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jimmybones
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 46
Ireland
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So glad this was brought up, I've had something I've wanted to say for ages on this subject:
I've often heard this idea that if a woman has a lot of (or even more than a few) sexual partners she gets called a 'slut', where a man with a comparable number of bedpost notches is a 'stud'.
Personally I've got two problems with this. First of all I don't think there's any such thing as a slut. I genuinely believe that word says far more about the person who says it than the person it's directed at. Jealousy, misogyny, prudishness, take your pick.
On the other hand we have the whole 'stud' thing. I have never. Ever. EVER heard anyone in real life refer to a man as a 'stud' unironically. Think about it, have you ever actually heard that term used in anything resembling seriousness? It doesn't happen. Certainly not among straight men discussing other straight men, whom this myth is presumably about.
If a man is successful with a lot of women he's far more likely to be called a 'wanker' or 'insufferable smug bastard' than anything else.
All Woody Allen:
"It seemed the world was divided into good and bad people. The good ones slept better while the bad ones seemed to enjoy the waking hours much more."
"Life is full of misery, loneliness, and suffering - and it's all over much too soon."
"Sex without love is a meaningless experience, but as far as meaningless experiences go its pretty damn good."
"I was thrown out of college for cheating on the metaphysics exam; I looked into the soul of the boy next to me."
Quote by user=HOLLEYWOOD
shes very wond up and hostile i never said i dident like the coment just cant understand why no one will chat on here ,see how every one els joined this thread and left there coments in a fun way,be a fun girl not a grumpy girl ,,
Alternatively she could be an actual woman with a personality, which she is.
