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Once again the swingmeets have done it. From start to finish a brilliant night a serious big thanks from the both of us we had such a fantastic time a perfect mix of sexy peeps and fabulous atmosphere you guys know how to throw a party thanks again swingmeets we sincerely appreciate all the dedication effort and planning that must go into organising such a successful night.
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Quote by glossie
Right now, watching Beyonces 'Sweet Dreams' video. That black outfit with the knee high boots :lickface: :lickface: :inlove:
I'm sure everyone has something that makes them think 'mmmmm' ???

Quote by Jane-n-Charlie
Hey yeah..... really agree with where you're coming from Sarium, we never change to suit others but we do change the profile to try and get the right pitch on the advertising.... mainly cos no-one contacts us, lol, so we keep trying new angles.
We've always been amazed how it's de rigueur for girls to be bi on these sites but there's a funny attitude to bi males... like the way a lot of the sex is pretty vanilla-ish too and loads of people panic at the thought of anything a bit kinky.
Following your advice to read profiles we thought you sound great fun and dashed over to read your profile but alas there's nothing written on it....

Quote by dar4u
I recentlty up dated my profile to bi, as I felt, I have to be honest with myself first and foremost and the same for others too.
I had been bi-curious for many years, and I guess I still am to a point in that I have had only one bi encounter.
In saying this, I had been advised by a member here to put up I was straight as it would scare too many people away. I will admit I did have it up a straight, but having received warm support from other members here, I decided, I have nothing to hide, I am who I am, and if you choose to meet me, then you know who I am.
Honesty at times can be difficult, but with so many people who lets others down, I do not want to fall into that category for not been honest.

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Happy Birthday Mr Bugs :cheers:

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These are what you call idiots !

Quote by sean0001
Some couples like Bi men, most dont, thats life, sure alot of couples don't even want to meet single guys, but thats also life.
Its hard to put a label on people and yourself. Some like to give plesure but not receive it, some like to receive it, some like to do both.
In the heat of the moment some can relax and go with the flow and other are terrified about close contact from another man.
Its all part of the long journey and experience that most of us are travelling along. I am comfortable in my own skin and happy in my own head so i list myself as bi.
Alot of other guys have not reached that point yet and maybe they will and maybe they wont, but having a label shouldn't stop anyone from meeting up, spending some time together socially and seeing what common interest that you may have. While i am bi and i meet couples i am never going to do anything with a guy thats straight and has no interest in me, then it usually becomes about giving the female pleasure,
It's all supposed to be fun and an enjoyable experience and life usually a whole lot better with a smile on your face.
Sean

Quote by Jane-n-Charlie
Thanks Onix,
I'll just expand on my last question;
Really can anyone involved in swinging be called "straight", and why should we define ourselves by the limited
imagination of the person who designed the website with only Straight/Bi-curious/Bi as options..???
Another, very classy but now defunct, website had Blank and By Feeling as options... pretty cool, Bi-Feeling, lol.

Quote by protool43
I agree with you baileys, if I met somebody and didn't click, that would be fair enough and I would have absolutely no problem atol with that, but when somebody agrees to a meet then doesn't even show up or txt to say they cant make it or just turn off there phone and ignore you, that's what annoys me
People are allowed to say in the forums and comments that they met x y or z and had a great time at a meet and greet etc, why cant we share our bad experiences we had with site members and let everyone else make up there mind about them ?
If anybody went too far saying anything out of line or overly nasty, the mods would step in just like they already do in the rest of the forums
Maybe this would stop people messing others around

Quote by Jane-n-Charlie
Thanks for calling me an idiot Protool, I was wondering what was up with me...
The Bi/Curious/Straight label is a nightmare.
When we put up our profile we had ourselves down as straight, then that lovely girl from Cork said she never meets straight guys cos they're kinda stuck-up. That didn't sound like me so I changed to bicurious... then several couples said they only meet straight guys, yeah they prob were scared and we never met them anyway but... you can't win.
I reckon I'm straight cos when I walk down a street my eyes go like magnets to anything resembling a female form... but I've no problem with intimate male proximity in a group situation and find some male bodies visually attractive... bicurious?
really, can anyone into swinging be called straight?

Quote by protool43
If they would take a second to read my profile they wud know not to, I personally read all profiles before saying hello or whispering or anything, If it says there not into single males, then I dont contact them simple,
Guess sum people will never learn lol

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Sarium I just found this which may answer your question as the same question was asked within the bisexual forum, check out the link below.
http://www.swing4ireland.com/agLB5I314uWur5xz

Quote by dar4u
I recentlty up dated my profile to bi, as I felt, I have to be honest with myself first and foremost and the same for others too.
I had been bi-curious for many years, and I guess I still am to a point in that I have had only one bi encounter.
In saying this, I had been advised by a member here to put up I was straight as it would scare too many people away. I will admit I did have it up a straight, but having received warm support from other members here, I decided, I have nothing to hide, I am who I am, and if you choose to meet me, then you know who I am.
Honesty at times can be difficult, but with so many people who lets others down, I do not want to fall into that category for not been honest.

Quote by Amberx
This is something I have been wondering about for some time, the sexual status on a profile!!
It is no surprise to most on here that I have a thing for bi guys :lick: and it has been said to me bi several guys that they are bisexual however their sexual status on their profile is straight.
Not a major problem until push comes to shove (pardon the pun).
When I ask why this is, I'm told they haven't come out as being bi and prefer it kept to themselves (ok well my take on this is, they have no photo's so who exactly is gonna recognise them personally as bisexual) and a few other reasons.
Now I'm not saying they are not genuine but how can one tell if the profile states one thing and the member says another!! :-?
So I'm asking you if your status is set to other than Bisexual or Bicurious and you are either of them why is that?? :rose:

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is it possible for a guy to consider himself straight, yet have a desire for same sex relations....?

Quote by TITAN79
To the OP....I dont know if you've noticed or not but this is good old catholic Ireland and unfortunately for some its still a subject and they don't want it being known to everyone.

Quote by Ella
Maybe they are straight males seeking their first bi-sexual experience and until they experience it they will continue to class themselves as straight.
There are single members here who are actually married and vice versa. Protool you are a tad harsh and showing your own true colour's with the name calling.