hi there as a single male on this site and left a couple of posts i find i get little r no replys 2 posting .is this the norm or am i just expecting 2 much. have read many a post saying how single men should come forward and meet up wit people...lost
Hit and miss mr,,,,depends on what ur looking for , where you are,,,and remember,,,not everyone on site reads the forums
My advise would be get involved a bit, either in the forums or in chat, start making connections by just getting involved in the banter, posts for meets overall are rarely replied to except those where the poster is known to other members. Consider it like networking, its rare a cold call works, but if you cultivate and build a connection you stand a far better chance...good luck :thumbup:
thanks sherri not bad advice
a bongo more miss,s not hits lol
Your most welcome, and I hope it works out for you, shame a few others didnt take time out from their busy posting schedule to welcome you on board, but sure just get stuck in if you have the time, ppl will soon get to know you.
markgudlick apologies for not noticing you in the forums... Welcome, the forums are good craic... Jump right in & post.
Visit the chatrooms also & say hi... You might dip your toes in the quieter rooms to get started... They are a chatty welcoming bunch in the rooms.
Enjoy the site
many thanks alan-ball cheers for the reply
Hi Mark, Sherri is right. Cold adverts leave me........ cold! Come into chat, accept it's going to take time to make a few connections and persevere with it. So far you've done one thing right anyway, you have a distinctive name, you will stand out that bit more. Maybe watch the chat for a while and pick a few people who seem the most approachable. Try to strike up a conversation with them and take it from there. People will notice you chatting and form an opinion from there........ it's your time to shine so enjoy it! If you see me there be sure and say hi.
hi mark have to agree with everyone else that replied to you start using chatrooms and posting on forums and get yourself known on the site .............you will have a lot more luck at setting up a meet that way .......and welcome xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
seem to be working already guys cheers for the advice
i fully intend on doing just that virgo
