Cases of Anal Cancer are on the rise due to HPV in men and in women. This is also a well known factor in the cause of Cervical cancer in women. So it's not only a HIV issue. You have to look after your sexual health. Ladies I hope your pap smears are all up to date and yes ask for an anal pap if you are indulging and enjoying anal play. Be very transparent when visiting your clinic, doctor or nurse, there is nothing they haven't heard before. To think barebacking is not happening between members on this site is very naive. I was really saddened to see no condom being used last night too.
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While I do respect the fact that site members have rights to exercise their own discretion I must say that sight on cam or at a party of any person who does not practice safe sex takes them off my bucket list irrespective of how desirable play with them may be.
The swing motto should be - "No glove no love".
Quote by Tinydelight
Cases of Anal Cancer are on the rise due to HPV in men and in women. This is also a well known factor in the cause of Cervical cancer in women. So it's not only a HIV issue. You have to look after your sexual health. Ladies I hope your pap smears are all up to date and yes ask for an anal pap if you are indulging and enjoying anal play. Be very transparent when visiting your clinic, doctor or nurse, there is nothing they haven't heard before. To think barebacking is not happening between members on this site is very naive. I was really saddened to see no condom being used last night too.
Well done Tinydelight for bringing this point into the thread, i have had treatment for cervical cancer this year and need more tests, in part it is a gentic link in my family but having sex at a young age is also a factor, i do have unprotected sex with my husband but after what i have suffered this year there is not a chance in hell i would allow anyone near me without a condom and the same goes for my husband. I have three children and i do not want to leave them without a mother if i can help it.
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Just saw two guys on cam, no condoms(also his profile had him as straight, but that's not the point here..)
I am really ashamed to say I've had made bad decisions before :sad: - but I just thank my lucky stars that I've come out unscathed (bar a diminished bank balance... getting tested is expensive!). I absolutely did not deserve it, given the way I disregarded myself and my own personal safety.
Have DEFINITELY seen the light, and now I can't understand why anyone would do it, ask for it, or advocate it.
Curious hun now shame there hun iv done it myself in the heat of the moment but also have seen the light, but test is a bitch ffs considering condoms only cost a poxy tenner but saying that they were available there and then, but as i said in the heat of the moment (passion) or whatever your mind does crazy things
Wont happen again i tell ye, think get a tattoo on my eye lids saying "wear one" lol
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Cases of Anal Cancer are on the rise due to HPV in men and in women. This is also a well known factor in the cause of Cervical cancer in women. So it's not only a HIV issue. You have to look after your sexual health. Ladies I hope your pap smears are all up to date and yes ask for an anal pap if you are indulging and enjoying anal play. Be very transparent when visiting your clinic, doctor or nurse, there is nothing they haven't heard before. To think barebacking is not happening between members on this site is very naive. I was really saddened to see no condom being used last night too.
Well done Tinydelight for bringing this point into the thread, i have had treatment for cervical cancer this year and need more tests, in part it is a gentic link in my family but having sex at a young age is also a factor, i do have unprotected sex with my husband but after what i have suffered this year there is not a chance in hell i would allow anyone near me without a condom and the same goes for my husband. I have three children and i do not want to leave them without a mother if i can help it.
Raven i didn`t know having sex at a young age was a factor? ffs how big a factor did it say hun?
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ok here goes........... bring out the firing squad. a few nights ago a bad decision was made by myself and partner i was with. we decided to go bareback, a decision that was very stupid and immature and we both regret it. i realize reputations and friendships are damaged and lost over such things, all we can do is apologize for the act and hope things can be repaired..................... , all i can say is that we fell into the trap of knowing each other for 17 years, knowing exactly what we both do and get up to and our views on such things as sti's. were both 100% checked and clean. we both never play without condoms (i hear you say.... but sure ye did on cam that night)..... and thats the truth we did, but we did because we know were checked and both clean, hand on heart. and i also understand that to the watcher all ye see is a couple having unprotected sex which is shocking to say the least.................................. .all i ask is .... as my last request before i post this and get what i deserve in way of a tongue lashing is that people try understand where im coming from as in why it happened. apologies from us both to all offended
I not sure you need to apologise to anyone who chose to turn on a camera and continued to watch despite them feeling that it is an irresponsible act. Also the Original Post is not in reference to your camera specifically. I think an open discussion where the dangers/repercussions of bareback are highlighted is highly valuable on its own merit without anyone needing to feel that their own personal business is being discussed. BTW it is recommended that fellatio/cunnilingus are carried out with suitable barriers and so swallowers/spitters would need to be discussed too, I've never seen those cameras being discussed when this topic is highlighted but it's likely I've just missed that post.
''Oral sex is considered a low to moderately risky activity. Avoid oral sex if you have mouth ulcers or bleeding gums, or if you have just brushed your teeth. It is suggested that you always use a condom or dental dam for oral sex to reduce this risk. It is also suggested that you avoid getting semen and vaginal fluids in your mouth. If you swallow semen (cum), HIV is rapidly killed by stomach acids, though it can enter open wounds that might be present before that happens.'' I found the tooth-brushing refence particularly interesting.
I always brush my teeth after playing with a partner, and shower too.
It seems that while trying to stay as clean as possible in a party situation you are only making yourself more susceptible to attack 
Wasn't on all week so I didnt see the guy who went bareback. Not really the best of choices in all honesty, but at least he has learned from his mistake and hopefully not do it again. There's no need to apologise as Midnight said because he didnt offend any members, instead just showing the risks he was willing to take. At least we know now so going on about it isnt going to do anything. Obviously some people will be reluctant to meet him, but that has to be expected as the majority of us members take our health & safety extremely seriously. At least he knows now, so maybe just let it go now cos there's nothing more that can be done.
Wasn't on all week so I didnt see the guy who went bareback. Not really the best of choices in all honesty, but at least he has learned from his mistake and hopefully not do it again. There's no need to apologise as Midnight said because he didnt offend any members, instead just showing the risks he was willing to take. At least we know now so going on about it isnt going to do anything. Obviously some people will be reluctant to meet him, but that has to be expected as the majority of us members take our health & safety extremely seriously. At least he knows now, so maybe just let it go now cos there's nothing more that can be done. Quote by Amberx
......with random strangers, is this not a form of suicide, dicing with death!!! (bit harsh you may think but it is reality).
I've seen it all too often in the photo gallery proudly showing themselves off doing the deed with no condom, both here and on other sites. I've also seen it on cam in chat, those having a 'great time' with no condom used!!
I've often put this to certain members who approach me to meet up and have been told 'oh it's an ex girlfriend or ex boyfriend!! Maybe so but it's a turn off for me, oh and this is my thinking on this I'm not speaking for anyone else. I will also go and check to see who they have met up with via comments etc and steer clear of them also.
Now to each their own and I know accidents can happen, but seriously to continuosly have unprotected sex with multiple random people, those they don't actually know!!
I know condoms are not the nicest of things but it is a show of respect if nothing else!
This issue has raised it's head from time to time within the forums but it does need to be highlighted now and then, especially of late where it is as clear as day those not using protection both on cams in chat and in photos on profiles!!
Apologies for the lengthy rant, I'm done!!
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Quote by Tinydelight
Cases of Anal Cancer are on the rise due to HPV in men and in women. This is also a well known factor in the cause of Cervical cancer in women. So it's not only a HIV issue.
I Wouldn't think HPV is relevant to a debate on bareback as condoms do not protect against HPV.
Warming the Bed
hey just adding my two pennies worth we have bare back pics up but only of us Alan and Sam together!!!we would never go unprotected with anyone else except each other and we would be shocked to think anyone on here would to be honest! sam and alan
I have always been careful where I put it as the thoughts of STI's always terrified me
now after spending some time reading this thread and the links
attached to some of the posts OMG thats it
my willy will never see the light of day again I'm going to try
grow my virginity back .....sure it's only sex I dont need it anyway.
But seriously that is an eye opener and some scary stuff in there.
I'm even thinking of wearing a condom when I go into the chat room now
Orgasminator
Always a risk with oral sex i guess, they say brushing your teeth opens your gums etc so really there is as good a risk if someone is carrying an std that you will catch it from oral sex
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