Orgasminator
hi all just wounder why do males say they will meet up with you then they pull out xxxx let me know what yous think
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Orgasminator
yes me to sparks dont think he had the room booked at all
:banghead:....everyone's time is precious and I for one, have no time to spare on time wasters!!! Orgasminator
biggles you not mad hun xxxxx
:grin:i tink people who arange meets and dont show is so annoying as there are lots of men and women here who do meet when they say unless someting drastic comes up...it drives me mad because i have to make a lot of arrangements just to have a meet..its hard for people who hav kids especially as they have to arrange them too...
and sparks hun id crawl to make a meet wit you:thumbup:
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Suzie I don't get it either, getting sick of it too, really puts you off the whole scene when guys start messing about like that. Has happened a good few times.
Sparks hun come here to me i would you meet you anytime swim rivers,climb mountains it would be a pleasure to spend time sexy lady like yourself.
It is an ongoing thing here, it has always happened and I'm sure it will continue to happen but it also happens on other sites too, yes coldfeet but more timewasting!! oh and the fems also let the side down too along with couples, just so no one thinks I am singling the single guys out. :uhoh:
Alot get off on the idea of meeting up with someone but cant be arsed to follow it through.
There are members that abuse the established facility by establishing just anyone for no reason at all, no one knows why but it happens. Therefore it is leading us to think these 'established' members are genuine, when they possibly are not.
But there are different reasons as to why someone is established it could be because of a night of intimacy or they met them at a meet and greet, coffee meet or are friends from St elsewhere on the web etc.
It will not guarantee you that the member will actually show up on the night you had arranged.
I cannot suggest any quick solution as there is none, but just to take time getting to know someone and make no arrangements until you think they are at least 90% keen on the idea.
Sorry for the lengthy post and a happy easter to you and yours
Alot get off on the idea of meeting up with someone but cant be arsed to follow it through.
There are members that abuse the established facility by establishing just anyone for no reason at all, no one knows why but it happens. Therefore it is leading us to think these 'established' members are genuine, when they possibly are not.
But there are different reasons as to why someone is established it could be because of a night of intimacy or they met them at a meet and greet, coffee meet or are friends from St elsewhere on the web etc.
It will not guarantee you that the member will actually show up on the night you had arranged.
I cannot suggest any quick solution as there is none, but just to take time getting to know someone and make no arrangements until you think they are at least 90% keen on the idea.
Sorry for the lengthy post and a happy easter to you and yours
Master of Sex
lol its not just meet meets that guys run even couples do too we have had several party,s here in me house and to get a group together of say 50 u have to invite about 150/200 knowing that 80% fall off thats the way it is. but the worst is a couple that is,nt a couple makin plans gettin ready going to the venue and he turns up sayin she has a headache lol but lets play anyway no point in wasting a room. But thank god he did,nt turn up at all. That does my head in and has happened as recent as last nite fs. ill not expose him no fun in that but well we will meet in the chat room and i think ill have fun with him. So some good will come from it lol growl the clyde is pissed hehehehehehehhe.
clyde was here
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Orgasminator
sparks have to agree with the males one look one sexy fem hunni xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
There's no answer to that question i believe and something i could never figure out, maybe some people just get a kick out of it but that's just a guess as i can only comment from arranging to meet women and the same thing happens. I've arranged time off to meet people , traveled sometimes miles to meet someone and been let down only to be let down and sometimes with no text or anything, so it's not just men that do this.
I know that some people on here only meet established ppl etc but from my experience at least it's no guarantee that the person will turn up or won't waste your time so as far as i'm concerned the whole established thing is a bit meaningless but i'm sure others may disagree but that's just been my personal experience from being on this site.
while the initial texts said why do males not show up, i am glad to see that the later ones recognise that couples and females are just as bad.
People come on these sites for different reasons, some like to chat, some like to look at cams some like to talk, some like to have phone sex and some even want to meet!
There are others for whom it is just an extension of their interest in porn and their particular fetish is talking, arranging a meet and never intending to show.
you can usually but not always spot them. They dont like to give out details are usually mad to meet straight away.
Basically they dont see the other person as a person merely as the same piece of meat they watch on a porn video. When the moment passes they turn it off and toss it out. Which is why when you get annoyed with them for not turning up they often genuinely dont understand it. its like the porn video talking after being turned off!
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while the initial texts said why do males not show up, i am glad to see that the later ones recognise that couples and females are just as bad.
People come on these sites for different reasons, some like to chat, some like to look at cams some like to talk, some like to have phone sex and some even want to meet!
There are others for whom it is just an extension of their interest in porn and their particular fetish is talking, arranging a meet and never intending to show.
you can usually but not always spot them. They dont like to give out details are usually mad to meet straight away.
Basically they dont see the other person as a person merely as the same piece of meat they watch on a porn video. When the moment passes they turn it off and toss it out. Which is why when you get annoyed with them for not turning up they often genuinely dont understand it. its like the porn video talking after being turned off!
very good point tom !!!!!
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while the initial texts said why do males not show up, i am glad to see that the later ones recognise that couples and females are just as bad.
People come on these sites for different reasons, some like to chat, some like to look at cams some like to talk, some like to have phone sex and some even want to meet!
There are others for whom it is just an extension of their interest in porn and their particular fetish is talking, arranging a meet and never intending to show.
you can usually but not always spot them. They dont like to give out details are usually mad to meet straight away.
Basically they dont see the other person as a person merely as the same piece of meat they watch on a porn video. When the moment passes they turn it off and toss it out. Which is why when you get annoyed with them for not turning up they often genuinely dont understand it. its like the porn video talking after being turned off!
yea i have to agree with tom on this there are some members who are here for diffrent reasons and not intrested in meeting up but do get a kick out of making arrangements and then not turning up.
as been on the end of no shows and having going to the trouble of getting rooms drinks etc etc etc i was pissed also... but i think people who dont show should get a ban for causing the agrom and pissing said person off , if i say i will be there ill be there if you change your mind at least have the neck to show up and say it !! thats my rant.... and sparks ill meet you and wear my snickers work wear!! lol
ok, we are a couple, not a single guy or girl, but we prefer to entertain at ours rather than meet at a hotel. We would never cancel willy nilly. Never have cancelled, never ever. And the only time we would cancel would be in the case of a genuine emergency. We have never encountered a cancellation in the past 10 years of swinging.
I would imagine though, that after setting up a meet and getting all hyped up and looking forward to it would turn to deflation and frustration should your playpal decide to no show. I cannot understand why some decide to meet only to cancel. Maybe they love the thrill of the chase but havent the guts to follow it through. And if someone just didnt show and not contact the person they were supposed to meet, then that is just disrespectful.
Master of Sex
well all i can say is if we arrange to meet we meet as we have to arrange babysitter so people please let the person or couple you are going to meet a little notice that your not going to turn up have a little respect for your fellow swinger
This scene is very much a game of chance be it ppl turning up and not looking like the pic's or not showing at all. To the many genuine ppl that do exactly what the say they will. It saddens us as players that this scene/site has gone way below par, from the messer's , ppl looking for love, those that have pic's more than a few years old and even those that have pic's that are not theirs and lets not forget the I am a BI fem's (NOT) The Bitching. Its hard work to get a genuine single/cpl in here but hey the reality of swinging is not an easy alternative life have to look for what suits .... The genuine ppl we have met here are exactly that genuine. We all of us have our little pet hates re the scene and what we have found since we started to enjoy the life style is the good far out weigh's the bad and beit that we have to spend longer scrolling through profile after profile, when we get it right its worth have long since adopted the attitude that we will meet anyone for a drink, at best we get on well have some playtime or at worst we enjoy a chat with like minded ppl over a drink and say goodnight. So i guess the only advice we can give is decide exactly what it is you want from the lifestyle, look for it, check it out and even if you must, ASK other established players their opinion OR ask the person that established them if they met ??.Dont be afraid to seek out info on perspective playmates , its your body your time.... with a bit of luck you will get what it is you seek :thrilled:.
Happy hunting guys xxxxxxxxx
Sex God
...wish I got the opportunity to be no showed on :violin:
well i have always turned up to any meets i have organised and have not yet been stood up. the one thing i will say is people seem not to be prepared to meet a guy who is not relatively close to where they are from even if he is willing to travel just my observations. i'm ranting now better stop.
