Warming the Bed
were alwayts keen to meet up with new people but its finding a suitable time that suits all ... weve missed out on loads of parties /meets in the past because of real life getting in the way of fun !
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would never advise putting a location on a forum openly ! youll have every asshole in a 100 mile radius turning up !
good luck anyway.
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55 views , no couples interested .. what a fucking waste of time
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heading out tonite and maybe tomorrow nite[Sat.] to local spots in and around the Mourne area ... looking for couples only or the elusive single female doggers.
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would be if it wasnt for all this damn white stuff lying around !!
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ermmmm ! not everyone replies to party posts directly in the forums .... people do use the mail option to contact people !!
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with or without heels ??? they can leave nasty scratch marks in the paintwork ! LOL hubby has banned me sitting on the bonnet for pics if I,m wearing heels lol
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very wise and shows at least you have a modicum of common sence when out as a single guy and not one of the knuckle dragging brigade who seem to think because a couple are out for a "bit of fun" that they have some god given right to be entitled to an "easy shag" !! .. not just a Glengarra problem,its all over,especially up this way lol .. mind u ! we've been guilty in the past of the camper van mistake lol.
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lol dark , your always free lol,your post was kinda late on so by that time the nite was over !.Anyway,were thinking of giving this place up as a waste of either a snobbery elitist mindset amongst "active" couples on here or theres some sort of smear campaign against us to the point of being totally couples are just all talk when it comes to meeting ! just wee observations weve noticed when we try to have a bit of craic and humour in the last nite in one room when we were saying we were going out for fun , other couples were asking amongst themselves "anything happening" or saying things like "looks like theres no fun tonight" ....maybe we're typing in invisible ink !!!!!!! ...we put messages up in forums ! lucky if we get one reply yet other couples get inundated with them ... makes us feel we're totally wasting our time looking for serious sexy take all this back when weve calmed down lol but right now were pissed off with the site.
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any couplesor sensiblematureguys going out for some "in car" fun tonight ??
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probably cos the good weather is only coming back now , yea , it was dead for the winter although weve had a few "dogging" posts on the forum lately but seems they must be invisible to everyone else !!!!!
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hey folks ... anyone going out this Sat nite in and around the Mournes area ...preferably a single girl for H's satisfaction but mainly looking for couples.
PS:thanx for all the replies last week but we shoulda said --- no under 35-40's OR if a group of RESPECTABLE,MATURE guys are getting together this weekend ! then a gangbang for H maybe ??????
PS:thanx for all the replies last week but we shoulda said --- no under 35-40's OR if a group of RESPECTABLE,MATURE guys are getting together this weekend ! then a gangbang for H maybe ??????
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Any couples going out for car fun in or around the Mourne area tonite ? If not , we'll be havin another Sat nite on here lol
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pity your only looking a guy this time round,we dont play singly
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The trouble we have always found with this site is that 90% of members be it male,female and couples is that they arent true swingersin the true sense of the on here use the site as either a dating siteor as a social networking sitewhich shows up all to often when we insist on the females speaking on the phone...reading between lines the female isnt 100% committed to a swing for the one line messages 
expect them to flood in from single guys but the most annoying thing is when youve stated clearly what you want/expectyou get the one liners from a "so called" couple,sure sign its either a single guy chancing it as a couple or that dreaded couple where the female really has no interest.
OK rant over lol ... does no harm to vent a few issues now and again when they arise lol
expect them to flood in from single guys but the most annoying thing is when youve stated clearly what you want/expectyou get the one liners from a "so called" couple,sure sign its either a single guy chancing it as a couple or that dreaded couple where the female really has no interest.OK rant over lol ... does no harm to vent a few issues now and again when they arise lol
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We're doing a weekend roadtrip this in Markree Castle , Sligo on Sat nite and the Talbot in Wexford on Sun any couples or ladies fancy some funeither of those nites give us a mail before 9am Sat morning.
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We took a drive up to Spelga today [ Sunday ], nothing planned or anything arranged,more so just to give the new car its first spin main car park had the usual ammount of cars there for a Sunday took a drive on round to the Spelga "meeting place" but there wasnt anyone there today at all,sat for a while but no one around so we drove back to the car was one car there that "might , just might , have been another couple out for fun 'cos every now and again they would look over or watch other cars driving didnt make any signs to them simply 'cos it was the main car park and might have lead to an embarrassing moment was a dark blue Volvo with a Dub your looking for a midweek meet , unfortunatly midweek never really suits us unless its holiday time , so good luck anyway.
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its a "problem" weve encountered too a degree aswell ... we blame the internet !! lol In the "old days" of swinging there was none of the "long" build up to meeting people and was precluded by a few phone calls and the lets wasnt a case of people were less choosy then, there was none of the wide choice of partners that the net brings and with that wide choice now people are a lot more choosy ...... in our experience here .... if the face dont fit !!!!!!
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During the summer months there is quite a bit of dogging round the southdown area but at this time of year given the recent weather aswell most are reluctant to bare all to the elements lol [well mrs south is anyway lol ]have patience and wait till the better weather and you will find this activity will take off again.
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would luv to but then again you see my face nearly every day !! LOL :doh:
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lol can agree with you on the weather night up there was a lovely clear and very still nite yet Heathers nipples still stood out like bullets LOL or maybe that WASNT due to the cold !!! lol
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LOL trust u to organise summat when one of us is workin !! lol
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damn lol we were planning on going up tonite too but got a call and have to work early in the morning and its probably the last saturday of good weather up there knowing our luck !!
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In the "old days" of dogging when you really did feel safe and not always on the lookout for potential pushy idiots you could wear anything at all to the location and many a time Heather simply stood outside the car and completely stripped off there and even wearing "sexy" clothes in the car gives the pushy types an expectation that they have some god given right to be part of anything taking you say trousers/jeans and especially lace up shoes on the guys part LOL can be a bigger nuisance if your inside the car,so its hard to strike the right balance..... oohhhhhh bring back the days when you could arrive at a place , sit back , have a smoke or whatever and suss the situation out and then either strip off in the car or even outside it while the "watchers" bided their time to either join in or come closer to watch AT YOUR INVITATION and not the other way round.
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We were up at Finnis on Sunday night around way up we met quite a few cars we guess coming from there all single guys although there was a red 4x4 with a cpl in it heading back down the Kilnhill we got to the car park it had one empty car there but no sign of anyone for a while and sure as heck 3 or 4 cars drove in all single guys and one blue car with a youngish couple in it but they drove out all the tales of woe about single guys we decided not to do anything and drove off ourselves[lol in a total roundabout way round by drumkeera and up the dree road from the lower end].We got back around half 9ish and by then the cloud and rain had closed in and the car park was deserted so we had our own "session".In the past we wouldnt have worried about single guys watching or joining in but now really prefer it when its other couples.A lot of the single guys are probably decent sorts but the minority "asshole" ones are spoiling it for them too.
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another good , relativly unused for dogging spot is the car park at Spelga Dam in the quiet at night and the good thing about it is you can see any approaching cars for literally miles.
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How about a meet with a few willing bi couples AND some bi guys for an all round party ?
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just seeing as were on the subject of county down another spot rarely used is the car park at Spelga Dam .. after dark you can see any headlights coming for literally miles if you are the shy sort and want to get dressed quickly lol
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or how about a bi couple ? although your profile doesnt mention bi guys !!!
