Thank you for taking a look. Discretion is important to me so there are no photos. If we get to know each other here, and build some trust, I will happily share some images at that time.

I am easy going and curious, and wish to correspond with mature women who are in need of interesting diversions - on their own terms. If forced to choose between being dominant or submissive, I would probably choose the submissive role six times out of ten......but I love to switch, and see a woman do exactly as she is told, especially if it makes her a little bit uncomfortable, a little bit nervous.......but a whole lot excited. Most of my own pleasure comes from seeing the woman I am with turned on and giving way to pleasure, and when it is desired I like being instructed in how to please her exactly as she wishes. Her desires, on her conditions......I only seek to please, and if it is a bit kinky i.e. light bondage, spanking, phone or e-mail I will happily oblige. Safe, sane, consensual.

I would love to share an occasional discrete adventure with a real woman in possession of a healthy libido. Something outside the usual, that would make me tremble with anticipation before the event and all hot and horny when recalling it afterwards. Sex is not the priority, but sexy fun is. If you would like your bottom to be gently (or firmly!) spanked while dressed (or undressed) all you have to do is ask, and it shall be given.

You visit me in my workplace and tell me to masturbate in front of you, my hand inside my pants. And when I come, you tell me to take my hand out and walk down the street and buy some chocolate for you, with my sweet, sticky mess seeping through my trousers as I run the errand. I return with the chocolate and you have removed your underwear, and you tell me to get on my knees and kiss your bottom while you bring yourself to orgasm. All the while, the possibility of being discovered heightening our arousal.

I think what I seek most is the psychosexual rush that comes in the doing, followed by the feeling of calm bliss that washes over you when care and time has been taken to make a sexual interlude just right. You know that old one about the prime sexual organ being between the ears. That's where I would like to be exploring. In the realm of the senses. Sensual spanking, blindfolds, dirty talk. Tasks to fulfil, being told what to do and when to do it. Anticipation, excitement, trepidation, surprise.....being teased , denied and stretched a little bit further out of my comfort zone each time. To another new limit. What about you, why are you here?