hey hun, i think if it is something that you have said will not happen, and you are absolutly clear to whoever it is that you are uncomfortable with how the correspondence is going, then the only thing to do is tell him that is he persists you are going to have to report him to the mods, its not nice but if your not getting what you want out of a correspondence then it totally within your rights to have him back off and he will have to just deal with it.