Most men love anal! But most women say its gross and painful..
So the women who do enjoy it...are they just pleasing their men?
If women do really like it..what do they like about it??
It is only painful if you dont use enough lube, if you are too nervous as the muscles will clench and if the bloke doing it doesnt take care and enter gently.
What i like about anal is the fact it is still a very act and i love the sensation of teddys cock going deep and riding me hard and making me cum.
I agree with Raven you need lots of lube a gentle entry and to be relaxed and that's why I enjoy anal with someone I trust and I'm comfortable with. I find it just as pleasurable and sometimes even more so than vaginal sex.
Yeah totally agree with Raven and Busty!!! if it's done right it can be OMG amazing, I'm a big fan of it. But would only do it with someone I trust, and alot of lube is used. Sometimes I feel like it bold, something you shouldn't be doing cos alot of people aren't into it. But the sensation from it fantastic and makes a good long sex session even better :P
I have a friend (ha ha ha ha) who doesn't use lube. SHE far prefers the natural sensation without it being softened by third party substances :laughabove:
Alas I'm in the gross and painful camp. Hats off to you girls who are able for it though especially Midnight's er. friend!
No worries Eden, would be horrific to think someone who didnt want to do it was attempting it! Would not go well. SHE :laughabove: says the trick is to breath out at that critical point as it involuntarily relaxes your muscles, take a deep breath and suffer the consequences!
But in saying that SHEvery rarely does it and only with certain men.
My ex loved it.
We used lube the odd time but mostly we wouldn't use anything.
She squirted so we used that as lube and it made for amazing Fuck.
Hmmm... some of that right about now.
the trick with anal go`s back to fore play as your giving oral gently start to probe with your index finger not inserting straight away but enough to let her know your there and rimming helps as its very sensitive there and alot of women love it and then a little lube as you finger her main entrance and slowly insert finger, need to widen or stretch them out first boys as the will like if you did instead of trying to barge in...
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I wouldnt do just anything to please a man :dry:
It's definitely a trust thing with me, I wouldnt do it with just any guy no matter how good he says he is......
If it's done wrong it bloody well hurts :crazy: but when it's done right :smile2:
Patience relaxation some wine and lots and lots of lube. Let the lady take the lead and allow her to push the rewards are mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm
as well as a nice hot bath to ladies helps you relax long with a massage!! and raven is that a open invite?? lol
:laughabove: raven yes he is :thrilled:
well if i never ask i will never know ?? so raven wink wink nudge nudge lol
Only if i can do anal on you tatts lol
i will try to be submissive raven but what go`s around comes around lol
I agree with everything the ladies have said above... lots of lube, being comfortable with the person you're with, etc. but I know of various women that have taken all of such precautions and it still hurt. Not only did these women want to have anal sex, but they were extremely disappointed when all of their efforts still resulted in a less than desirable experience.
to each their own.
I agree with the above, anal can be amazing if done properly, and can actually feel better and less painful than vaginal sometimes