Ok, let's be honest: there are probably hundreds of desperate, pervy single men on this site all praying that Angelina and Brad would for some inexplicable reason decide lure them to conjugal bed.

Or, they desperately hope that some nymphomaniac young married nymph will ravish them while her husband is out selling Hoovers. Mostly, it is about having it off with an attractive and unavailable female - the ultimate male fantasy.

Firstly, I'm not single. Secondly, I'm not desperate - I'm in a long-term relatioship to a deeply attractive woman. She is open to the lifestyle, but her libido is much lower. I am old enough to know that some people have broader sexual horizons than other.

So what am I? I'm 30, active and healthy, athletic, well-built, very conscious of personal hygiene and grooming, intelligent, and fun. I work in publishing and I'm financially and emotional mature. Let's meet for a drink and see if there is a spark. If not, we will just have a laugh a leave it there. Life is short...