straight or bi...??

16 Aug 2011

I agree with Jane n Charlie about changing the profile blurb, I'm useless at writing it and know that if I could express myself in writing better we'd probably get noticed and actually be able to arrange a meet. On the topic raised about straight, bi or bi-curious I have listed myself as bi curious because that's what I am curious. I would love to be with another woman, experiment with another woman, I can't say it has gained us any more attention on the site because as I have already said I am useless at "selling" us as a couple so I don't think it would matter what I listed my sexuality as. The only time attention was raised was when I cammed, and there were no men or women involved only my toys, and there isn't a box to tick for that, and I am sure people didn't look at our profile then to see what was listed on our profile in regards to sexuality.

17 Aug 2011

Quote by Jane-n-Charlie
Hey yeah..... really agree with where you're coming from Sarium, we never change to suit others but we do change the profile to try and get the right pitch on the advertising.... mainly cos no-one contacts us, lol, so we keep trying new angles.
We've always been amazed how it's de rigueur for girls to be bi on these sites but there's a funny attitude to bi males... like the way a lot of the sex is pretty vanilla-ish too and loads of people panic at the thought of anything a bit kinky.
Following your advice to read profiles we thought you sound great fun and dashed over to read your profile but alas there's nothing written on it....

Nothing written on it...? Surely not...I think our profile says lots about us...its states our preferred sexuality when swinging, that we are married, our height, weight, general statistics...etc. It says what we're into sexually, it even states whether we smoke or drink, all this and pics as well, what else does peeps need to know about someone they are arranging to meet up and maybe (if all goes well) have no strings sex with....??

7 Sep 2011

Maybe some people don't really look at what they put in their profile or put in what they think will attract more interest. Or perhaps they don't really know what it is they do want its a fantasy and they are toying with the idea. There seems to be an undercurrent that says if your not Bi then your not really a swinger. Its like straight couples are doing swinging-lite but not really swinging. That kind of intolerance pisses me off. As long as there are no children or animals involved and everyone is a consenting adult doing whatever they want to do in private then good luck to them. rant over Yummy

8 Sep 2011

I hope I didn't give you that impression yummymummy, I just meant that the word "straight" sounds to me to be a little odd to apply to anyone adventurous enough to play at this game. We have had electrifying sessions that could be labelled "straight" and "soft-swap" but they were by no means "swinging-lite" I can assure you!! Labels, shmabels!

8 Sep 2011

Quote by Jane-n-Charlie
I hope I didn't give you that impression yummymummy, I just meant that the word "straight" sounds to me to be a little odd to apply to anyone adventurous enough to play at this game. We have had electrifying sessions that could be labelled "straight" and "soft-swap" but they were by no means "swinging-lite" I can assure you!! Labels, shmabels!

It wasn't directed at you in 've had some great times but some times it seems that your not really in the "club" unless your a bi fem. I can see that women are attractive but I'm not attracted to them. I've nothing against gay or bi men but I'm not so sure id like to see my man with another man. I think its a waste of two good cocks!

15 Sep 2011

i donno wtf i am half the time , depends on the time and the sitiuation , wheres the box for that