I have a question. Bull and I are not gym bunnies, though we both like to take care of ourselves and consider ourselves reasonably attractive. However, I have some scarring across my chest, for instance, something you can't change no matter how much exercise you get.
How do you feel about imperfections? What would you consider something that adds to someone else's uniqueness, and what would be eww?
Boo.
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Sexlightened
Hiya,
We are both on the heavier side and although I consider myself perfect (haha!!!) Chris being a women has all sorts of issues and doubts but these seem to be forgotten in the heat of the moment!! So go for it and if you want some fun I will happlily inspect your scar!
lol
C&R xx
Hun there are so many people here of different shapes sizes .. I think yes perfect bodies are lovely to look at but in my own experience I truly prefer normal ..I have my own lumps nd bumps to contend with :giggle: I have one imperfection which bothers me but I have to say since joining swing its not in the front of my mind anymore .. yes you will get some ass who will pass a shitty comment but my mostly they are from people with no cams / no pics up .. give them the two fingers and move on !!
will all the perfect people please stand up,
cause as far as we can tell we all got our own hang ups,wheather thats a scar,to flesh buldging,to stray hairs or not..
either way think we are as happy with our selves as we can be,,
so lets all just love our inperfections,and enjoy life......
its not a dress rehersal boys n girls this is your 1 and only life,,grab it and shake the tree of life..:thumbup:
cause as far as we can tell we all got our own hang ups,wheather thats a scar,to flesh buldging,to stray hairs or not..
either way think we are as happy with our selves as we can be,,
so lets all just love our inperfections,and enjoy life......
its not a dress rehersal boys n girls this is your 1 and only life,,grab it and shake the tree of life..:thumbup: No one in the world can be described as perfect, any scars that you may have make you who you are, Whether they are stretch marks from child birth, operation scars etc, they make you indivual, I once dated a girl who had some major scars from surgery on her heart as a child, it took her ages to get over how they looked, now a days she wears low cut tops and is proud that these scars saved her life,
What a great place to be. Tbh, in the few days since we joined here, I've come under the impression that taking the step to swing requires a lot of maturity, a thorough knowledge of yourself and an appreciation of other people that goes beyond 'hmm, nice ass' (though I have nothing against a nice ass).
We met a couple last night who are older than us, neither of them film star looks but boy, he is so relaxed, great sense of humour etc. I found myself turned on so much by that.
I've also been spending a lot of time on here (it's all new, can't get enough, will probably get back to doing some writing tomorrow) and had contact with guys who had gorgeous bodies and lovely cocks judging from their photos, but god their attitude left me stone cold. I found even guys I felt attracted to at first would put me off completey when they were too pushy or came across as having an 'I'm god's gift to women' attitude.
Learned so much in such a short time, it's breathtaking. Like discovering a whole new aspect to life.
Boo
Sex God
Hi Boo,
Well as a regular adonis meself I cant see past my own perfection...Snigger
who am I kidding..lol.
Nah, I am a big fella with the odd qware bit hanging out here and there, and I found the more I got into swinging The more comfortable I have gotten with being naked in front of groups of people, and the less of a crap I give about others opinions,
Feck it a 6 pack would be nice, but my 'Keg' holds more beer so I am a more economical investment at parties....:thrilled:
I think that if we were all glistening carbon copies of each other things would get boring very Fast, and I for one have acceptance of who I am and if others dont like, move along the line please.
At the end of the day I think that whats between the ears is a far more importnat attribute as it controls all the other bits and Peoples inert sexyness and intelligence do a lot more for me than a stereotypical 'Perfect figure'
Just me Few bob.
Make.
who am I kidding..lol.
Nah, I am a big fella with the odd qware bit hanging out here and there, and I found the more I got into swinging The more comfortable I have gotten with being naked in front of groups of people, and the less of a crap I give about others opinions,
Feck it a 6 pack would be nice, but my 'Keg' holds more beer so I am a more economical investment at parties....:thrilled:
I think that if we were all glistening carbon copies of each other things would get boring very Fast, and I for one have acceptance of who I am and if others dont like, move along the line please.
At the end of the day I think that whats between the ears is a far more importnat attribute as it controls all the other bits and Peoples inert sexyness and intelligence do a lot more for me than a stereotypical 'Perfect figure'
Just me Few bob.
Make. 
Orgasminator
:Pbloody hell anyone who thinks they have a "perfect body" and makes anyone else feel feel bad has the biggest imperfection off all their heads up there arse . personally as someone whos had more than 100 stiches and staples from the belly button down "front and back"i allways offer the ladies a pen so they can play noughts and crosses when their down there ,ps its brilliant when you can see past a persons body and peek at their souls ,anyone who thinks oh too fat too thin too short too tall misses a lot of life :smoke:
:love:Hi BullandBoo great to hear someone who wants to ask normal questions lets meet up and compair scars.
We plan to organise a party in Limerick within the next 2 months all our friends have a few things in common, they come in all shapes and sizes, they are all normal, very horny, very sexy, non pushy, no means no and above all they are all great fun.
So watch out for our party on the list, drop us a line and we will make you more than welcome warts an all.
Jack & Kate
a lot of great comments here. Boo - as someone with a few scars (and a lot of lumps and bumps) i'd say that whatever you've been through to get them has made you stronger, and consequently the person you are today, be proud of them, and yourself. there's no doubt that self confidence wins you a lot admirers
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Bull and Boo having watched the Bulland Boo show last should not be worried. That was a beautiful performance I'm still fantasing about it today.
You are gorgeous....... Hi no need to feel awkward , what I look for is the sexiness of the person, at the moment we meet an older couple, he s a bit on the heavy side while she is a bit on the lean side but boy are they real swingers!!! then there is another lady who has had major surgery for all kinds of things and boy is she rearin to go. You know what they say its not the size of the dog in the fight but the size of the fight in the dog..
Hiya BullandBoo
I just had to comment to say the way I see it.... the imperfections of a person make them more interesting as a person..nobody, not one person is perfect.
I have seen others who are on cam been slated for their looks but at least they have a personality unlike the ones that spew the insults and havent the goolies to go on cam themselves......
Ah boo hun....this is probably way, way redundant, but I'll say it anyway...I've met you, you're a lovely person, I've seen your scars (i was bold enough to ask how you got them - you were honest enough to tell me), and if I was in the frame for it I'd be into your knickers in a flash :inlove:.
Personally I avoid anyone who describes themselves as "attractive" or "stunning" like the plague as i find narcissism a complete turn-off. Someone who is comfortable with who and what they are, and confident enough to go out and look for what they want, is far more attractive to me.
T-bags
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Ah boo hun....this is probably way, way redundant, but I'll say it anyway...I've met you, you're a lovely person, I've seen your scars (i was bold enough to ask how you got them - you were honest enough to tell me), and if I was in the frame for it I'd be into your knickers in a flash :inlove:.
Personally I avoid anyone who describes themselves as "attractive" or "stunning" like the plague as i find narcissism a complete turn-off. Someone who is comfortable with who and what they are, and confident enough to go out and look for what they want, is far more attractive to me.
