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What turns you off.........

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The bitching on this site, come on guys get a life.
When you reach that stage after chatting to someone who is all talk to you about meeting when you realise that there is in intention of actually meeting on their part as when a date is mentioned you either hear no more from the person at all or they are always "busy"
Sorry lads but men who agree to a meet and cant get it up :twisted: dont go into a situation if you cant handle it
this site does its a disgrace!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I am hearing recently that certain people are attempting to 'Ring fence' people and threatening not to meet/invite them to party s because you may have planned or met others whom these people perceive as being below them/Not they're kinda people etc. Honestly its a vulgar and ugly outlook to have, nothing would turn me off someone faster. Fair enough we all have different types, but who is anyone to make such call's on peoples choices!!!! I thought this was Swing for Ireland? not 'High school Musical/Mean Girls'...(insert relevant teen drama here) :sad:
Think people might have lost track of what this thread was about, its suppose to be about what turns you off meeting people, there are already a few threads for having rants on for example..letting off steam, things that make your blood boil, things that make you go grrrr etc...swingers seem to like to give out a lot wink If i had already arranged to meet someone and they became overtly vulgur and crude that would turn me off meeting them
Morticia is right I'm just going to throw the original post in here to remind people the basis of this particular thread.
17th Apr 2012
Quote by worshipme
I am just curious to know what would turn you off meeting someone. Ye have swapped pics, chatted for a while and decided definately want to meet THEN....

i found out he was a serial texter :eeek: :eeek: bolt
Being uptight about the nitty grit of a coffee meet.... Like where he's going to park and how bad the traffic home will be if we don't meet til a certain time of afternoon....... :uhoh: dunno eh its only coffee............. bolt
what pisses me off.....being on a meet and his phone doesn't stop...he's constantly texting "whoever" and im being neglected...not good! Happened just d once and i won't be having it again...f*ck that!!!! Plus im with raven.....the stalkers......if im not replying im just not that into u.....text terrorism i call it tut tut....hate that!!!
Getting calls at 3 or 4 in the morning, especially when I'm on an early shift at work
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what pisses me off.....being on a meet and his phone doesn't stop...he's constantly texting "whoever" and im being neglected...not good! Happened just d once and i won't be having it again...f*ck that!!!! Plus im with raven.....the stalkers......if im not replying im just not that into u.....text terrorism i call it tut tut....hate that!!!
I wouldnt mind the early call's once I was gettign something out of it.
A Major turn off for me are people name dropping who they've met and also I am with the poster who mentioned the constant texting..when I am with someone I like to give them my time and attention, its not a big ask looking for it reciprocated now is it?
It would put me off meeting someone if I saw that they posted a lot of angry stuff in the forums over and over again!!!
Saying I'll meet for coffee and tell guy when I'm free, for him to start texting saying "sure can u not get someone else to pick up kids" or "can u not cancel ur prearranged class/or whatever as that is nite that suits me best"..(this went on for several texts lol)..it is meant to be fun not stressful and not something you should have to rearrange your day for..
insincerity...fakery... I am with you on the texting on a meet! Really? Really? While still naked in bed? Tut tut!
hairy backs sad ........sorry to all ye men with hairy backs kiss
When you're getting ready to meet someone having made all the arrangements etc and are getting ready to go out and you get a text or e-mail saying they have to cancel
Bad personal hygiene, there is just no excuse for it!
The lesser of two, which is also half of one....... ;)
Willy wars...... Two grown men who just have to keep getting one up on each other. And having to sit through two hours of it
Immature adults
Quote by Legz
Bad personal hygiene, there is just no excuse for it!

THIS.
And hair down there where there ought to be no hair.
Those who make others out to be bad in order to hide their own misdemeanors. Oh and two faced cowards, lets not forget those
Those who at one point slate a certain person or cpl only for the next week to be best mates with them. WTF is that all about?
Those who shit stir, whinge and generally love the sound of their own voice and use these forums to accomodate all three rolleyes:roll:
People who always

PS ....not the drums lol
Those who would rather allow sly shit to go unnoticed and or undocumented so as to stay in with the "it crowd". Well that aint me, id rather say it as i see it than stay silent and popular. A lot more on here could try it too.
Quote by upforitgirl
Those who shit stir, whinge and generally love the sound of their own voice and use these forums to accomodate all three rolleyes:roll:

Wow upfor that could be taken as naming and shaming especially since you used the lookup smiley directly under my post. You really have to be careful as it really looks like youre taking a pop at me. But i know you arent cos you fancy me way too much to throw a sly dig my way lol
Assumptions banghead:banghead::banghead::banghead::banghead::banghead::banghead::banghead:
Those who assume im being serious when im really just havin the craic ;)