This forum is not just read by bi-sexual members but also by us bi-curious members (hee hee hoping for some pointers).
Maybe you would be so kind as to give us some advice. Let us know what you wish you'd known starting out. What to expect, what to avoid, any personal experiences you think would be of benefit to share. I'm not expecting you to reveal your own personal stories but maybe let us know anything you think we might relate to us. Then again I love a good story......... :gagged:
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Expect all parties to have fun and enjoy it,,,,no one to feel coerced into doing anything they don’t want,,same as str8 sex,,,
I worried about
Am I doin this right??....lol
People finding out…now,,,,its my life so dont judge me
I SO wish id known about KY ( etc ) earlier..
Have never let a guy shag me,,,but one day ,,ya never know.
Makin sure if it’s a bi 3way the girl involved doesn’t feel as if she’s not part of the equation,,there r times in a 3way that one person feels left out, and this sometimes happens when the 3way is with an attached couple.
Knowing when to leave,,unless ive travelled a fair distance and I was asked to stay over,,,I generally leave them both to it, while the afterglow is still there,, in their own bed with a kiss good nite n a thanks !!
I might add to this later when I think about it a bit more
Best advice Mid, just be yourself, relax and enjoy the experience..
Everyone is nervous meeting the first time, but women do tend to gel quickly..
Spend lots of time tlaking before you meet, ask lots of questions about tastes, preferences ect, be honest about what you would wish from the meet..
Casanova
Midnight....thank you for posting a great thread as always.
My first bi-meet from here was very recent and from chatting to the people for a while beforehand, they very much calmed my fears. On meeting them I knew I didn't have to do anything I didn't want to and the most important thing was to be comfortable with yourself and with them.
This was only my second ever bi meet and let me say the first was nerve wracking. The question in my head.....OMG what am I doing? Am I normal to feel this way or do this? What happens if my cover is blown?
I have now learned that we are all human and if we see each person as that, then gender dosen't really come in to it. We are allowing ourselves to be open to experiencing new things. I am so delighted I have taken the first few steps and it means that if I am in a 3sum or 4sum situation, I don't feel nervous or out of place.
The only advice i can offer as a fem is don't let fear get the better of you, there is nothing wrong with been attracted to the same sex and nothing wrong with having sexual contact.
Teddy's advice, be sure of what you want, don't have a closed mind to new things but don't be pressured into anything your not comfortable with.
But above all relax and enjoy the bi ride:thrilled:
midnight hun the most important thing is to be comfortable in a suitation and never let anyone do to you what you dont want or like,,,when i am with a girl i think what i would like to be done to me and take it from there,,i love to make a girl cum so huny if you fancy a lucy treat just let me know :rose:
Sex God
I think the most important thing in my own experience is to just take it one step at a time, and see what your comfy with, and how much it turns you on. As Bongo said let no one coerce ya into anything that puts you outside the comfort zone, as you may end up ruling out something you'll regret in later years because the person you were with was pushy or gave you a bad experience.
e.g Crap First anal sex experiences anyone??? I know loads of women **and a few lads..;-)** that dismiss it because some 'oaf' forgot the 'normal lube requirement x10' rule of thumb and the fact you need to have the other person incredibly turned on.
Sexpert
hmmmm interestin dis one mid..well as said above get ta know peeps 1st and relaxation is d key..but i must admit u wont avoid nerves, dere always dere..well its part of buzz..and dat story..mayb we cud make our own hun...
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hmmmm interestin dis one mid..well as said above get ta know peeps 1st and relaxation is d key..but i must admit u wont avoid nerves, dere always dere..well its part of buzz..and dat story..mayb we cud make our own hun...
Hawny you know you give me butterflies :haha:
Sexpert
oooh mid giv ya more dan butterflies.. :evil2: :doggy:
such a delicate lil touch eh..:grin: what a great starting point.. :lick::lick:
Sexpert
Kept in fridge, then eaten directly from erogenous zones:crazy:
ooooooooh ur such a saucy minx virgo...:lick::lick::haha:
ooooooooh ur such a saucy minx virgo...:lick::lick::haha:
