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kirishlad
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 54
0 km · Dublin
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Looks like he was driving a Mini Moke that would have been a rare care in Dublin at the time?Well I'm not per-say into older women but I would prefer a 40 year old to a 20 year old, I was pretty chuffed recently as I pulled a 24 year old lady in a nite-club, till I got her back to my hotel room all going well till we got naked and she didn't have the confidence in herself or he body shape (which was gorgeous by the way)to properly let herself go sexually and really enjoy the experience which in turn ruined the fun for me.
So n a nutshell I find women over 30 to be more confident and experienced in bed which in turn makes for better fun to be had all round that's why I prefer them to be more mature
[u:71eef07761][b:71eef07761]A little story about life and what's import[/u:71eef07761]ant[/b:71eef07761]
A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front of him. When the class began, wordlessly, he picked up a very large and empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.
So the professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar. He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They agreed it was.
The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar was full. The students responded with a unanimous "yes."
The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and poured the entire contents into the jar, effectively filling the empty space between the sand. The students laughed.
"Now," said the professor, as the laughter subsided, " I want you to recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the important things-your God, family, your children, your health, your friends, and your favorite passions-things that if everything else was lost and only they remained, your life would still be full. The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house, and your car. The sand is everything else-the small stuff."
"If you put the sand into the jar first," he continued, "there is no room for the pebbles or the golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy on the small stuff, you will never have room for the things that are important to you. Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Play with your children. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your partner out to dinner. Play another 18. There will always be time to clean the house and fix the disposal. Take care of the golf balls first, the things that really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand."
One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee represented.
The professor smiled. "I'm glad you asked. It just goes to show you that no matter how full your life may seem, there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend."
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I honestly don't understand these clicks on here
If you don't like someone don't talk to them, but don't rude to them.
But judging by what I have heard about them it seem (and it is the ladies in particular) they don't seem content with not talking to some one but have to bad mouth them to others and insist that if you are friends with them you cant be friends with us/me. I have also had it said to me that if you play with her I wont play with you.
Come on folks we are adults here this is not the school playground
Klad, Ive always got on with you and have had a few good giggles with you in chat, but what youve heard and what seems to be isnt always the truth, believe me I know first hand. Yes I know Ive been bad mouthed and lied about by some to others, but it was done by someone who never actually met me in person. Does it bother me? Yeah sometimes, but the folks that have met me know what I'm like, so I'm not so bothered with being bad mouthed that much, and being pissed off about it only gives them what they want so its better to just let it slide. (A brilliant mod on here gave me that advice)
And what you say about being told that someone wont play with you because youve played with XXXXXX does sound bad on the surface alright, but maybe just maybe its because XXXXXX has been known to play bareback or some other genuine reason that the person would be unwilling to play with you because of your contact with XXXXXX. We all have to look after our health, its not pre 1984 here and the threat of HIV/AIDS is well known now. People fought for years to legalise the sale of condoms in Ireland, and yet the mind boggles as to why some of today's generation will gladly play without them
And finally, NG1 has 132 friends listed on her profile. Thats more than any other profile Ive seen on here, probably 3 times the amount of friends of the person behind her with the most friends that Ive seen. I really cant understand why she doesnt feel accepted on here.
XXXXX as stated above is just a reference, its not meant to be anyone in particular, as I couldnt possibly know who Klad was referring to in his post.
Alico Im sure you wern't suggesting that I play bareback but just to make it absolutely 100% clear I never have and never would under any circumstances engage in intercourse with a causal partner without a condom
Hi NG
I don't see you in chat much but any time I have I have tried to talk to you. the chat can move fast and can be hard to keep up with.
Stick with it you will be fine and judging by your pictures you will be most popular on here
I honestly don't understand these clicks on here
If you don't like someone don't talk to them, but don't rude to them.
But judging by what I have heard about them it seem (and it is the ladies in particular) they don't seem content with not talking to some one but have to bad mouth them to others and insist that if you are friends with them you cant be friends with us/me. I have also had it said to me that if you play with her I wont play with you.
Come on folks we are adults here this is not the school playground 
:rascal:Quote by user=Catnmouse10
I think the poor fella was only askin for advice. Everyone has different circumstances and no one is perfect.
Very true and now his thread has been hijacked, for my part in this, I apologise to the original poster.
Eden, think we have said all that need to be said, we pretty much agree on the fundamentals of married/single people playing as for peoples honesty I think we are worlds apart and will never agree, maybe when you as old and as cynical as me you will have a different view.
In the mean time I have no wish to fight with you or debate the matter further.
Quote by user=alicolwic
Ladies and gentlemen, we have now come to our main event.
This bout will be fought over three rounds, and is for the S4I World Championship Belt
Fighting out of the blue corner, with a smile that even Stevie Wonder can see is the ever dazzling and attractive Eden :lick:
Fighting out of the red corner, being weighed down with a huge chip on his shoulder is the ever entertaining Kirishlad
Let's get ready to rummmmblllle!!!!!
Seconds out, round 1
I will have you know im a very well balanced individual I have a chip on both shoulders
8) Quote by user=Eden
Kirish, I believe we have discussed this at length before...but anyway...
When I joined the site it was with a very clear agenda – to ressurrect a sex life after the break up of a long term relationship without any of the emotional involvement or energy required for a realtionship – in other words, NSA. I also wanted to push my sexual boundries – have new sexual experiences that I (rightly) believed I might find on a swing site.
I did not join to shag other women’s boyfriends or husbands behind their backs. I also didn’t come here to judge others so I’ll say no more on that. Each to their own.
I strongly believe that the swing site should be a non judgemental place for people to pursue our sexual preferences in a safe environment. I believe honesty among us is an integral part of that; and I believe that I should have the right to choose whether to swing with an attached man or not. That choice is removed when people lie on their profiles about their status.
I understand that people have their reasons for being here and attached people are here for a variety of reasons. As I say, I do not judge them, and some of my favourite people on the site attached. However, attached people should also respect that some of us, for a variety of our own reasons, choose not to play with attached people, and if they are not upfront about their status – as far as I am concerned they are not respecting us.
My reply above was a bit curt you may have got me on a bad day, be below is a more considered reply
First of all the original poster did not come on to discuss his marital status. I felt your post was completely irrelevant to the original question.
Yes we have discussed this before, I fully respect your position not to play with married men. My Profile is as a single man, but my status is "almost single" when people ask me (if we are interested in playing) I tell them what my situation is no lies or bullshit.
The reason I responded to your post is that I feel that you have to much interest in other peoples status. We chatted earlier on and I told you I was attached you told me you would have no interest in playing, that's fine by me. You have brought up the subject in chat and in the forums several times so it seems to be a hot topic with you.
We are all here for our own reasons and all arrive as a results of different if similar circumstances.
When someone asks a question in a post I think you should either answer the question or give your opinion if that opinion is related to the originals post. I don't feel you have any right to question his/her marital status or reasons for being here.
Nobody gives out full and accurate information on their profile. We don't give our real names, very few of the people here are actually looking for the same thing they state on their profile so I suggest you use their profile to give you an indication if they are your type after that get to know them in chat or and a M&G or in Private message.
I agree that this should be a relaxed and non judgemental site but that means you should not judge other people and their own reason for being here.
Just checking before I give my considered opinion8)Quote by user=zaza
"The longest recorded period of sleep deprivation took place in 1964 when high school student Randy Gardner stayed awake for 264 hours, earning him a place in the Guinness Book of World Records. Gardner had no lasting physical or mental problems but had delusions, paranoia and shortened memory span during his deprivation."
Think that was beaten recently by an American guy, he stayed awake for 4 weeks or something like that.
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