after being on this site for nearly a week now i have sent some very detailed tasteful messages to single females on the site and have yet to get a response from anyone. I have read profiles carefully and have chosen women from my area and also ones that appeal to me and not just every one of them. I totally agree about the chat rooms, they seem to be the place to get started and get talking but they seem so hectic. Anyway, as a new member i thought i'd share my experience to date. Looking forward to chatting in the chat rooms when i finally figure you how to keep up.