ladies !!!! Kerrymale here
This is a guys view so maybe I am wrong but!!!!
Why oh Why do some ladies think that they are Gods gift (yes I do know that the same can apply to men).
OK this happened in another site but has happened here as well. You know how it is you see a profile , see the pic , your a guy and your thinking with your dick. You pluck up the courage to send a mail. Nothing rude just an introduction to say hello , who you are , what kind of person you are and you include your partners info as well. Nothing wrong there I take it?
Well the answer is this and I quote "So why do you think you deserve to have my attention" And " Only on the site a day and have 185 messages, I can pick who I like to fuck me"
Ladies just cause your gorgeous , young , and fit does not excuse you from being ignorant, rude, and big headed to boot. We are not here to be ridiculed and made to feel low , If your not interested then say so , if you are not meeting a guy or couple from my area and prefer closer to home then thatS fine as well, but sounding like a complete bitch is not necessary is it.
REMEMBER WE MIGHT BE WELL KNOWN ON THE SITE AND PEOPLE TALK AND WORD GETS AROUND.
I totally get what your saying, it cost nothing to be polite but I think some peeps get a thrill out of it. BUT it works both ways...I always try to be polite but there are some who just dont get the hint!
I totally agree politeness is very important. As well as that , for me anyway being full of yourself and making a person feel low and ugly is a complete turn off. It costs nothing to be nice. I would rather meet a genuine , respectful, kind person than a supermodel with an attitude. As would a lot of genuine proper swingers on this site.
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Dragon, I completely agree with your sentiment. I have, after sending a very tame mail, with bits about me, general chit chat, asking about them, then to receive a barrage of abuse in the reply " who do you think you are messeging me without been asked", "did i ask you to mail me", "ask me first in chat before i allow you to mail me", and thats just a small sample form different ladies. If these ladies took the time to read my comments, they would see I am a normal, easy going, guy looking for naughty fun on this site, just like eveyone else. Ladies, this is a swing site, single ladies been in the minority will receive the most mails, but if you have no interest, all it takes is a one liner to say "thanks for the mail but i'm not interested"..
May I just add that if anyone is receiving abuse of any kind be it via email or other please report it to any of the moderators, admin or by submitting an abuse report. We can't rid the site of abuse unless we are aware it is happening :thumbup:
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, and while some women here think they are supermodels and can treat others like shit, in truth they are the ugliest people on the planet, and as i have found a lot of these beauty's have no pics and never been on cam, so for all we know it could be a total minger on the other end of the computer.
I hate big headed twats:taz:
Dragon here
I just wanted to reiterate Kerrymale's comment on PEOPLE TALK. We in no way judge people by what others say but by how they treat us. If you are rude then we will obviously say to people who might ask us about you that you were rude to us and acted like a b**ch but we do not gossip just to put the record straight. Not our style and never will be. All Kerrymale is asking for is politeness. Like the previous reply from Icer stated just politely say no thanks. Easy huh???
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Amber,I wouldn't call it abuse,just rudeness ,bad manners and some women who just suffer From "I'm full of myself" syndrome !! ;-)
As good looking as you are.......... there's always going to be someone better looking.
Looking at the two replies
"So why do you think you deserve to have my attention" goes down as comment most likely to create disinterest.
And " Only on the site a day and have 185 messages, I can pick who I like to fuck me" erm we all pick who we like to fuck us isn't that the point !