No need to change your perspective love2. I personally don't mind the whispers, but as a mod I have to ensure that each member is allowed to enjoy the site in peace. Again I agree there is a definite attraction in the meet, fook n fook off scenario, but having responsibilities and people who depend on me coming home safe and sound have put paid to any chance on acting on it. I reckon with your attitude you will prove highly popular and if at any point you need any help or just to sound out ideas, be sure and come to us. Be sure and say hi in chat! If you plan on acting on that fantasy, maybe come speak to one of us regular females on here and see if we might be able to recommend someone to you, funny thing about this place - we're a sharing bunch.
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Love2, you are definitely NOT odd because of you fantasies and how they work for you. It’s your mind and enjoy these day dreams and adventures. Whatever way they play out for you. NSA can mean so much here on the site, I have learned that for myself. For me as a single guy I like contact, connection, chemistry and most of all FUN.
I totally agree with midnight.
its really interesting how much this polarizes people. Maybe the answer would be two main chatrooms. One for the 'get'emoff' brigade to be as crass as they like in and one for the rest of the population who do really just want to chat. Then the conduct code could be tightened up in the social one. Remove the whisper facility (if thats possible) in it, too. Bobs your uncle and Fanny's your aunt, happy days!
p.s. i'm a complete technophobe and don't actually know if any of that would be possible but its just a thought 
love2, each user has the option of opening a room with 'directing allowed' in the title. There is no harm in this as long as the person goes into this with their eyes open, that they are prepared for the barrage of instructions and are also prepared to take ownership of the room; controlling the behaviour and responsibility for ensuring the site rules are followed. Before there is a rush to open rooms I would stress that the person opening the room is responsible for it, if it is found that these rooms have been detrimental to the site, the person opening the room who will also be held responsible. It can be a burden if you only wanted to do a cam show yourself.
Sex God
Crass adjective, -er, -est.
1. without refinement, delicacy, or sensitivity; gross; obtuse; stupid (Dictionary definition)
I cam , and have been know on occasion to 'get'emoff' as you so eloquently put it. I find myself offended by your tone of phase regarding cammers, ,and considering you have in your profile , that one of your fantasies is to watch people,declaring us as a “'get'emoff' brigade following it with that we can “be as crass as they like in†seems a poor choice of words. I seldom get sensitive over posts in here, but I felt I had to respond to this one. As has often been said before if people dont like the cams turn them off., and chat away.
1. without refinement, delicacy, or sensitivity; gross; obtuse; stupid (Dictionary definition)
I cam , and have been know on occasion to 'get'emoff' as you so eloquently put it. I find myself offended by your tone of phase regarding cammers, ,and considering you have in your profile , that one of your fantasies is to watch people,declaring us as a “'get'emoff' brigade following it with that we can “be as crass as they like in†seems a poor choice of words. I seldom get sensitive over posts in here, but I felt I had to respond to this one. As has often been said before if people dont like the cams turn them off., and chat away.
Sorry Slightly, i didn't mean to offend. I personally have no problem with people who cam, or anything else, here. I have tried it a couple of times too, since i joined and i enjoyed it. I was trying to convey some of the perceptions, as i understood them, of other people who had posted on this thread. i was talking about the whisperers, which do seem to get some peoples backs up... it was some of those people that i referred to as the get 'em off brigade..the ones who pop up as soon as you enter a chatroom and go straight into whisper with the usual 'do you want to see my...whatever?' routine. they were the ones who i thought might benefit from a place of their own instead of annoying the rest of the population... Again, i dont mind them, they can whisper away til they give up, and i dont think any the worse of them (as you would see i said in an earlier thread) as i very much have a live and let live attitude. So, my apologies, for offending you but i do think you have picked me up wrong.
Sex God
Thank you love2 for the reply , I appreciate your quick response to my post, often the regrettable thing about the written word is the nuances of speech are lost in it,was mostly the word crass that i was having problems with and now i recognise how you meant it, again thanks for the quick respond
No problem, Slightly. For what it's worth, joining this site has been a revelation to me and what comes across so very clearly is the integrity within the swinging community. As a complete novice, and not a swinger per se (i think!), i have been trying to get to grips with the finer point of etiquette that exist. The whisperer thing was just something i was trying to understand a bit better. I seem to be a bit oblivious to it in comparison to many others. C'est la vie. Thanks for the reply.
Master of Sex
Crass adjective, -er, -est.
1. without refinement, delicacy, or sensitivity; gross; obtuse; stupid (Dictionary definition)
I cam , and have been know on occasion to 'get'emoff' as you so eloquently put it. I find myself offended by your tone of phase regarding cammers, ,and considering you have in your profile , that one of your fantasies is to watch people,declaring us as a “'get'emoff' brigade following it with that we can “be as crass as they like in†seems a poor choice of words. I seldom get sensitive over posts in here, but I felt I had to respond to this one. As has often been said before if people dont like the cams turn them off., and chat away.
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well said slightly if u dont like the cam then switch it off u have the facility to do that in the chat room on the page u have open x marks the spot bonnyclyde
Bonny - hold your guns there a minute, Girl :giggle:
Love2 didn't mean that the cammers were the 'gerremoff' brigade.
She was referring to the folks watching the cammers - who feel the need to do a running commentary or direct that the cammers do whatever they want them to - instead of enjoying the show as it's given.
I was brought up to believe that watching meant using your eyes - not your mouth/fingers .
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