Lets just expand Bongos theory for a moment
If there is an after life, and all you need do is say something and the people that are in the after life will hear you, therfore it stands to reason that they can see and hear every thing you do while you are on earth as a mortal.
Still with me class :-?
Well the the after life must be like a constant barroom brawl with everyone knocking 7 types of shite out of each other as they arrive in the door for all the things they seen you do after they died.:kick::twisted::fuckinghell:
Think about it just on a relaionship level
How many people have ended up with their dearly departed's sister/brother son/daughter.
Sold their car for scrap cause they never liked it.
fooked the mother in law out of the granny flat the minute the funeral is over.
I'm telling you if there is an after life it is empty cause every one has killed each other:giveup: