so am I looking for the impossible.
you know how it is ....sometime you just need a shag ...as soon as possible ...perhaps you have had a bad day or week, or just not had some excillerating sex in a while ...so who do you call ... is there a do you have a 999 guy or gal...a person that will drop everything when they get the call or text ...or is it just a nice fantasy that some people can & will have sex just for the fun of it & with no real emotional attachment...or is what I am looking for a "fuck buddy" or a "friend with benefits"
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alan you can have a friend with benfits well i like to think you can i am lucky but some not so lucky have a good few friends but it nice to make more
Alan do you know the differnece between FB and FBW?
A fuck buddy is someone, male, female or couple whom you simply have sex with, no other reason than sex, now perhaps they suit a particular sexual need, ie anal, role-play, watersports, Bi, .
A fuck buddy with benefits is someone you share a level of friendship with, perhaps you go out socialy together, meals, drinks ect, but you also have sex with them..
But no emotional ties, the vast majority of swingers are FBW'S as many do form good and lasting friendships.
Problems do occur when some people get too attached ,and begin to have feelings for friends they have sex with, or they may be led to believe that there is a relationship..
Honesty is vitaly important, knowing when to call a halt when you or the other person begins to have feelings or needs other than sexual.
depends on how ones looks at the 999 callout, it would have to work both ways, friends that would be available for each other for mutual pleasure, really just like any other good friendship but with the extra benefit of good sex without emotional attachment. An extra special friendship between good friend who understand each others needs.
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depends on how ones looks at the 999 callout, it would have to work both ways, friends that would be available for each other for mutual pleasure, really just like any other good friendship but with the extra benefit of good sex without emotional attachment. An extra special friendship between good friend who understand each others needs.
Think you hit the nail on the head there cutie.
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Alan do you know the differnece between FB and FBW?
A fuck buddy is someone, male, female or couple whom you simply have sex with, no other reason than sex,
A fuck buddy with benefits is someone you share a level of friendship with, perhaps you go out socialy together, meals, drinks ect, but you also have sex with them..
But no emotional ties, the vast majority of swingers are FBW'S as many do form good and lasting friendships.
I do understand the terms FB & FBW... and have been fortunate to have both thanks to this site ... in reality after a second or third meet FB's tend to become FBW's ... some are FBW's from the first time you meet them.
The question is which would be happy in the role of the 999 "need sex now person".
I think Cutie & Raven are right ... a friend with extra benefits ...enjoys the friendship,the craic, the sex & is happy not to be emotionally attached .... Sex without emotion...now there is a concept...lol.
A friend who know that 999 is not an abuse for their friendship but a level of friendship & trust rarely attained... a person that really knows you , doesnt judge you & is not jealous of your other friends.
Now just to find one close to home...
yeah i get what ur saying Alan... a 999 makes total sense.. the no questions asked, no expectations, as instant as it gets fwb..kinda like the caped crusader of friends. lol
lol one who gets u totally that u might not even utter a word before or after just get there asap.. cos they know yer just needing just that.. they gotta be close tho.. same county at least lol
bring back milkmen, lol :thrilled:
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yeah i get what ur saying Alan... a 999 makes total sense.. the no questions asked, no expectations, as instant as it gets fwb..kinda like the caped crusader of friends. lol
lol one who gets u totally that u might not even utter a word before or after just get there asap.. cos they know yer just needing just that.. they gotta be close tho.. same county at least lol
bring back milkmen, lol :thrilled:
Bliss top of the class....
Yes Virgogirl I am lucky enough to have some "friends with benefits" but only 1 in the special category that would understand the 999 concept ...that the friend is over 2 hours away does not help...
The initial question was posed not solely for me but for others also & to see if people could understand or were supportive of the concert of 999..."the caped crusader of friends" ... not many friends, even those with benefits would be happy to fulfil the role.
have you got a 999 buddy ... I just lost mine :upset:
so seemed like a good time to air the 999 concept again...applications :notes: in person to alan ball...:thrilled: & of course it goes without saying I am also prepared to be your 999 guy
so if you have an itch that needs scratching who you gonna call....:bounce: 999 you know it makes sense
Orgasminator
I need a 999 - or is that just a plain old "99" with a flake of course 
Orgasminator
:eeek: I dread asking what they gave you and how it was delivered Virgo :doggy::-?
Orgasminator
Got a "999" callout today at 3 for 5 - but circumstances on the emergency parties end complicated things and I ended up waiting in a carpark for 3 hours as the situation unfolded and then collapsed 
Lucky I had a good book with me 
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Lucky I had a good book with me :violin: 
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