ur so ..prickly aint ya" , was to westside , not the thread in entirity ;-)
slightly X
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Im real an asshole is reality as well as here.
I would like to point out that with regards to pics and because someone is real does not mean that they are genuine in the true meaning of the word and visa versa,just because someone is genuine does not mean that they are real.
Also, re pics and me if im wrong but i usually recognise people by their faces,not by their penis ,boobs or the tampon tunnell.
Lovingly,
Westside.
well what i meant was i am a real female, not a guy pretending to be one :P
I was responding to the thread in its entirity,not neccessarily your post.
lol ur so,,,,,,, prickly aint ya
feeling frisky,
Westside.
i had better clarify ," lol ur so ..prickly aint ya" , was to westside , not the thread in entirity ;-)
slightly X
Hello to all,
I once knew a couple
Whose name was McKhan
They gave birth to a boy
A fine young man
Baptism day came
At the church down the lane
And the priest nearly fainted
When he heard the babies name
Genghis Mc Khan.
