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HI MONA MY NAME IS KEN AND I NEW TO THE SITE EVEN THOUGH I A NON DRINKER I WOULD LIKE TO MEET UP FOR ONE OF THESE SOCIAL MEETING AND GET TO KNOW SOME FRIENDLY PEOPLE. IM CHATTY GOOD FOR A LAUGH AND IM NOT AFRAID TO LAUGH AT MYSELF. IM NOT A GREAT DANCER THOUGH . BUT WHO CARES YOU ONLY LIVE ONCE.. HOPE FOR YOUF REPLY
Hiya's
Guys...I dont organise these events but i have attended a number of them in the past......keep an eye out in the ....lets meet up, forum.....for upcoming ones.
Marieandu4121 is, i think, planning meet and greets for all over the country in the coming months......as since i;ve been to one she has organised....she is in my opinion an excellent orgainser and her meets would be well worth attending.
Good post mona!
I am one of those male guys looking to get more involved in swinging, thing is, i have been on here for god knows how long and have yet to meet or get invited to meet ppl., i spend my time in the chatrooms as opposed to here in the forum and find it very hard to get genuinely chatting to ppl. I would be apprehensive turning up at a meet and greet where there could be ppl i knew/ know, however i am more into meeting ladies for one on one meets, and have met a cpl of them where a good time was had by both.
I would also go as far as to say that there is a click amongst ppl, I could be wrong but imo it can feel unfriendly or unwelcoming. That being said, i hope i am wrong and would welcome any invites that may come my way.
xx
Okayyyy this bears repeating once more - here in the thread about M&Gs:
Organisers make arrangements for venue, entertainment, accommodation and food where appropriate, travel and a gizillion other things, just to make it possible for everyone who wants to - can come along, have a brilliant night out, meet lots of friends - old and new - and make some connections for ... maybe more.
Now then - YOU need to do YOUR part too!!!
Watch the "Let's Meet Up" Forum and "Swinger's Parties" Board. This is where the Organisers will post up the notices about what's planned.
The Organisers will specify who the party is appropriate for, and how to get involved.
YOU must respond to the ORGANISER directly in most cases by MAIL on site. If you don't, YOU miss out.
YOU must provide the Organiser with details like phone numbers, e-mail addys and pics so you can be added to the Mailing List for that specific event. If you don't, YOU miss out.
YOU must act on any information the Organiser sends you in the run-up to the event. If you don't, YOU miss out.
YOU must RSVP to the Organiser by the DEADLINE dates set by the Organiser. If you don't, YOU miss out.
The Organiser will forward to you the necessary details of Venue/Time etc including any requirements such as dress code ; BYOB .
If you can't attend - for whatever reason, YOU must let the Organisers know as soon as possible. We know there's times when it's going to happen that something prevents us enjoying our lives at the very last minute - but it's only common courtesy to let someone know you're going to miss the event.
Then it's up to YOU to attend, arriving promptly and mingle. Get to know folks socially, put those faces to the names you chat with in the rooms and forums - and if you're lucky - see who shows an interest in you. If you're shy - then arrange to attend with someone else, have a coffee meet ahead of the meet and then you will both be braver for the main event.
Unless the Organisers has told you specifically it's a 'no rules orgy' Then it's NOT a case of asking every Tom, Dick, Madge or Jane "When are we shagging"
Get a grip! And I mean not of your cock - of your manners!!
- Show DECORUM for the venue . My Mother always reminded us to "Act your age, not your shoe-size". Getting blotto in the first two hours will not only show you up as a drinker, but also ruin any chances you have of making friends and at worst could end up with you being thrown out of the event, never to be asked back again.
- Show DISCRETION - and chat like adults - not like spotty teenagers at the local flea-pit dance or cinema. Just because we're all from site here, does not mean we are any of us sleazy or lewd in public. Remember, what's acceptable in the chatrooms and on cams is generally NOT acceptable out in the real world where the Meets take place.
- Show RESPECT - for the Organisers, helpers, DJs, venue staff and most of all - your fellow Meeters. They've put a great deal of faith in inviting Newbies to the Meets, so make sure you can leave knowing you've done nothing to prevent you becoming a regular, next time. They've also all put themselves out, in time, money and effort, to make a great night for YOU AND EVERYONE ELSE.
GET PRO-ACTIVE - Invites don't come looking for you when you lurk in shadows - SHOW AN INTEREST - then ACT!!!
Organisers make arrangements for venue, entertainment, accommodation and food where appropriate, travel and a gizillion other things, just to make it possible for everyone who wants to - can come along, have a brilliant night out, meet lots of friends - old and new - and make some connections for ... maybe more.
Now then - YOU need to do YOUR part too!!!
Watch the "Let's Meet Up" Forum and "Swinger's Parties" Board. This is where the Organisers will post up the notices about what's planned.
The Organisers will specify who the party is appropriate for, and how to get involved.
YOU must respond to the ORGANISER directly in most cases by MAIL on site. If you don't, YOU miss out.
YOU must provide the Organiser with details like phone numbers, e-mail addys and pics so you can be added to the Mailing List for that specific event. If you don't, YOU miss out.
YOU must act on any information the Organiser sends you in the run-up to the event. If you don't, YOU miss out.
YOU must RSVP to the Organiser by the DEADLINE dates set by the Organiser. If you don't, YOU miss out.
The Organiser will forward to you the necessary details of Venue/Time etc including any requirements such as dress code ; BYOB .
If you can't attend - for whatever reason, YOU must let the Organisers know as soon as possible. We know there's times when it's going to happen that something prevents us enjoying our lives at the very last minute - but it's only common courtesy to let someone know you're going to miss the event.
Then it's up to YOU to attend, arriving promptly and mingle. Get to know folks socially, put those faces to the names you chat with in the rooms and forums - and if you're lucky - see who shows an interest in you. If you're shy - then arrange to attend with someone else, have a coffee meet ahead of the meet and then you will both be braver for the main event.
Unless the Organisers has told you specifically it's a 'no rules orgy' Then it's NOT a case of asking every Tom, Dick, Madge or Jane "When are we shagging"
Get a grip! And I mean not of your cock - of your manners!!
- Show DECORUM for the venue . My Mother always reminded us to "Act your age, not your shoe-size". Getting blotto in the first two hours will not only show you up as a drinker, but also ruin any chances you have of making friends and at worst could end up with you being thrown out of the event, never to be asked back again.
- Show DISCRETION - and chat like adults - not like spotty teenagers at the local flea-pit dance or cinema. Just because we're all from site here, does not mean we are any of us sleazy or lewd in public. Remember, what's acceptable in the chatrooms and on cams is generally NOT acceptable out in the real world where the Meets take place.
- Show RESPECT - for the Organisers, helpers, DJs, venue staff and most of all - your fellow Meeters. They've put a great deal of faith in inviting Newbies to the Meets, so make sure you can leave knowing you've done nothing to prevent you becoming a regular, next time. They've also all put themselves out, in time, money and effort, to make a great night for YOU AND EVERYONE ELSE.
GET PRO-ACTIVE - Invites don't come looking for you when you lurk in shadows - SHOW AN INTEREST - then ACT!!!
the reason i havnt attended one yet is purely nerves,be kinda thinking i be the newbie in the corner while everyone else knows each other and has a lot more experience,also kinda stuck in the mistakin belief that all the meet and greets end up in some sort of orgy,wheres all i want first time is meet few people an hav a drink,i know theres no pressure on anybody to do something they dont want also thought they be overflowing with single blokes
hi, i for one would love the opportunity to meet and greet, in the 3 weeks or so that im a member only three people have made the effort to meet me, (they know who they are, and thanks,) i as yet have NOT met anyone from the site, despite the many mails i'v sent and meets that i thought were genuinely arranged, that nobody has turned up, and or people have had second thoughts at the eleventh hour, and decided not to bother.
unfortunately i do think (hope i'm wrong) that their are quiet a few non-genuine people whose purpose is to act out virtual silly games, and to look at pictures. i really like the site and would love furthur involvement, i am only a beginner here, single divorced male, and i feel that the stigmatism associated with this status continues to prevent us from being an integral part of the social society, in which we so long to be part of.
thanks for your patience, yours (LETS MEET SOON) coolticket.
