Since joining this site (and indeed some others) I'm amazed with the amount of people who go to the trouble of registering here and have no concept of what a swingers site is all about.
Personally I want to meet likeminded females and couples, but I enter a chatroom and all I get in most cases is the poorest form of chat and most of the time people are too rude to even acknowledge the fact you even said "hello". Folks -- it takes very little to be courtious and friendly.
How many others feel like me - that they are like "dirt" - just because they are past 40, married, trying to meet someone for friendship outside of their own circumstances, etc. I feel that men in general get this treatment.
Just my thoughts - whats the feeling out there??