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Hey Bo 
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i am gonna kinda agree with ya :P but you see when we single woman go on what we want in chat we do it in a playful teasing way :giggle: HOWEVER i am dead serious when i go on the way i do :eeek: and why shouldn't I? I am here for sex...and i have to be attracted to someone to have sex so i have my preferences. I find it funny that some men can perv my public pics (by the way alwaysssssss ones in the best light) and want to meet me...they have no idea what my face looks like...the rest of my body...if i am into safe sex...have no idea what i am into or what my fantasies are ...yet they are ready to jump in my bed :eeek: i find that more concerning than the way woman go on....
If you want to talk about a real issue...the messers on the site? But in all fairness i am sick and tired of all the negativity around here these days....i am not having a go at you Bo...just all of us that are bitching about one thing or another.....lets get back to having fun and enjoying the site for which its meant.
worship
Before you
i am gonna kinda agree with ya :P but you see when we single woman go on what we want in chat we do it in a playful teasing way :giggle: HOWEVER i am dead serious when i go on the way i do :eeek: and why shouldn't I? I am here for sex...and i have to be attracted to someone to have sex so i have my preferences. I find it funny that some men can perv my public pics (by the way alwaysssssss ones in the best light) and want to meet me...they have no idea what my face looks like...the rest of my body...if i am into safe sex...have no idea what i am into or what my fantasies are ...yet they are ready to jump in my bed :eeek: i find that more concerning than the way woman go on....If you want to talk about a real issue...the messers on the site? But in all fairness i am sick and tired of all the negativity around here these days....i am not having a go at you Bo...just all of us that are bitching about one thing or another.....lets get back to having fun and enjoying the site for which its meant.
worship 
:dunno: What r u a school teacher??I tend to disagree, as I've seen guys ask for a petite big busted blonde, must be attractive and in good shape etc. I don't take offence to that, nor think it discriminative, it's that guys own preference and good luck to him he knows what he wants.
Just like I have an age preference, although I would like him to be tall, well hung, smell nice, with all his own teeth but hey the age will suffice for now I can work on the rest ;)
I agree with Worship in relation to negativity, I'm a firm beliver in "Dwelling on the negative simply contributes to its power." :thumbup:
Just like I have an age preference, although I would like him to be tall, well hung, smell nice, with all his own teeth but hey the age will suffice for now I can work on the rest ;)
I agree with Worship in relation to negativity, I'm a firm beliver in "Dwelling on the negative simply contributes to its power." :thumbup:
I agree with all you's are saying, just was making an observation.
Amber / Worship your right, too much nagativity around, its suppose to be a fun site 
KKgirl I know what your saying i wouldn't do someone just for the sake of it.
I was just having a rant, rant over i'll be a good boy from now on promise :twisted:
Nuting wong wit mi spelin eder
KKgirl I know what your saying i wouldn't do someone just for the sake of it.
I was just having a rant, rant over i'll be a good boy from now on promise :twisted:
Nuting wong wit mi spelin eder Mmm the age old subject.
Problem is there are so many men compared to women on the site, and I suspect the same number of gobshites in both sexes, so it appears many many more male gobshites.
I agree with everyones comments (which for me is some achievement). The only grumpy thing is the effect all the guys have on the women. Some girls take the Oh you are gorgeous to theirs and become fierce prima donnas altogether, some have a kinda DONT CONTACT ME IF YOU HAVE A PENIS, grrr grrr grrr, and some are just plain mad. But hey, such is life.
An open non judgemental attitude leads to enjoying probing (har har) nice conversation, and yes, perhaps a really rewarding encounter (or 2)
tom4 what are u on about? so what if a girl doesnt want to be contacted by a male?? either there not meeting them or they prefer to pick there own??
and as for the old age thing. It is no ones business what age anyone wants to meet! If I choose to only meet short bald men 58-62 medium build with 5inch penis then hey its my choice and should b respected (thats only an example by the way please dont contact me if u follow that critera!) And if I choose to meet someone outside the critera then again its my business
I find the girls who get called prima donnas are really only the ones who dont suffer fools gladly or take any bullshit.
As someone who has been on and off this site for almost a year I can see both sides of the argument. I don't think it can be called discrimination against either sex when someone decides what it is they are looking for in a man or woman. I am attracted to women and have no interest in meeting up with a man, I have absolutely nothing against gay, bi or cross dressing men but I have no desire to meet them for sex I don't think I am discriminating against them. I am only 5ft 9in, I would not like to meet up with a 6ft woman, again I don't think that can be seen as discrimination.
I think the main issue in my opinion is the amount of men there is compared to women therefore it is VERY hard for women to decide who are genuine and who are not. I would imagine that women get loads of mail on a daily basis and are never short on offers. Most the women on here have the pick of the bunch therefore have every right to be choosey over who they want to meet. I was on here as part of a couple in the past and the amount of cock pics we got sent through despite requesting no single males was unreal.
I think most men, myself included in the past think that they can just invite a woman for sex via a message and they will come running. But there HAS to be an attraction on both parties and also a good connection.
Just my opinion for what it is worth............
Warming the Bed
Quote by kkgirl
Gareth I disagree with you! Sure we all have preferences and why no. tbh it actually slightly puts me off if I see an age/looks/hieght/weight/personality not important, to me it reads anything with a pulse will do!
Well for me age looks hieght weight are not important but personality is and thats why i perfer to meet for a drink or whaterver before jumping into bed with someone. But also being over weight bald and only 5ft 8 i cant be too picky
Quote by kkgirl
If I choose to only meet short bald men 58-62 medium build with 5inch penis then hey its my choice and should b respected
Well thats me outta the running for a nice time with the beautiful kkgirl. :rascal:
She is a gorgeous, sexy goddess who would never admit that she is, and she is no primadonna, but still doesnt suffer fools gladly. One of the soundest girls on this site and a pleasure to know
And for all you crybaby males who are moaning that you cant get laid on here, man up, dry up those tears and put some work in, maybe then you will get noticed and get lucky.
Just because this is a swing site, doesnt necessarily mean that every/any girl here will sleep with you, because lets face it, girls of swing are far more choosey than a girl you may meet in a nightclub etc, theyre hear for a reason, and they have the most varied choice of partners to choose from. And in swinging, girls are the rulers and their rules are law.
Now heres a kleenex, dry your tears and get yourselves into chat and start mingling. If that fails, get your ass along to a meet and greet because thats the best chance you have to meet the ladies of swing in person, and to make the best impression you possibly can.
Quote by alicolwic
If I choose to only meet short bald men 58-62 medium build with 5inch penis then hey its my choice and should b respected
Well thats me outta the running for a nice time with the beautiful kkgirl. :rascal:
She is a gorgeous, sexy goddess who would never admit that she is, and she is no primadonna, but still doesnt suffer fools gladly. One of the soundest girls on this site and a pleasure to know
And for all you crybaby males who are moaning that you cant get laid on here, man up, dry up those tears and put some work in, maybe then you will get noticed and get lucky.
Just because this is a swing site, doesnt necessarily mean that every/any girl here will sleep with you, because lets face it, girls of swing are far more choosey than a girl you may meet in a nightclub etc, theyre hear for a reason, and they have the most varied choice of partners to choose from. And in swinging, girls are the rulers and their rules are law.
Now heres a kleenex, dry your tears and get yourselves into chat and start mingling. If that fails, get your ass along to a meet and greet because thats the best chance you have to meet the ladies of swing in person, and to make the best impression you possibly can.
It's nothing to do with getting laid, I have no problem in that department thanks. I was just making an observation. I'll remember to keep my opinions to myself in the future.
their should be some sort of feature where people can say whether they might be interested in meeting a certain person or not at least then you'd know who might be interested like the one on :censored: think its called meet me or something.
This site just isnt value for money for a single male if anything it should be cheaper for us since its allot harder for us to meet single girls their should be more features aimed at single people there just isn't enough at the moment..its pretty poor
Everyone has the right to have their own preferences as to who they meet on here or otherwise whether they are a man, woman or a couple and people's preferences should be respected also by others, if anything it helps as you know whether there's a point in mailing the person or not from reading their profile. Not really sure if I go along with the idea there's widespread discrimination against single males on here but it's a valid topic and it's always good to have a debate on these things.
Sex God
Quote by silver_2011
their should be some sort of feature where people can say whether they might be interested in meeting a certain person or not at least then you'd know who might be interested like the one on :censored: think its called meet me or something.
This site just isnt value for money for a single male if anything it should be cheaper for us since its allot harder for us to meet single girls their should be more features aimed at single people there just isn't enough at the moment..its pretty poor
Some of your points are valid, but swinging is a primarily couple orientated activity and us singles have to put up with that,I personally view meself as a pretty average person and all that I have met through some hard graft, putting in the effort to show My decency and normality to those I have had the pleasure to meet with. In the swing club scene in the UK for instance the same status quo applies, couples normally get a cheaper attendance charge, single women get in for free and single males Pay a higher price. Unfair it may seem but alas a fact of the scene.
Sex God
@Tom4...I think we need to get our own swing clubs in this country before we consider following that line of inquiry
Orgasminator
Quote by Misterk1985you are so right on this i am a femaleand i meet alone but there must be a click between us . i have meet lots of fems cpls males and i had some great times try and get to meet and greets as they are a good way of meeting ppl suzie
As someone who has been on and off this site for almost a year I can see both sides of the argument. I don't think it can be called discrimination against either sex when someone decides what it is they are looking for in a man or woman. I am attracted to women and have no interest in meeting up with a man, I have absolutely nothing against gay, bi or cross dressing men but I have no desire to meet them for sex I don't think I am discriminating against them. I am only 5ft 9in, I would not like to meet up with a 6ft woman, again I don't think that can be seen as discrimination.
I think the main issue in my opinion is the amount of men there is compared to women therefore it is VERY hard for women to decide who are genuine and who are not. I would imagine that women get loads of mail on a daily basis and are never short on offers. Most the women on here have the pick of the bunch therefore have every right to be choosey over who they want to meet. I was on here as part of a couple in the past and the amount of cock pics we got sent through despite requesting no single males was unreal.
I think most men, myself included in the past think that they can just invite a woman for sex via a message and they will come running. But there HAS to be an attraction on both parties and also a good connection.
Just my opinion for what it is worth............
