Please take time to read this as it helps if we all know where we're going from the start. However if you are not genuine, or are a front or tease for some scam don't bother going any further as I WON'T be biting!

I'm interested in NSA action with women and/or couples, preferably with some interest or curiosity about roleplay. (I often mention "Story of O" as its a classic of the Dom/sub genre and has proved to be a good starting point in discussions with previous contacts but it is JUST a suggestion). I've also discovered that this tends to be a more intellectual pursuit, i.e. its NOT usually an area that those just looking for instant gratification are interested in. Of course each of us has our own particular fantasies but I am very receptive to YOUR ideas and suggestions as well as having several of my own:-).

I have considerable experience in a variety of areas, i.e. Dom/sub, C/P, spanking, mild BDSM), but I DO NOT practice any of these to an extreme degree. Instead I find the rituals and atmosphere that go with them to be very exciting. I've also met couples who required a visiting Disciplinarian to take responsibility for the female's corrective training, while the male watched, instructed or participated.

(I've helped introduce a few newbies to this general area and I think they would thank me for it - sorry I can't produce any testimonials -this is a discreet scene after all).

I'm an experienced roleplayer - very credible in role. This does NOT necessarily mean being a good actor, or that YOU have to be, just being able to slip into the fantasy, let go and enjoy the experience. While a good fantasy scenario can be very arousing - of course it isn't essential. It is however great for determining boundaries, i.e. its a way of establishing ground rules and limits. Think of it as being just a way to kick-start the action rather than have us sitting in silence wondering what to do!! Once all parties are agreed, then we can all then enjoy ourselves.

For me, penetrative sex is NOT necessairly a requirement at all, fine if we're all happy with it but remember - there are other ways you know :-)

Apart from the usual expectations, discretion, cleanliness, etc I am also very reliable and punctual. If I say I'll be there...I will, and I expect the same in return...and all details here are factual!! OK the photo is a few years old - comes from an evening class in photography - I am a little greyer now and the beard is gone but I'm still very acceptable...said he modestly! Also I'm well endowed...no really, and neatly trimmed. I'm NOT some weird psychopath, but rather someone you should feel comfortable with.. After an initial contact, I like to speak on the phone just to eliminate messers and am happy to meet for a non-contact quiet chat to check compatability. I don't persist with contact if the other party doesn't seem interested, i.e. if we find we're not compatible we just walk away.

So if interested please get back to me - same name, warm place