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robbie111m
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 54
0 km · Dublin

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Quote by user=longjon
:-o I actually havent lost it.....Yet

That aint nothing to be embarrassed about Longjon ;):moon:innocentwave
Quote by user=Bongo1
if im well adjusted societys fooked

Bongo, Nothing wrong with being "fooked" :doggy:
Quote by user=Amberx
Well Robbie did the gods lap help ya out at all?? not being nosey just curious as to whether I should post up mine yet innocent

Nope amber they didnt answer me, maybe you will be my goddess and give me a reply lol x
:cry:No doubt your all having a ball and where am I ....... In work.... :cry:
Quote by user=sungoddess
I write a very detailed profile, but some people don't seem to read it gauging from the emails I get. Still... I prefer to write a detailed one as it'll give people who do read profiles an idea of what I'm like and what I'm looking for. I used to have more pics up, but had to take most down as they seem to be a magnet for picture collectors..
Sunny
xx

Yes Sunny you do write a detailed profile and I remember reading it and after the first line I knew not to send you a Like I said earlier maybe I am being a bit petty , I think I was just a bit put out when I got the reply "I dont bother reading mails sent to me I just delete them straight away" and was thinking well if that is the case why not just say on profile i.e" dont send me mails if you dont know me"
I spend a couple of hours going through profiles last night and picked out four that I thought might be suitable for what I am looking for at the moment and what they are looking for. Taking into account location and age etc aswell. I read all the reviews and if they were established and if they have been recently on the site etc etc. Anyway it took quite a while which is fine, when I eventually picked out 4, I sent a mail to them briefly describing myself and what I was looking for i.e. maybe to have a chat online first and let them see me if they thought they might be interested. This morning when I logged on 2 out of the 4 had read the mail (no answer) I sent which I thought was a good result so far. I then logged into chat and low and behold both ladies who had read my mail were online so I started chatting to them, I asked the first lady if she got my mail and that I hoped she didnâ??t mind me sending it and her reply was I donâ??t read my mails I just delete then straight away and that is her .perogative I have no problem with that. I asked the second lady the same thing and she said she does not meet people over 30 (she is mid 30â??s and I am 43) which is fair enough, no probs with that. What did annoy me a little was that they did not say these things on there profile. Maybe I am being a bit petty here but I just feel sorry for the two other ladies that would have had the pleasure maybe of finding my mail there in the morning!!!
Thanks Amber, in the lap of the gods now! ( well hopefully I will be in someones lap smile )
Quote by user=Titan79
Well Said Midnight,
I think you've smacked it right on the head.
Personally speaking I used to always have a slight bit of anxiety on every first meet, through experience and using a set formula of talking in dept before hand, and not developing expectations of how a meet will go, has taken that anxiety out of the equation.
Lads, Don't ever presume because you have been chatting on here or by phone for x amount of weeks months etc you will automatically fall into each others arms and rock the Rafters til the small hours. People can find when they do meet that one party may not be as keen as the other. So best Advice I would give is, go On the basis your going to have an enjoyable night in a like minded persons company, have a drink and relax. If the sparks there in both people, things will work out as they are destined to.
*Pleasantly Surprising the Ladies of swing4ireland since 2008*

Cant argue with that formula Titan, thats the way to go altight
"Whatever your preferences, post a message here, let everyone know what you are looking for and sit back and wait for the replies!" Good idea Amber, but I would say I will be sitting back for quite a while looking for this positive replies for this one ! Well here it goes nothing to loose as they say...... I am looking for 2 girls from here to meet up with me for a FFM any interest please mail me smile
( Thanks Cutie ) For Mrs mulderntcel its 2 out of 3 and for mr mulderntcel its he remaining one !!! :smile2:
biggrinThere does seem to be an epidemic of male cold feet lately.
I wonder if there is a jab for it or maybe a good kick in the ..... would cure it
No cold feet here :D willing and ready just send me a mail and we can have a chat and you can see what I look like etc etc
Quote by user=ravenfire
Titan i know what you mean, flirting is foreign to me.
Virgo hun, do you need any help getting your xmas stockings on? I would be more than happy to help you in any way i can and if you need a massage to relieve the stress of the festive season let me know xxxx
I really dont know how people flirt:angel:

i am feeling the stress already raven so imagine what I will be like in a week ! Any chance of u giving me that massage after Xmas? xxx