are women/men who enjoy sex with ex-boy/girl friends of ...

13 Feb 2010

Personally, I don't play with other people's toys - and would never knowingly make a play for someone-else's partner - whether they were a friend or not - but that's just me living a quiet life.

I may play with other peoples toys, but I have never entered into a realationship with an attached person in my life! NSA for me is exactly that, NO STRINGS ATTACHED, it is not for me to judge why a married person is swinging alone.
I talk to many people who are in relationships, and I wouldn't dream of asking them their reasons for being here, and I will always stand up for those who are honest enough to disclose they are attached,..
Interesting on this site how many grown single men,run away when you ask them why they can't accomodate!

13 Feb 2010

I think you have hit a nugget of Wisdom there, Girl :giggle:

Quote by user=Virgogirl
Interesting on this site how many grown single men,run away when you ask them why they can't accomodate!

13 Feb 2010

Quote by user=marieandu4121
I think you have hit a nugget of Wisdom there, Girl :giggle

Marie:haha::giggle:

14 Feb 2010

Maybe it`s because the wife is up in bed or their mammy has to bring them their hot milk to fall asleep:haha:

14 Feb 2010

Quote by user=Bongo1
...On the subject of ex's..as eppy said,,the key word is ex,,,so basically that person is entitled to do as they wish ,,and tuff if the old partner has a problem with it...From my end of things,,I don't think I wud be with a mate's ex...if the friendship means anything to me I wont jeopardise it by rubbing the mates nose in it.
As for telling people ur status...well..thats ur decision,,this is after all a swing site..not a dating site...we are here for fun...and maybe I am wrong too think so ..but I don't care if anyone is single r married...if we are having fun that's all I wanna know .

Bongo you hit the nail on the head... An ex is an ex but how much do you value the friendship.
Status is theoriticlly your own business but honesty is a virtue, even on a swing site.
It is a swing site not a dating site ... It is all about fun ... NSA fun ... Not commitment .
As adults we all made adult decisions to explore this lifestyle ... Our decision & reasons are pertinent to ourselves ... & none will or should judge us more harshly than ourselves .

15 Feb 2010

And you hit the nail on the head Alan. Honesty is the key to having a successful swing life i feel. You first of all have to be honest with yourself as to why you are here and then you have to be honest with people you may meet, as trust is a big part of the swinging lifestyle and you need honesty to have trust. But how honest should you be? We strongly feel it is a must to tell ppl you are attached, but as to details of your personal life, how far should you take that? Whether you are blissfully happy with your partner or down right miserable is not really any bodies business but your own. So how far do you have to go to keep everybody happy?

15 Feb 2010

honest about the basic details why you are on the site your status your sexual preferences your expectations if people know these basic details they can make up their own mind as to whether they want to proceed to a meet or just have you as a virtual friend. anything else is details ... to be shared or not

15 Feb 2010

You have it 'banged-to-rights' there Alan-Ball.
Open, honest, a true Gent and you're a great mate - Respect, Man!!!!!