He started mentioning the ladies on swing he wanted to meet after me, he had a top ten list ...true story, lets just say I declined lol
I have to say this has happened to me on a few occasions now, it starts with a whisper from a couple profile...the 1st question I ask is 'who am i speaking to?' 99.9% of times its the male half(in fact even a fake couple profile)
If its genuine I get the guy waffling on about how fantastic his partner is but she's never available to chat!
Sorry if Im considering a couple meet then its the female half I'd be interested in speaking to :twisted:
Persistent mails... Do you want to meet?...... Fancy meeting up.......do prefer meeting up first...... So how about that meet....... Can I see your pics
Or a wink followed by a...... Can I see your pics
Would update my profile with a list of no no's but it appears most just dont bother reading it.
Or getting a friend request 10 times. If I didn't except it the first time or send u the request chances are, possibly I'm just not interested.
sometimes just a feeling that maybe meeting isnt the best thing to do....
Have had situations as well where something just didn't feel right about a certain situation or about the person & I think you have to go with your instincts and you'll seldom be lead astray.
lack of personal hygine..nothing worse.
Arrogance .....nothing worse.....
What turns me off..is when im having a chat/whisper everythings going good they seem lovely, we decide yes we'll meet and next thing they start name calling... slut!! dirty bitch!! im sorry but doesn't do it for me..think it scares me more than anything and I would be afraid to meet you...ive been in this situation twice and didnt like it.. :upset:
mrsmac :rose:
Lack of detail in profiles :twisted:
Find arrogance a huge turn off
cockiness ...........nobody is perfect :shock:
reading in the "would you have sex with the person above" thread , that you woulden't have sex with the person above,,,
im a firm believer that if you dont have anything nice to say then dont say anything at all,,,,,
play love your answer hun lucy well said hun lord i think if there a thread asking that should have been deleted up to the individual if they have sex with or not with my thing is different strokes for different folks, wonders now has anyone said they dont want to shag me lol, not that i give a shit im fussy too