Hi all,
I organise my own parties occasionally and don't advertise. I only invite people that I've met and those recommended by close play friends. It's invite only and not too big. It's built on friendship, fun and trust. I found out recently that someone who was a regular at my parties sent out pictures from a party that I held last April, to other people. A zip file of about 20 pics together with my original email to him. He must have been trying to entice people to go to his own party which he recently advertised and was supposed to be held last Wednesday. Most of the faces are blacked out but they were for personal use only and not to be distributed to anyone outside the group of people who went. We liked our pictures taken for memories and also.. it's sexy as hell... but there has been this rule that it's for personal use and not for general distribution. Of course, if we want to add them to our profiles, we (and S4I) make sure that the people are not easily recognisable.
To make things worse though, he included an email which had the names of the people. Ok, it's only first names, but sometimes if you look at a picture and you see a name, you can match them.
If any of you have received emails from a guy (with a couple profile) inviting you to a party, I would appreciate if you could delete them. I would also appreciate if you could email me if you've been sent these pictures. I would like to know how often he sent them on.
The swinging scene is built on fun, honesty, sexual experimentation & openness but conversely, caution, secrecy and discretion. If trust is lost, it will be difficult for a lot of people here to continue playing. After all.. we have lives outside of this.
Thanks..
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sungoddess
Over 90 days ago
Bi-curious Female, 55
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You are all so encouraging... I suppose I'll just have to play it by ear at group situations ;)
:boo:Ever since I got told off for having fun & squirting too much at a play party, it has made me self conscious about it. I started squirting in February, and now I can squirt multiple times. Whilst it's great, it does increase my laundry efforts if it's at home and I'm not sure how welcome squirting is at parties now.
My question is... does anyone know of tips to lessen my squirting other than abstaining from sex and orgasms?
My question is... does anyone know of tips to lessen my squirting other than abstaining from sex and orgasms?
Yeah... my bi girlfriends and I have encountered a number of guys on the site who made arrangements but fail to turn up. It's very annoying and a total waste of time as our time is precious.
About excuses.... I remembered a hot single guy that I know, and invited to one of my smaller intimate parties last year (5 /6 people). He was all up for it, ringing and texting me every day wanting to know, who's going, if it is still on... etc. Keep texting me til 3pm the day of the party, then... nothing... Didn't turn up. Tried to ring & text him... no response. A few days later he told me that he had an allergic reaction to the Nair (hair removal) which he used on his pubic hair. Whilst I can understand his discomfort, he should have told me on the day so that I could have invited someone else.
It would have been easier to say "I'm sorry... I just bottled it and decided not to go", rather than an elaborate story.
Hi, Darkevdio & I would like to thank you for a great well organised party & for cleaning up afterwards. Great to meet you all. Thanks for the food, the accommodation, the chats, the sexy company, everything... Special thanks to Thomasbiglad for mopping up the floor many times.
The Tsunami Twins ;o)
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fantastic looking glass ones , my mother came across them in my bedside drawer and asked me if they were swavorski crystal....
reminds me of a scene when Miranda's cleaning lady found her toys and promptly put up a statue of the virgin mary on d bedside locker ...
mothers dont you just love them ...
Reminds me when I was looking for a hairdryer in my mums bedside locker... found a Rampant Rabbit!... Felt a bit weird about it, but then said to myself... fair play Mum ;-)
