Compared to UK sites this site is still quite young and the age profile is similarly young (I am sure the site age average is probably 40), but there are none of us getting younger & I don't imagine people are all going to give it all up just because they are over 50.
Admittedly there is some agism on this site, even among us older members,... but is there really any truth in the "your as young as the woman/man you feel".
... & while I do have a lower age limit (about 35) I have never set an upper age limit, but I do understand why people do set limits or preferences of an age group they prefer to play with.
I would ask people not to close their minds to the older members, for many of us life really only did begin at 40 or 50 & in some cases when the kids left the nest.
Meet us for a drink, chat to us ,invite us to a party, get to know us.
Mature It is the label/term often used & I must admit I don't like it.
Mature ¦is what certain cheeses are
Aged¦ is for Whiskey
Older¦ than what ...the average age of people on this site I suppose.
So what is the PC term for those of us over 45/50 that still enjoy our fun.
How would you like to describe yourself?
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Great thread Alan........and as one of those whose life just seems to be beginning lol am not sure what I would call myself have a youthful spirit but that doesnt sound right.....young at heart sounds like an ad for insurance lol so have no idea what label I should put on myself for this scene ....................xxxxxxxxanny
:lick:What is this thing people have with Labels?? Why do we have to fit into one? Surely it is better just to be who and what you are? If people dont want to meet people older than themselfs that is up to them. I`am just sick of all this label crap.
We do have a lower age limit as we dont want to be fucking a person young enough to be a child of ours and we have an upper age limit where we dont want to be fucking someone old enough to be our parents.
You are as old or young as you feel, not what everyone else thinks you should be
OK I think this thread is getting too serious and philosiphising while fun is complicating matters. To simplify...........
Why are we here = SEX.
What do we want = SEX.
When do we want it = NOW ( or at some time not too far in the future which is convienient for both parties)
Who do you it with age sex etc is a matter of personal preference.
So lets just do it !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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We do have a lower age limit as we dont want to be fucking a person young enough to be a child of ours and we have an upper age limit where we dont want to be fucking someone old enough to be our parents.
You are as old or young as you feel, not what everyone else thinks you should be
Ya took the words right outta me fingers Raven well said :clap:
we all have preferences and they should be respected :thumbup: 
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Hear hear Raven and Amber.
I have my age limits and I respect others, and I dont think any dissecting of it or griping about ageism will change that. People have theyre preferences, thats the bottom Line. I dont think I will ever get to the stage that I think ' ah fuck it whats to lose, Looks /age/ etc mean nothing to me'. I have to have an attraction to people before I can shag them.
Raven, Amber and Titan I agree. Im afraid that downstairs won't work if upstairs isn't. The stimulus created by attraction, both physical and psychological is a necessary component. We all have a selection process; height, looks, intelligence, humour but these aren't as sensitive an issue it seems.
How would you like to describe yourself?
A mature woman, who loves sex, prefers meeting people in and around my own age, but I do have a few close male and female friends younger whom I play with..
I don't care for this labeling lark to be honest, different strokes for differnet folks,but if someone sees me as over the hill sexualy, then I suggest until they see me in action, they are on the wrong side of the hill.
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Compared to UK sites this site is still quite young and the age profile is similarly young (I am sure the site age average is probably 40), but there are none of us getting younger & I don't imagine people are all going to give it all up just because they are over 50.
In my case I would be more likely to rule someone out for being too young. To be honest I would be uncomfortable with the fact someone is closer in age to my child than to me. So yes I do have a lower age limit. As for an upper age limit, it has yet to be decided. Again the deciding factor would be attraction and not numerical values. I would imagine that as I increase in years, so too will any limits I have set.
:giggle: I definitely want to be on the same side of the hill as Virgo:giggle:
I think I am one of the oldest lemons on this site, but I am still loving and enjoying sex, possibly more than ever.
It is natural for people to think older people are over the hill. When I was in my teens I thought people in their 30s were ancient, When I was in my 30s I thought 50s were antiques....well so far I have been wrong in all my thinking.
Mulder puts on his pith helmet, straps on ( I said straps not strap) his rucksack and heads off in search of the legendary and mythical virgoland a land inhabited by a mythical woman whose beauty is legendary and whose sexual appetites make the hedonism of the last days of the roman empire seem tame. Ah yes must bring my whip if only for protection. Marches of muttering to self "where did I put those kit kats"
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Mulder puts on his pith helmet, straps on ( I said straps not strap) his rucksack and heads off in search of the legendary and mythical virgoland a land inhabited by a mythical woman whose beauty is legendary and whose sexual appetites make the hedonism of the last days of the roman empire seem tame. Ah yes must bring my whip if only for protection. Marches of muttering to self "where did I put those kit kats"
Would it not be easier to just drive here:giggle:
There was a blue moon 2 nights ago (for real ) but thats not the reason I as an over 50 still want, (have the same horny urges) and enjoy fun .What matures with age is not the person but the type of my age preference is really my fun preference.
Anybody for "over 5o fun ?". how about 'S for a PC name ,
but as someone else says whats in a label ?
Younger fun i've had before "been there done that " and as the fun matures Perhaps it's something for the nubile nymphs and neds to aspire towards rather than scorn at .
will you ever know till you get there or try it
Nice thread Alan , it gives me hope joining here and as they say "hope springs eternal in the human groin" or a good cock/clit always rises to the occasion.
and thats really what it's about isn't it? rising to the occasion
Well said Lapdog, I have been up until recentely swinging for nearly four years, a lot of young people I meet do see older people as over the hill sexualy, and likewise some older people see younger as not sexualy mature.
Really at the end of the day, it is about how you see yourself, confidence and maturity in my book make for great sexual experiences..
I only have one bug bear on the issue, some younger men, and even some JUST younger than me have a tendency to make older women feel they should be grateful, and they end up flaking when it comes to great sex, because their heads are so far up their own asses!
Well Said Virgogirl I couldn't agree more.............and its one of the reasons I tend to prefer a man in his 40's. Mind you having said that there are a select few younger ones that can really go the distance and who really appreciate being with a more mature woman.
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hi all well all i want to be known as is a fun person who enjoys life and i am a late bloomer i love to meet people from all walks of life wheather we have fun or not that not the point it the whole lead up to meeting and seeing how we get on sex is only a part of it it a major bonus if we click so dont be afriad to meet people just have fun. lots and lots of fun bonny
As we said before we do have our age limits, but wanted to point out that just because the person is mature doesnt mean they have a clue how to please a man or a woman, just wish people would remember that just cause one person may like certain things doesnt mean everyone else will. And we thought wisdom came with age lol
Age...Wisdom...now there is a concept...lol
and everyone is different ... I am learning so much on here ...
after all the replies I am still not quite sure how to describe myself, it is heartening to know that most on Swing do not judge the book by the cover and that people on Swing are open minded.
So for now "I am young in mind, heart & spirit and always up for fun" ... I dont think I will ever change, for me age is truely a number, but there are some that are old before their time ... the last 50 years have been fun ...heres to the next 50...lol
:thumbup: Alan. My thoughts exactly. People over 50 have lived through the greatest revolutions than any other generation. Everyone has accepted the mechanical, technical and scientific advances, but alas some do not accept the changes in sexual thinking. I think that I have kept up with the times....except in one thing...I still prefer the music of the 70s
