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layla
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Female, 66
Straight Male, 67
0 km · Kerry

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Quote by user=Clara78
Is there any non-smokers on this site?
As someone who detests smoking, I have had enough of enduring smokers on 1 to 1 meets. Be it being abandoned in pubs while they go out for a 'puff' or having to book smoking rooms....
I fancy a smoke-free meet...PM me.
Clara.

I am a smoker , and I cannot understand why non smokers do not put it in their "profile" , e.g. I am a non smoker and prefer to meet non smokers or I/ we are smokers ................ simples really
Quote by user=dar4u
Dear Members of S4I
I am writing this to let you know that I have decided to move on. I want to thank each and everyone that I have chatted with, met with and shared so much with. And to those I have been lucky enough to call friends, I wish only the best.
But now, I have truly found what I have been seeking and it is time for me to go. I will stay in touch with friends and I want to wish everyone here health and happiness in the times to come.
Kind Regards
Dar4u

Good luck in all you too pet, I am so happy for you, thank you for always being a gentleman xxxxxxxxxx
Layla
quote user=ravenfire]Does any other couples feel that their male/female partners who don`t physically type on the site tend to get forgotten by some members of the site? I usually do all the typing as many are aware but Teddy is always beside me with his input as we are on here as a couple, but constantly receive suggestions or requests for a private meet with just me.
While i do have a good laugh with many members here, i feel compelled to remind people that i am part of a couple and do not have private meets. Is it just me or do others feel the same?
Raven
Totally agree with this , I mrs usually do the chatting but mr is well and truly here and we too get those request although for the most part once you point it out that we do not play alone , we find all is fine after that :therethere:
Rod Stewart David Essex Mark Bolan Donny Osmond Oh and the guys from Mc Fly I know I am in a timewarp lol
Quote by user=Amberx
I will send you an email with some places to shop, have fun ;)

Would love a pm from you to surprise Mr for Xmas
Layla
[quote user=avalon]Hi folks , just wondering how people feel about the forums , do you read them , and find them of interest? do you post on them ? how can we improve them ? what topics would you like to see here >?[/qu I have to say I do not post very often in the forums , but I do read them on a daily basis as time allows. Since this was posted by you Avalon I went over a lot of the older forums and am afraid to say have seen a lot of contradictions there. There have been post from members who have let off steam about being recognised on cam /picture etc (which in my opinion is awful) but then I have seen posts from these same people wondering why guys only do cock cams , surely these people should understand about face pics and how dangerous they can be in this small villagge of ireland. Another thing I have noticed on the forums is a subject can turn into a tit for tat relentless posts back and forth with some member trying to get the upper hand with a better, more humerous smart ass comment than the previous poster. I have not been on site a lot in the past few week due to ill health and I see that the forums are mainly re the 80 per chat limit, this does not effect me as I have never been a fan of the Beach Bar, I really do prefer more substantial conversation, which is why I tend to go to the smaller rooms. Last week i had every intention of letting off steam about a comment from a member who had an introduction from a newbie and the member commented in open chat "Ahh new meat " totally uncalled for in my book, but of course I realised that if I raised that , it would be just a matter of "ah she did not mean it " so I did not bother but this comment does bother me. Oveall the forums are good as long as the upmanship stays out of it. Layla
ok 14000 childhood abuse images paid for and downloaded = 4 years suspended sentence................please ........where has justice and punishement gone ..................... made me cry today this did sorry stuck this in wrong thread
Quote by user=irishlass37
Lying bastards and game players.......wont explain ....the ppl invoved know who i am refering to....................
lass

Have to agree with you lass and also include the game players who try to drag others into their stupid and dangerous games on the pretence of being friends, but that friendship window has now ............. closedsad
This has got to be a mistake Meme ?? what about my list hun ??
Quote by user=fjvm9
Hey Can I have Frank's chat....
I will give a free hobnob to anyone who joins...
and a band will be providing entertainment in Layla's room...
a well....sorry just woke up..
take care
F

Jeez I didnt know I had a room why didnt anyone tell me ??
Layla
Thanks alanball for that just wanted to update that we have had a few more great meets with great people, the kind of people who kept in touch met on time , the kind of people who were very appreciative of the effort we had made , the kind of people i know will remain our friends and to the one in particular who brought me choccies ty xxx layla
Aah sure I know am over it now just got up this morning and felt like having a rant, sure seemed like we were hitting it off ok had chatted a lot not to worry now though chat to you all soon
Quote by user=lovebird
hey layla,
welcome to hear that you had a let down,i no it doesnt help but your not the first person this has happened to or alas,you wont be the last.
unfortunately some people dont have common curtesy or respect.
best advice i can give is do not let this inncident put you off future meets.
best of luck in the future,
lovebird
xx

Thanks lovebird for that no it wont put us off just it sometimes feels very one sided but its done now !!!
Hi Just wanted to let off some steam, have been on here before took ab reak for various reasons joined up again this year, had some good comm with a few couples and was looking forward to meeting up, well we have had some good meets but last night was looking forward to meeting a couple and yes youve guessed no show, went to a lot of trouble in order to be able to accomodate set a wonderful scene everything was laid on !! phonecall half an hour after meeting time to say they had changed their mind no other explanation, we had chatted txt email pics etc, if you are reading this that was unfair if you had said you got too nervous etc fine that happens to us all but just to say we changed our mind hang up and then turn your phone off not good. There that is off my lovely chest !!!!