I totally agree with guns , although I was thinking the way he is quiet awhile ago , I used to be here as a regular but now only pop in every now and again , reason for that not because of way chat is (different story altogether) , but I found during my cpl of years as a regular the site goes through a shift every now and again and the chat suffers from it , when I started first I found it hard to get in as most newbies do but then after awhile it was great , loved the chat and banter that went with it and the mix of people .but ive found that its not much fun anymore ..its as if people are taking them selves to serious and need to take their heads out of their arses , its not a popularity contest ( and yes of course I would like to be popular ) I think you get that from from being nice (cheesy as that sounds) not from putting people down just because you can ,Its like a school playground at times with different groups keeping to their place and god forbid you say something the popular kids dont like !! And as for some of the woman who think just cos they have tits and a vagina that they can act and say how they want to any poor guy who tries to chat to them .. get over yourselves .. and same to be said to guys who think just cos a woman is here shes available to anyone , Respect seems to be lacking here on so many levels and thats a huge problem , yes everyone is different and have their own guidelines so to speak but simply treating someone decently goes a long way ..Any newbie looking in at how people treat others at times in chat will run for cover or jump ship to other sites which is a shame cos when this site is good it really is and it has all the ingredients of being great but as SnS said the chatroom needs to be more welcoming , the site owners have made great changes , from what ive seen the mods seem to be running things smoothly so that just leaves the members themselves , I think perhaps the balance of people just isnt quiet right at the moment ... hopefully it will rectify itself as it has in the future ...
oh and for those who know me from before ...yep ive made huge mistakes b4 .. not preaching at anyone just voicing my opinion !
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Great to see a post from you again Mid. Havent seen one in a while. Love reading your posts
However I have noticed that the people that this post alludes to have not posted on this thread. Strange considering that they post in the forums on an almost daily basis
Maybe, just maybe, the people to whom this post "alludes to" are not nasty people who set out to alienate other site members or to behave badly. Maybe when they read Guns post they thought fair enough and are doing exactly what was asked of them and keeping it between themselves and trying to behave in such a way as to not upset/annoy their fellow site members. Maybe they haven't posted on the thread because they've accepted the points that people have made and feel there's little to be gained from posting on it. Sometimes it's nice to give people the benefit of the doubt.
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Maybe, just maybe, the people to whom this post "alludes to" are not nasty people who set out to alienate other site members or to behave badly.
Not all of them no. Some of them are actually very decent people. Cant tar everyone with the same brush.
And I agree with Upfor, Eden you do always make a fair and valid point. Respect for that.
Further, even sadder to admit nothing has changed since it was initially posted, so I'm doubtful it will make any difference. But as MrTesco says 'every little helps' :smoke:
Well done Busty for Bumping this :thumbup::thumbup:Great post us and gals. I was actually thinking about quitting he scene as I am sick of the politics on his site. I get enought of that between 9-5 daily and I really don't need it in my spare time. So I guess what I am really trying to say is...can't we all just get along..... 
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