Hi Guys,
Just like to share my experience last night. Have only been on here a short while. Just looking to make friends and if I hook up with people great!
I was approached yesterday by a couple who asked would I like to meet that evening and they left their mobile. I had a look at their profile, seemed geniune and had one photo of the lady. So I texted them and said yeah I would be interested. So we discussed what we both like etc and he told me where they lived. Now I am in North Dublin and they said they were in very south Dublin. They gave me the exact road they lived on, so off I went for our meet at 11pm. Reached the little estate where they said they lived and I texted them to say I was here, no response. Then a few minutes later I rang them but the phone rang out! They knew I was coming at that time so the phone should have been to hand.
I appreciate they may have got cold feet but it would have been nice to be let know and save me the 45 min drive!
As any others had experiences like this? Just need some cheering up as I am bit downhearted over the experience.
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Any arrangements made off site, whether fulfilled or not, are at the discretion of the members. This unfortunate incident has nothing to do admin and there is no point in thinking that any intervention will be made. Perhaps it is a lesson learnt; arrangements take time to make. Chat and communicate as much as you can, eventually you will develop a radar for these things. Do not agree to a meet without first speaking to both parties on the phone and also seeing them on a web-cam. In this day and age there is no excuse for not going on cam, a well known supermarket is now selling a budget range which should be affordable to any person.
In realistic terms naming and shaming or keeping record of non-site related activities is an unlikely scenario. Make use of what's available to you on the site. If you are new, chat to the long-term members you know meet successfully, if they reckon something is too good to be true; chances are it is. I personally have Extras on my account. My reason for having this is not to see who has looked at my profile but for the greater information it gives me. If I am chatting to someone I look at their profile and am given a list of recent activities. If I note that they have added 10 different people to their favourites recently, but no one has reciprocated, this gives me cause to be cautious..... Essentially nice what I'm saying is that it's a learning curve. Take it on board and develop a strategy for future.
In realistic terms naming and shaming or keeping record of non-site related activities is an unlikely scenario. Make use of what's available to you on the site. If you are new, chat to the long-term members you know meet successfully, if they reckon something is too good to be true; chances are it is. I personally have Extras on my account. My reason for having this is not to see who has looked at my profile but for the greater information it gives me. If I am chatting to someone I look at their profile and am given a list of recent activities. If I note that they have added 10 different people to their favourites recently, but no one has reciprocated, this gives me cause to be cautious..... Essentially nice what I'm saying is that it's a learning curve. Take it on board and develop a strategy for future.
Sex God
always a bad feeling when something like that happens to you, iv not been stood up but iv had cancellations at very short notice, the old all dressed up and no where to go syndrome sets in,especially when a swing meet is cancelled,all those scary butterfly's and feeling of excitement and nervousness that are running round in ur stomach and suddenly the plug is pulled, and bang,you start wondering, "was it me" am i not sexy enough, or horny enough"
All i can say nice is, keep the chin up , chat to ppl, as midnight points out there cam to cam is good to make sure ppl are what they say they are,and u will get good sexy horny meets 
Onwards and upwards as my dear old mother would say ;)
Onwards and upwards as my dear old mother would say ;) 
Orgasminator
hi nice yes it happened me too read my forum called "how you dumped " xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx suzie
Neutral ground - always make a first meet as a social meet. Coffee/drinks in a place you are both comfy with being seen together in public. If they can't face up to meeting you somewhere safe/in plain sight/broad daylight/in public, they won't ever meet you anywhere else - and that's their loss - for chickening out.
Marie's Philosophy on Meeting - I really should put this book out
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Marie's Philosophy on Meeting - I really should put this book out
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