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What turns you off.........

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Unknown User
I am just curious to know what would turn you off meeting someone. Ye have swapped pics, chatted for a while and decided definately want to meet THEN....

i found out he was a serial texter :eeek: :eeek: bolt
Unknown User
Chatted to a delightful guy a good while ago. Same thing as you worship. Swapped numbers, facepics etc. Then he just seemed to loose it. Didn't want me whispering or talking to anyone here. We never did get to have that coffee. lol
irishlass37
Master of Sex
He started mentioning the ladies on swing he wanted to meet after me, he had a top ten list ...true story, lets just say I declined lol
Unknown User
THEN …… The seemingly fun , intelligent , intellectual person presides to utters / text / mail me a sentence that not only give a clear view off there intent , put also …to me is ….. Demeaning , degrading and downright despicable thing to say to anyone who just so happens to be different from the norm ….. ' I always wanted to see if it would be the same with someone like you …you know what I mean ' Inevitably my replies is the same ' no I don't …… ??? ' dare i say the rest dunnorolleyes:roll::roll::roll::roll::roll::roll::roll: innocent:whistling: Ahhhh if it wasn't for the odd ignoramus / amadán...everyday would be the same lol :lol:
sexysandra
Warming the Bed
I have to say this has happened to me on a few occasions now, it starts with a whisper from a couple profile...the 1st question I ask is 'who am i speaking to?' 99.9% of times its the male half(in fact even a fake couple profile) If its genuine I get the guy waffling on about how fantastic his partner is but she's never available to chat! Sorry if Im considering a couple meet then its the female half I'd be interested in speaking to :twisted:
Unknown User
Persistent mails... Do you want to meet?...... Fancy meeting up.......do prefer meeting up first...... So how about that meet....... Can I see your pics Or a wink followed by a...... Can I see your pics Would update my profile with a list of no no's but it appears most just dont bother reading it. Or getting a friend request 10 times. If I didn't except it the first time or send u the request chances are, possibly I'm just not interested.
sunsetgirl
Master of Sex
sometimes just a feeling that maybe meeting isnt the best thing to do....
Unknown User
Have had situations as well where something just didn't feel right about a certain situation or about the person & I think you have to go with your instincts and you'll seldom be lead astray.
ravenfire
Sex God
lack of personal hygine..nothing worse.
Unknown User
Arrogance .....nothing worse.....
mrnmrsmac
Sexpert
What turns me off..is when im having a chat/whisper everythings going good they seem lovely, we decide yes we'll meet and next thing they start name calling... slut!! dirty bitch!! im sorry but doesn't do it for me..think it scares me more than anything and I would be afraid to meet you...ive been in this situation twice and didnt like it.. :upset: mrsmac :rose:
Unknown User
mine is ya chatting away nicely few undertones and then...... when am i gonna fuck ya and finger ya ass... ERM hello i dont know you i have chatted to ya but unless there is some sort of mutual attraction... sorry i aint taking one for any team... and the presumption that cause ya chatting them and being pleasant that your in the bag banghead For me thats a total NO way... NEXT lol
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Quote by temptress
mine is ya chatting away nicely few undertones and then...... when am i gonna fuck ya and finger ya ass... E

I think that's a case of watching too much porn! lol
Unknown User
bad hygiene..
Unknown User
Hypocrisy........... banghead
Unknown User
desperation self-pitying
ravenfire
Sex God
Lack of detail in profiles :twisted:
Unknown User
Find arrogance a huge turn off
Unknown User
No sense of humour
Wilder
Orgasminator
What turns me off? My off switch! :eeek: Good luck finding it girls, it's hard to find!!... lol
Unknown User
Cancellations when you have spent most of the day preparing banghead
Unknown User
Quote by Legz
Cancellations when you have spent most of the day preparing banghead

WTF :banghead: :banghead: sooo over this meeting shite!!!!! evil
LEGZ hon, kiss i know you are too smart to take this personally but it still sucks!! Chin up :kiss:
Unknown User
Rudeness and arrogance....... rolleyes
playfull
Orgasminator
cockiness ...........nobody is perfect :shock:
Unknown User
People who can't be bothered replying to emails. rolleyes dunno
lucylovesit
Casanova
reading in the "would you have sex with the person above" thread , that you woulden't have sex with the person above,,, im a firm believer that if you dont have anything nice to say then dont say anything at all,,,,,
vanity
Master of Sex
play love your answer hun lucy well said hun lord i think if there a thread asking that should have been deleted up to the individual if they have sex with or not with my thing is different strokes for different folks, wonders now has anyone said they dont want to shag me lol, not that i give a shit im fussy too
Unknown User
Assumptions...... Dont assume you know it all . . . as there is always more to learn :smile: Why not ask and see before you make your mind up dunno