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sexycpl4u
Over 90 days ago
Bi-curious Female, 52
Straight Male, 52
Ireland
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Hi There
With other sites and even this one you will still get people wasting other peoples time ( Wasters ) it's part and parcel of swinging and has been in the past and will continue to be the case.
But get into the chatroom and chat with others and even go to the meet n greets that way you will be able to see other peeps face to face.
Sexycpl4u
With other sites and even this one you will still get people wasting other peoples time ( Wasters ) it's part and parcel of swinging and has been in the past and will continue to be the case.
But get into the chatroom and chat with others and even go to the meet n greets that way you will be able to see other peeps face to face.
Sexycpl4u
Quote by user=mungrus
Hey folks,
Just wondering if anyone actually meets up with people from the forum, when you pm people they never reply, is it because im male and young or what?
Hi There
Yet again here we are talking about wasters etc etc but if you put the effort into forums and even chatrooms getting to know people before assumig everyone are wasters boy it would be a lot different!! but yet it seems the comments are from guys as always as most think hey we are just looking to get our legs over someone.....takes more than than that !!!!!
All sites are the same run over by guys so pay attention and take time to know people and maybe you may be lucky !!!!
Hi There
If others want a social network then there is plenty of sites out there but bear in mind most couples have a family and can be a bit hard at times to meet but saying that if you are on a swingers site then you know why you are on here, to meet others to have sex....that's what it's about.
I can tell you that we have had about 60 plus emails in the last week and only have manage to arrange one meet out of it...crazy LOL
But there is quiet a lot of genuine people on the site but we had a email not that long ago saying hey send us a facial photo's and we asked why ? their answer was just in case we know you...bloody hell like if you are in the lifestyle like us does it bloody matter !
Bottom line have fun you only live once and your a long time dead !!
Hi
You are incorrect in regards of guys being treated like the plauge. It's down to how much effort that you put into either sending a email or using the chatroom getting to know others also we have said in another post about attending the meet & greets.
There is a lot of genuine people on the site here but remember it is hard for single men to swing but hang in there.
Sexycpl4u
You are incorrect in regards of guys being treated like the plauge. It's down to how much effort that you put into either sending a email or using the chatroom getting to know others also we have said in another post about attending the meet & greets.
There is a lot of genuine people on the site here but remember it is hard for single men to swing but hang in there.
Sexycpl4u
Quote by user=eamon36
HI I agree i think single males here are treated like the plauge. i have sent mails and very little replys an i am real and genuine
Hiya
Something of interest we can across below.
Some subjective scientific research into swinging has been conducted in the United States since the late 1960s. One study, based on an Internet questionnaire addressed to visitors of lifestyle-related sites, found swingers are happier in their relationships as compared to the norm.
[1] 60% of swingers said that swinging improved their relationship; 1.7% said swinging made their relationship less happy. Approximately 50% of those who rated their relationship "very happy" before becoming swingers maintained their relationship had become even happier.
90% of those with less happy relationships said swinging improved them.
Almost 70% of swingers claimed to have no problem with controlling jealousy; approximately 25% admitted "I have difficulty controlling jealousy when swinging" as "somewhat true", while 6% said this was "yes, very much" true.
Swingers rate themselves happier ("very happy": 59% of swingers compared to 32% of non-swingers) and their lives more "exciting" (76% of swingers compared to 54% of non-swingers) than non-swingers, by significantly large margins.
There was no significant difference between the responses of men and women
Hiya
We all could go into this but short & sweet, we all are consenting adults whom all swop with others with each others consent as to were someone else would consider cheating.....there's nothing wrong in wanting sex after when you think about it that it happens if you head out to a night club wanting to meet someone and hey long behold you might have sex.
Sexycpl
We all could go into this but short & sweet, we all are consenting adults whom all swop with others with each others consent as to were someone else would consider cheating.....there's nothing wrong in wanting sex after when you think about it that it happens if you head out to a night club wanting to meet someone and hey long behold you might have sex.
Sexycpl
Quote by user=jomor999
In another Thread, the point of "Moral Stances being discussed on a Swinger Site" was brought up.
So. Is Swinging, or an interest in Swinging, Immoral for consenting adults of sound-mind?
....without getting too deep into the nitty-gritty of psychology and sociology and religion and anything else....
I see nothing immoral about consenting adults having a hedonistic venture.
jo (who is doomed to eternity in fire and brimstone anyway)
Hiya
Have to agree with you also like you have said everyone has a right to opinions :
Have to agree with you also like you have said everyone has a right to opinions :
Quote by user=two4fun
Very interesting reading but at the end of the day (and probably start and middle too) we are adults responsible for our own choices and living with the consequences. It is not for any of us to force our views and morals (if we have any) on others!!! We all chose to join this site and to swing I am sure there are plenty who would seek to condemn us for that but they can keep their opinion to themselves as far as we are concerned even if we believe they have a right to have an opinion.
Quote by user=sexycpl4u
Hi Echo
Then the question should do i part ways with his or her partner. No matter what way you look at this that it is cheating and as for swinging it is of both partners consent that they swap partners open and honest with each other.
So in a nutshell the guy in question really shouldn't be on a swingers site.
But everyone in life has a choice in what they choose to do.
go for it jimmy its too frustrating to go without
Then please quote the post when making a statement such as that at the start instead of now.
Like we have said and will say again this site is a swingers site & each to their own !
This is being devoured, imo anyway, no one has the right to say that online, I won't aplogise for thinking that..That statement smacks of judgement nothing less.
I respect everyones point of view, but judging someone, especialy someone being honest, i can never condone.
Like we have said and will say again this site is a swingers site & each to their own !
Quote by user=addiesfun
Go back to your wife, this site's for swingers not cheaters.
This is being devoured, imo anyway, no one has the right to say that online, I won't aplogise for thinking that..That statement smacks of judgement nothing less.
I respect everyones point of view, but judging someone, especialy someone being honest, i can never condone.
Nobody is sitting in judgement, just swinging ain't the way to go.
Each and everyone in life has a choice but swinging is not the answer also There's a big difference between swinging and cheating, as most swingers are open and honest with their partners they are unlikely to be receptive to people cheating on their partners in order to have sex.
But like we have said it's all down to choice.
Each and everyone in life has a choice but swinging is not the answer also There's a big difference between swinging and cheating, as most swingers are open and honest with their partners they are unlikely to be receptive to people cheating on their partners in order to have sex.
But like we have said it's all down to choice.
Quote by user=addiesfun
Jesus wept and Mary played cards with the three wise men!!!!!!!!
The man is married looking for an affair, not wanting to wipe all forms of life off the earth!!
No one can sit as judge and jury, if that is the case then woe to us all.
Mnay people love their partners , but still need extras, be it sex or emotional attachment to someone else..
To say that your believe in mognogamy and then share your partner with others, but, sit in judgement of a guy looking for an affair is verging on the ludicrous.
Hi Echo
Then the question should do i part ways with his or her partner. No matter what way you look at this that it is cheating and as for swinging it is of both partners consent that they swap partners open and honest with each other.
So in a nutshell the guy in question really shouldn't be on a swingers site.
But everyone in life has a choice in what they choose to do.
Then the question should do i part ways with his or her partner. No matter what way you look at this that it is cheating and as for swinging it is of both partners consent that they swap partners open and honest with each other.
So in a nutshell the guy in question really shouldn't be on a swingers site.
But everyone in life has a choice in what they choose to do.
Quote by user=echo
go for it jimmy its too frustrating to go without
